Lvl 2 Mod 4 Flashcards
What is the felt sense of the client’s state at the point they are accessing core child emotion?
Can be a dream-like state
Three functions of experiments in the accessing stage
- Deepen into mindfulness
- Get further clarity on the themes at play
- Help the client get unstuck
Describe an experiment that can be used to help a client have a sense of control over a particular emotion or sensation? (Four parts)
- Ask the client to intensify the emotion/sensation
- Ask mindfulness questions
- Ask client to release/lessen the emotion/sensation
- Ask mindfulness questions
What part of the process is just as important as the actual experiment?
The set-up of the experiment
What is the main core organizer focus in developmental injury work vs trauma work
The main focus in developmental injury is relational emotions whereas with trauma it is the body
What are two questions we can ask either to ourselves or to the client when we are processing the primary affect?
- What behavior is it motivating?
- What unmet need does it hold?
What is the hardest part of developmental work?
Getting past the defenses (“peeling them away”) . The client is well trained to employ these to avoid feeling the core pain
What are patterned emotions?
Relational emotions which are designed to elicit a specific response
What is one question that Laia uses to distinguish a primary or patterned emotion? How does the answer inform her hypothesis?
How do I feel toward the client?
Authenticity, empathy, being connected, they’re not pushing her away are all indicators of a primary emotion
Feeling bored or anxious are signs the client is experiencing a patterned emotion.
What is a motivation of client’s exaggerating emotions/malingering? What are two fears that keep this pattern going?
To put a mask on to get attention/get needs met.
Two fears are
- If you get better you’ll lose the relationship.
- If you are honest about your real emotions/needs, it won’t be good enough to get attention.
If we are not careful to spot the transformation, what two things could happen?
- We’ll progress into the next wave of pain, as the client tends to go ahead once the pain has lessened
- The procedural tendencies can dismiss the transformation and thus prevent it from being integrated
Why do we try to go for the earliest instance of the developmental injury?
Because changing that first experience is hypothesized to cause domino effect to other later similar experiences
6 categories of the ways we can support integration, with an example for each category
- Through the Body as it is- mindfully study how the body supports the new experience.
- Through the body doing a Movement, Action, Posture - Find a bodily postural, movement or gesture to anchor the new experience
- Through Emotions - identify the new ways they relate to a particular emotions
- Through New Beliefs - identify what they believe about themselves, others and/or the world
- Through Relationships - Practice new relational body language or actions in therapeutic relationship that support the new experience
- Into the Future- Reflect and discuss how new experience will affect the future
Three examples of ways to integrate a transformation by discussing the future
- Reflect and discuss how new experience will affect the future
- Plan ways to integrate new experience in action in daily life.
- Bring up the challenging or stressful environment they need this new capacity to face
What are two things we can say to clients to encourage them to titrate just a little into difficult emotions/beliefs/sensations?
- Stay with that just 1%
- Be with that just a little
Three important questions we can ask to help get more information on the setting the child is in of a state specific memory?
- Where is he/she/they ?
- Is this child alone?
- What is he/she/they doing?
What question can we ask to invite some resources into a moment where we’re processing primary emotions from a childlike state?
How can we resource that child right here right now?
What question can we ask part of doing a boundary creation exercise for a child part?
If she was able to create a boundary, what materials would she use?
6 examples of physical experiments
- Finding an object to represent a situation, person or emotion and then using that external representation to study the impact of moving towards, away from and/or setting a boundary
- Repeating in slow-motion a tension, gesture, posture, movement, gait, etc.
- Exaggerating a tension, gesture, posture, movement, gait, etc.
- Doing the opposite of a movement, gesture, or posture
- Expressing a feeling or belief through movement
- Sensing or taking on the body of the “child” in a particular memory
What are three experiments that can be done within the therapy relationship to explore a client’s relational tendencies
- Increase/decrease distance between therapist and client
- Therapist offers a hands or reaches out to the client
- Client sets a physical boundary with the therapist and optionally, the therapist crosses that boundary
What does Laia do to help a client explore how they navigate through different cultural spaces
A physical experiment involving taking on the posture associated with the feelings of navigating that cultural space
What type of material is offered as a verbal experiment in the accessing stage? And what is a likely response?
Material that is contrary to the negative core belief of the client
Likely the client will reject them (elicits the procedural pattern)
What 4 techniques do we used to stabilize mindfulness
- Spend time bringing the client into the mindfulness state (don’t jump too early into experiments)
- Linking COs and stitching to frame
- Adjust rhythm and pacing as needed – look to find a hypnotizing rhythm
- Try to include all the core organizers
3 Avenues for processing developmental injury/adaptation
- Studying and befriending adaptive strategies (covered in Mod 3-5)
- Parts/child states (covered in Mod 5-6)
- Relationship internal/external, especially in context of therapeutic relationship (covered in Mod 6-7)