Midterm Flashcards

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Love for a friend

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Phileo

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God kind of Love

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Agape

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Show of affection

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Storge

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Sexual attraction

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Eros

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The highest kind of love

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Agape

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Love is

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An act of faith

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Marriages without agape will

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Most assuredly end up in disaster

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Who will never be as close to you as your husband or wife?

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Your children.

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What is not a common basis for friendship

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Common experiences

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The basic unit of all society

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The home or family

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The basic unit of society

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Having as it’s nucleus 2 adults cooperating in the care and tearing of their own or adopted children

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Produced family problems

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Sin

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Disrespect and rebellion is produced by

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Sin

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What are mans responsibility in Gods restoration of the home

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Repentance of sins
Receive Christ as lord
Search scriptures for God
Practice God

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What originated with God?

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The concept of family

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What are the 4 levels of friendships

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Acquaintance
Causal friendship
Close friendship and fellowship
Intimate friendship and fellowship

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Acquaintance

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Based on occasional contacts
Freedom to ask general questions

View each acquaintance as a Devine appointment
Design appropriate general ?s for new acquaintances

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Casual friendship

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Based on common interests activities &concerns
Freedom to ask specific ?s: opinions goals ideas wishes

Learn to identify and praise positive qualities
Design appropriate specific ?s for youth children and adults

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Close friendship and fellowship

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Based on mutual life goals
Freedom to suggest mutual projects towards reaching life goals

Visualize achievements in each other’s lives
Discern and develop appropriate projects to gain this achievement

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Intimate friendship and fellowship

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Based on commitment to the development of each other’s character
Freedom to correct each other

Open honesty with discretion
Discern basic causes of character deficiencies and suggest solutions

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The purpose of dating

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To find a person you are compatible with, with the goals of marriage

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Characteristics of genuine Love

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1 Cor 13:4-8

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Prerequisites for dating

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Dangers of dating
Gods dating standards
Purpose not to lower standards

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Definition of family

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The basic unit of society having it’s nucleus 2 adults cooperating in the care and rearing of their own or adopted children

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Gods answer to family problems
Calvary
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Man's responsibility in God's restoration of the home
Repentance of sin Receive Christ as Lord Search scriptures for God-ordained role Practice God-ordained role daily
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Discerning the right life partner
Eliminate the 7 most prevalent causes of mate selection Develop a clear image of ur ideal spouse Find a person to love who's like u Get healthy Find love u feel deep in ur heart Let passionate love mature b4 u marry Master the art of intimacy Learn 2 clear conflict from the love road Refuse to proceed until u can commit Celebrate marriage with full support of fam and friends
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The concept of fam originated with God
Revealed in the triune nature: The father The son The Holy Spirit
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Submission of wife
As a wife submits she enters into her God ordained role in the relationship. She releases the grace of God in her husbands life for him to become the best man, husband, & father he can possibly be.
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Christ-church | Husband-wife
Christ=head of the church Husband=head of wife Christ=savior of body Husband=protects, delivers, and preserves his wife Christ=lord of believer Husband=earthly lord, representative of JC!
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What is a covenant
A formal, solemn, and binding agreement made between 2 people Bond, bind together, everlasting, establishment of a covenant between 2 people
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Qualities God manifests Ina covenant relationship with man
Love of God Faithfulness of God Forgiveness of God Selflessness of God
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Qualities of a successful marriage
The love of God must be in every marriage Faithfulness to each other Forgiveness Selflessness must be in the heart of each partner
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Biblical attitudes to overcome marital irritations
``` Peacemaker Submission Forbearance Love Meekness ```
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Effective submission
Liberates wife to find true fulfillment
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Spiritual provision
Deut. 6:6-9 Verbalize Gods word continually
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Who are the mediators of Gods covenant with the family?
Parents
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The act if transmitting a verbal or written message
Communication
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Communication: (2 points)
Must begin with Communication with God Brings people to the goal of becoming one in judgement, decision, and action
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What is the steering mechanism to communication?
Character
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Love without communication is
Worthless
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Keys to harmonious communication
Quantity of communication | Quality of communication
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Ways to communicate:
Word Gesture Spirit
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Successful communication builds and maintains:
Successful marriages
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Solutions are born out of
Communication
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Honest disclosure will result I.
Personal growth
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The best way to find out if a message has been received
Have the receiver repeat it
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In perfect communication the hearer must
Understand what was said
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Distortion occurs when
The hearer misunderstands what was said
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Marriage is not a romantic balcony, but a:
Spiritual battleground
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What keeps couples from properly fighting the spiritual battle for their marriage?
Because the enemy satan is invisible
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Definition of submission
To yield to the authority of another, surrender, defer to the judgement or discretion of another, comply with, to be subject to To yield the opinion of leading in order to follow
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A husband and wife must understand and practice the concept of
Submission in Gods order for the home
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Purpose of submission:
To demonstrate God's nature and being- he is a God of order Ensure a successful home Makes home available for Gods blessings
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The love of God must be the base of
Every marriage
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Parents are the mediators of Gods covenant with:
The family
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``` Parents are to bring forth Gods - - - He has placed in each child ```
Deposit Potential Ministry
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Parents are to aid in production of Godly - -
Character | Maturity
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What is moral
Relating to the practice, manners or conduct of man in relation to each other and with reference to right and wrong
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Discipline should be motivated by
Love and concern for the child