Lecture 9: Adulthood Flashcards
(45 cards)
The family life cycle
- In early adulthood,
people typically live on
their own, then marry,
then have children. - In middle-age, their
children leave home,
parenting
responsibilities
diminish. - Late adulthood brings
retirement, growing
old, death of spouse.
Early adulthood
- Vocational choice
- Relationships
Selecting a Vocation
- In societies with many career possibilities, occupational choice is a gradual
process that begins long before adolescence. - Theories of vocational development involve:
1)Fantasy period : early-mid childhood; kids fantasize about career options
2) tentative period: age 11-16; kids think about careers in terms of their
interests, then in terms of their abilities & values
3)** realistic period:** late teens-early twenties; start to narrow their options
Factors Influencing Vocational Choice
- Personality
* Theory of personality types that affect vocational choice:
+ Investigative: enjoys working with ideas: scientific occupation
+ Social: likes interacting with people: human services
+ Realistic: prefers real-world problems and working with objects: mechanical
occupation
+ Artistic: high need for individual expression: artistic field
+ Conventional: likes well-structured tasks, values material possessions & social status:
business
+ Enterprising: adventurous, persuasive, strong leader: sales, supervisory positions or
politics
* Research shows a moderate relationship between these personality types
and vocational choice
* But many people are blends of several personality types and can do well at
more than one kind of occupation
Factors Influencing Vocational Choice
- Family Influences
* SES: impacts type of career chosen - Differences in type of information provided by parents and parenting
practices
Strong predictor of status (Ceo, middle man, low paying) coorelated with educational levels and so ses
- Years of schooling completed powerfully predicts occupational status
- But parental pressure to do well in school and encouragement
toward high-status occupations predict vocational attainment
beyond SES
Factors Influencing Vocational Choice
- Teachers
* Young adults who choose careers requiring extensive education often
report that teachers influenced their choice.
* Teachers offering encouragement and acting as role models can be an
important source of resilience.
Informing youth about options could also help
Factors Influencing Vocational Choice
- Gender Stereotypes
* Women are (slowly) moving more into vocations typically
held by men
* Engineers, lawyers, doctors, business execs still mainly male;
nurses, teachers still typically female
* Why?
* Children’s exposure to gender stereotypes (drawings of scientists)
* Adolescence: Gender-stereotyped messages in high school decrease
girls’ confidence in their abilities
* Young adulthood: concern about succeeding in male-dominated
fields
* Young adulthood: concern about managing family and career
responsibilities
* Men have changed little in their interest in nontraditional
occupations
* Although many men do work happily in them
Dropping out of post-secondary school
- 16% of Canadian university students and 25% of college students
drop out - Most within the first year
- What happens to them?
- 119 young adults who had started university but dropped out.
Interviewed 7 years after starting college/university. - Interviewed about reasons for leaving school, contentment with
decision, current employment.
Results
- Decision to drop out did not necessarily predict negative
outcomes - More than half of the participants transferred to another
school - 83% of those graduated
- Only 2.5% of the participants were unemployed
- Reasons for leaving school?
- 65% identified typical reasons in emerging adulthood
- changing career direction, identity exploration, and mobility of residence
- 35% mentioned negative circumstances
- failing grades, medical problems, financial difficulties
- Most were content with their decision to drop out
Intimacy vs. Isolation
- Maturity involves balancing the desire for self-determination with the
desire for intimacy - Previous stage: identity vs. role confusion For both genders,
- identity achievement is positively correlated with fidelity and love
- identity moratorium (searching for identity) is negatively associated with these outcomes
- Moratorium lasts much longer now than decades ago
Close relationships: Romantic Love
- Biological and social forces contribute to mate selection
Intimate partners generally meet in places where they find people of
their own age, ethnicity, SES, religion
Dating sites: often filter according to these factors
- We usually select partners who resemble ourselves in attitudes,
personality, educational plans, intelligence
The more similar partners are, the more satisfied they tend to be with
their relationship. - Opposites don’t attract!
Pheromones and mate choice
- Major Histocompatibility Complex (MHC): proteins that regulate the
immune system. Genetically coded. - Lead to specific scent in pheromones
- We sniff out a mate whose immune system is optimally different from our own!
- Offspring then have more diverse, robust immune systems
- Women smell dirty t-shirts. Which one would you prefer to socialize
with? - Select shirts from men with MHC genes that differed from their own
- Opposite pattern for women on birth control pills!
- Implications?
Differences in male and female criteria for choosing a partner
reflect evolutionary theory
- Women
- value intelligence, ambition, financial status, and moral character
- prefer slightly older mate
- Men
- prefer a younger mate
- place more emphasis on physical attractiveness and domestic skills
- But neither men nor women put good looks, earning power, and mate’s age relative
to their own at the top of their wish list. They place a higher value on relationship
satisfaction.
Close relationships: Friendships
- Adult friends are usually similar in age, sex, and SES.
- Women have more intimate same-sex friendships than men (though
see Figure 11.10), and often prefer to just talk with friends, while
male friends generally prefer to do an activity - Good sibling relationships in adulthood are also important sources of
psychological well-being
Leaving the parental home
- average age of moving out decreased in recent decades
- due to increase in higher education, living independently before marriage
- but many young adults return home briefly (boomerang kids)
- 2016, 2021 census: 35% in Canada and 42% in Ontario living with parents
- COVID increased this further
- Less common now to leave home to marry
- Leave home to express adult status
- Outcomes:
- When young adults are prepared for independence and feel secure,
departure from the home is linked to more satisfying parent–child interaction
and successful transition to adult roles
Getting married
- Less common but still dominant in Canada
- https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/t1/tbl1/en/tv.act
ion?pid=3910005501 - Common law increasing
- 6% in 1981…23% in 2021
- Happening later (older) than previous
generations - Mean age of first marriage: 30.7 years
(Statistics Canada, 2020) - ~ 40% of marriages end in divorce
- Average age of divorce: 46 years old
Marital Satisfaction
- Key factors: family backgrounds, age at marriage, relationship to
extended family, personality characteristics - Quality of the marital relationship predicts mental health for men and
women - In industrialized nations, satisfaction for men and women positively
correlated with - equal power in the relationship
- sharing of family responsibilities
Cohabitation, Gender, & Marital Commitment
- 197 couples, mean age=27 years
- Cohabitation before marriage
- No cohabitation until engagement/marriage
- Likert-style dedication scale to measure relationship commitment.
- My relationship with my partner is clearly part of my future life
plans. - I like to think of my partner and me more in terms of ‘us’ and ‘we’
than ‘me’ and ‘him/her’. - After 3 years of marriage, completed Marital Adjustment Test (MAT).
- Gives an idea of agreement on major issues between spouses,
happiness with the marriage
Results
- Men who cohabited before engagement or marriage were less dedicated to
their wives than men who did not - Premarital cohabitation had no effect on women’s dedication to their
husbands - Interpretation:
- Women may be more likely than men to view cohabitation as a step toward
marriage. - Some women may also view cohabitation as an opportunity to coax a reluctant
partner into marriage. - Recommendation:
- If you are considering cohabitation, discuss your commitment to and expectations
about the relationship first!
The Decision to Have Children
- Key factors: financial circumstances, personal and religious values,
health conditions - Women
- with traditional gender identities usually decide to have children
- with high-status, demanding careers less often choose parenthood/delay it
- Reasons given for having children:
- warm, affectionate relationship
- stimulation and fun
Transition to Parenthood
- In the early weeks after a baby’s birth, gender roles of men and
women usually become more traditional. - A new baby does not typically cause significant marital strain, but
troubled marriages usually become more troubled. - Shared caregiving predicts greater parental happiness and sensitivity
to the baby. - Dual-earner marriages: larger disparity in parental responsibilities associated
with greater decline in marital satisfaction after childbirth, especially for
women.
Single adults
- Rates of never-married 30- 34-yr-olds have risen sharply
- about 1/3 of males and 1/4 of females
- also divorced adults
- Pros and cons
- Freedom, mobility
- Loneliness, dating, limited social life, insecurity
- Common to experience high stress in late 20s
- May be due to negative stereotyping of singles
Divorce and remarriage
- Strongest predictors of divorce: infidelity, spending money foolishly,
drinking /drugs
Increased chances of divorce if
* younger at marriage
* had parents who divorced
* low level of education
* low SES
- On average, people remarry within four years of divorce, men
somewhat faster than women. - Remarriages especially vulnerable to breakup
- negative patterns of interaction carried over from the first marriage
- stress resulting from stepfamily situations
- Blended families generally take 3-5 years to develop the
connectedness and comfort of intact biological families.
Middle adulthood
- Relationships
Sandwich generation - Cognitive development