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Commitment is dedicated to promote each other’s ________________ and _________________.

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welfare & happiness

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What are the two types of times necessary for fantastic families?

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Quality/Quantity

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This belief in the quality of a strong family provides strength and purpose.

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Spiritual Well-Being

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_________________ is emotionally driven.

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affection

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We (people) want to be ________________ for who we are and for what we do

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valued

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What is one way in ending fragmentation within the commitment of families?

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Setting Boundaries

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According to your notes, when a person commits to the long haul, they are hanging in there through difficult ________________.

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times

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To have a fantastic family one needs to examine their marriage for DANGER SIGNS

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Danger Signs

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When children can come and talk to their parents at any time and about anything, this is called the ________________.

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Open Door Policy

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To handle a conflict correctly, one must_____________________________

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Ban the Bombs

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Good communication promotes mental _________________

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health

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A secret to cultivating appreciation and affection is to ______________________

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Dig for Diamonds

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_______________________ expressions of appreciation gracefully.

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Accept

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A rule for good communication is to get inside the other person’s _______________________

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World

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Good communication builds ___________

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belonging

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James 1:9

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Wherefore my beloved brethren be slow to speak slow to anger and slow to wrath.

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Parents/Caregivers are overprotecting when they are ____________ children from everything

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Rescuing

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A way parents, caregivers and counselors overindulge is that we ___________ them.

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Bribe

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Not all parents have a ___________ impact on their children

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Positive

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Ultimate parenting example is to pass on our _______________

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faith

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All relationships require a ________________ of time and effort

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commitment

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Too much overprotection keeps kids from growing into strong, _____________ adults

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independent

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Over-controlling parents can constantly demand and ______________

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critique

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Parents are motivated by ___________ or wanting to improve on their childhood when they are overindulging

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guilt

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Children should get what they ______ not what they want
need
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According to your notes, Children are a ___________ from God
gift
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Most parents are working hard to raise their children, but find that kids are ____________
defiant
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Overindulging prevents ________ and encourages spoiling
maturity
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Stressing _______ through achievement and then achievement to perfectionism is unreasonable
success
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Best to learn from mistakes _____ in life
early
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___________ displayed how to and how not to have a positive impact on children
David
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What are the two losses that parents and children deal with in unhealthy love?
physical/experience
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When we are facing fear, parent's/caregiver tend to ______________
over indulge
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A reason we give unhealthy love is because we are compensating for an absent ______
parent
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When getting back at a spouse a split family can use kids as ________
pawns
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Parents tend to feed off their children's __________
achievements
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Ephesians 6:1-3 tells us that ___________ will bring self-discipline, and this brings stability leading to a long life
obedience
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The key to understanding a child lies in understanding the child's perceptual field. Only __________ will change perceptions
experience
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Parents/caregivers hurry children toward independence before they are ______________ ready
emotionally
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Children _____________ themselves more fully and more directly through self-initiated spontaneous play than they do verbally because they are more comfortable with play
express
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Play is voluntary activity by ____________
nature
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An advantage of play therapy would be ______________; which would include a child's need for function, mastery over situations and mastery over conflict
intrapersonal
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Garry Landreth defines a play therapy as a "dynamic interpersonal __________ between a child and a therapist trained in play therapy procedures"
relationship
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The role of the child-centered therapist is to facilitate the client's ______________
growth
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___________ is considered important and is facilitated by comments and questions by the therapist
interpretation
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The counselor does not lead or take responsibility for the _____________ of the play
direction
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Play therapy ____________ children to use their own natural medium of communication-play
enables
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Proverbs 21:2
Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.
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Dr. Charles Schaefer gave a list of benefits for play therapy. He believed that play therapy enhances ________
relationships
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Dr. Schaefer also believed that play is the natural medium of self-expression in ___________
communication
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Dr. Gary Landreth asserts that play therapy will help the child experience a feeling of ___________
control
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Dr. Gary Landreth asserts that play therapy will also help the child become sensitive to the process of _____________
coping
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According to your notes, ________________ are invaluable sources of information about the child's developmental history and interactional patterns
Parents
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Children are not miniature _______________
adults
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A pitfall of over-protecting would be a lack of ____________ and social responsibility
discipline
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A pitfall of over-indulging causes children to become self-_____________
destructive
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A pitfall of over-controlling would be that the children will ______________ themselves for everything
blame
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Another pitfall of over-controlling is that the through over-controlling the parent can ___________ the child's view of self through criticism
restrict
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John Bowl by developed the 3 stages of separation. What are these three stages?
protest/despair/detatchment
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The Proximity Principle is the fear of ____________ is the fundamental human fear
abandonment
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Dr. Mary Ainsworth developed a method for measuring an infant's security. This method focused attention on how the infant responded with _________________
a stranger
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There are 4 attachment styles. The ____________ response of self-dimension was built on comfort and protection
secure
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This attachment style is based on a _____________ response where in abusive families the child questioned their sense of self and others
disorganized
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_______ believe they are good and careful
parents
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The Bible tells us God desires _______ with us
Intimacy
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Relationships define the _______ of our lives
quality
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The _______ wires itself based on experience
brain
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When repairing the damage or preventing the Soul Wound, that person is _______ a healthy family context
establishing
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Core Beliefs Relationship Rules is when a person is measuring ______ Beliefs
attachment
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In times of emotional distress or loss, it has been found that people turn to _______ rather than the church
prayer
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In times of emotional distress or loss it has been found that grieving persons tend to ____________ their faith and religious devotion
increase
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God is the Ultimate attatchment figure, a ___________ for the wounded soul
refuge
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___________: I'm too flawed; God is sure to reject me. I probably committed the unpardonable sin
ambivalent
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___________: I'm flawed, beyond repair
disorganized
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____________; He isn't there for me when I need Him. I will have to go at life alone. I dont really need Him.
avoidant
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____________; He is there I can count on him. He will accept me in spite of my flaws
secure
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What are three kinds of religious doubt?
factual/emotional/volitional
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Step 1 of Breaking Free | ___________- Your Story- Narrative Recall
remember
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Step 2 of Breaking Free | ___________- Your pain and need for healing- "Cant heal what you dont feel"
recognize
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Step 3 of Breaking Free | ___________- the meaning of your story
reframe
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Step 4 of Breaking Free | __________- Your Story- 'forgiveness, grace and acceptance'
repair
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Step 5 of Breaking Free | __________- deepening emotional strands of safety, trust and intimacy; able to accept influence from others
reconnect
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The Avoidant Attachment Style has __________ Connections -- difficult to listen sensitively to the thoughts and feelings of those are they closest to
emotional
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In the Avoidant Attachment Style parenting is ____________
insensitive
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The Ambivalent Attachment Style has a _____________ dependency (display their insecurity)
melodramatic
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The Disorganized Attachment Style limits the ability to __________
reflect
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The Disorganized Attachment Style is typically an ______________ family
abusive
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The person who has the Secure Attachment Style has a _____________ in 'Who I am' (able to express their thoughts and opinions more confidently)
confidence
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A characteristic of the Secure Attachment Style is ___________ Strength (not afraid of emotions)
emotional
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Most researched area of attachment theory in the context of religion is ______________
emotional distress
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Research Shows people seek God for a safe haven and secure base during times of _____________
stress

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