Managing Conflict Flashcards

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The nature of conflict

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  • stemming from differences in goals or desires are not good or bad
  • fundamental to conflict are information and perception
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Beneficial consequences of conflict

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  • recognizes talents and innovative abilities
  • identifies an outlet for expression of aggressive urges
  • introduces innovation and change
  • diagnoses problems or areas of concern
  • establishes unity
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Harmful consequences of conflict

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  • negative effect on emotional and physical well-being
  • emphasis on personal welfare over that of the group
  • diversion of time and energy from important goals
  • financial and emotional costs
  • personal fatigue
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Maintaining an environment supportive of professional communication enables….

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conflict to be handled appropriately with positive outcomes

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Empathy

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  • feeling what the other person is feeling and seeing the situation as he/she sees it
  • believing that the other person’s feelings are valid, legitimate and justified
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Equality

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  • all participants in the process are equal
  • respect for individual differences is apparent
  • people are comfortable expressing themselves freely and openly
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Openness

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  • feelings and thoughts stated directly and honestly

- no attempt to disguise real object of disagreement

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Positiveness

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  • using agreement as a basis for approaching disagreements and impasses
  • conflict is viewed as positive
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Supportiveness

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  • feelings expressed with spontaneity rather than strategy

-requires flexibility and a willingness to change personal opinions/positions

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Conflict Resolution

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  • conflict is seldom created intentionally

- may occur because of lack of awareness of how our own behavior contributes to interpersonal problems

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First step to conflict resolution

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-recognize one’s own conflict resolution style

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Common conflict resolution styles

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  • avoidance
  • accommodation
  • force
  • compromise
  • collaboration
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Avoidance

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one person uses passive behaviors and withdraws from the conflict; neither person is able to pursue goals

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Accommodation

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one person puts aside his/her goals in order to satisfy the other person’s desires

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Force

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one person achieves his/her own goals at the expense of the other person

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Compromise

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both people give up something to experience partial goal attainment

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Collaboration

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both people actively try to find solutions that will satisfy them both

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Second step to conflict resolution

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engage in active listening

  • reduces the emotional charge from the situation
  • active listening techniques
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Active listening techniques

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  • paraphrasing
  • reflecting
  • open questioning
  • acknowledging
  • summarizing
  • framing
  • reframing
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Third step of conflict resolution

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all people involved must view their conflict as a problem to be solved mutually

21
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When conversation is escalating…

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move to private location

22
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How to speak when there is a conflict

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normal tone of voice

  • use “I” messages
  • maintain eye contact
  • open body stance with hands at your side or open towards the individual (not invading their space)
23
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Do not physically back away unless…

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you perceive you are actually in physical danger

24
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Offer _______, but do not make excuses

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explanations

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If you say you will take care of something, or report something, or change something….

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do it

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Promoting a Professional Nursing Image

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  • use positive communication techniques
  • provide a safe environment in which patients and coworkers can ask questions and learn
  • focus energy toward solving conflict
  • maintain clear, open, sensitive communication
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Constructive Conflict

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  • results in either:
  • improved client care or
  • improved work satisfaction or
  • improved communication among the work group
  • presents opportunity to stimulate desired change that benefits the organization
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Destructive Conflict

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  • causes stress and interferes with the quality of client care provided
  • decreases work satisfaction
  • decreases effectiveness of communication between coworkers
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Communication Techniques

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  • cool down and think about the message you want to send
  • do it in private
  • speak in normal tone of voice
  • use “I” messages
  • maintain eye contact
  • open body stance
  • offer explanations not excuses
  • follow through