mm_20220510144738 Flashcards
(135 cards)
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Deep breath smile head over shoulder then probably an open ended question
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Pretend to leave but during ask follow up
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Time constraint
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Use liberally but be steady with one foot out the door
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Nature will expel your genes
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If you don’t learn how to seduce women
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The Mystery Method
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The Science of Social Dynamics
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Three portions and their order
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Attraction, comfort, seduction
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Girls of beauty are seldom ever
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Alone
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You should be able to seduce any woman in 7 hours
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7 hour rule
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In order to attract a beautiful woman
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You must disqualify yourself as a potential suitor
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Geeks are individuals
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Who have issues applying their intelligence to social dynamics
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It’s not about looks
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It’s about conveying you are the tribal leader
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The more Snr value you can convey
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The more a woman sees positive probabilities of survival and reproductio.
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Align with other human beings who have S&R value
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Survival and reproduction
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Ultimate purpose is to survive
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Penultimate purpose is to reproduce
14
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How many days the average American live?
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Tens of thousands of days 28,251 Days 36500 if you make it to 100
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Venusian Arts
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Art of picking up a woman you had not known previously and establishing a sexual relationship with her
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Dynamic social Homeostasis
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All animals are conflicted between protecting themselves from others and aligning themselves with others. The center is dynamic social homeostasis
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Emotions are
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SocioHomeoStatis Indicators
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You are a biological machine
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But an out of date model without appropriate understanding
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You exist in the most population dense instance
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Of this timeline. This spike is completely unprecedented and exponentially changing environment
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Culture
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Enables humans to circumvent physical limitation
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Nature hasn’t recalibrated
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The behavioral or emotional circuitry to survive in this dynamic
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People are still
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Cavemen
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Approach anxiety
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Derives from prior fear of survival and social isolation
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Human beings are motivated by
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Unsatisfied needs Lower needs but be satisfied prior to higher LoveSafety Health Esteem
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Health, Wealth, Love
Big three of happiness
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Women are persuaded my emotions
Not logic
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Make your engagement emotional
Don't attempt to sway logically
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Love or hate
No you don't you're attracted to me
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People are constantly asking questions
To dictate your value
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Discretion is
A virtue
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Don't brag
Women don't want there to be social consequences for sleep with you
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Anti slut defense
Women are always thinking about their reputation
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Plausible deniability
Give a woman plausible deniability regarding a hookup
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Give women an excuse to stop by your place
One thing led to another....
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Act with Moxy
Inventive courage always be leading the interaction
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Women expect
You to lead the conversation in interesting directions
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Act with Moxy
Moxy means inventive courageLead the interaction Women seldom take responsibility for what's going on
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Lead
Make things happen, foster each shared moment. You will be held responsible for the fun in the moment
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Persistence
Don't give up too easily assume token resistance,
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If you can't take her crap
How can you protect her from other people's crap?
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A woman's number one priority is safety and security
Women test for congruence for this reason
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A woman doesn't respect
A man with no boundaries she can walk all over
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The more a woman is invested in you
The higher probability of sex and involvement Emotional Social Monetary
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What would a high value man do?
What is a high value man?
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Be fun and playful
Be challenging and unpredictable
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Your objective isn't to have sex with her
Give her the opportunity to fall in love with you
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Women are neither good nor empathetic
Will move onto someone whose got something better going on when they are able
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When a woman says "I have a boyfriend"
You've telegraphed attraction too quickly
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Emotions
Circuits in the brain that judge value and create motivation
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People act on their emotions
Then backwards rationalize
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What a woman likes or says she likes
Doesn't correlate with what resonates with her emotionally
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A woman's reputation
She is more likely to indulge in sexual activity if her reputation isn't at stake
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A woman will seek out fun and stimulation
And will actively avoid discomfort
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A man of value
Pursues ones dreams
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Keep a woman between revalidation and rejection
Make her chase
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M3 Model
Attract, Comfort, Seduction
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Game happens in the field
Focus on building skills not getting a partner
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Newbie mission
4 nights a week 4 hours each night. Average of 3 approaches per hour for a year
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Practice makes
Calibration
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Habits become
Internalized
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Women are more socially savvy because they have more practice
Men have to make an active effort to be in the field. Women are constantly in the game
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Think of it as a game
If you care it will negatively influence your approach
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The man who plays this like a game
Is the most likely to win
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Sexual relationship structure
Courtship. Sex, break up
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Replication value is an attraction factor
Only a minority of a woman's switches are set to respond to his replication value most of them are set to his survival value
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Pre selection
A man surrounded by women is considerably more attractive
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4 M3 mistakes
1. Don't start at seduction 2. Don't start at comfort 3. Attraction and comfort 4. Attraction, comfort then seduction
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The nice guy
Is no less a bother than the seducer
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Hi I'm ____ what's your name
Leads to constant of protection shield
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Women are approached thousands of times
By nice guys the fact that you want something is implied, sexual attraction is assumed
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Short term defenses
Are not long term personality flaws
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Use 3-5 iois as indicator to escalate to comfort stage
Asks your name Touches you When you hold her hand she holds back Laughs at your jokes
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Nonsexual intimate kissing
Is comfort building under 30 seconds
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If things escalate before seduction
Deescelate. Is this foreplay?
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Show improvement in S and R value
To escape the friend zone
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3 types of location change
Move, bounce, time Bridge
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Example of good game
Indirect opener, demonstration of higher value, raises value with stories and other skill sets showing higher value, use take away to create a chase
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Method practitioners
Are attractors not seducers
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Enjoy the value of those in front of you
Don't look around seriously telegraphing that you're looking for something better while simultaneously telegraphing negative social proof
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Direct eye contact
Tends to be an ioi and set open invitation
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Reach point of acception
Hook point generally indicated by iois
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Unconscious replication agenda
The reason people actually go out
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Scope out a location before
Making it a practice place
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Proximity ioi
5 to 8 feet away standing away
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Open set in three seconds
Reactively
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Work the room to start
Don't be picky
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Opener
No hitting on, engage the group first even disengage target
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Discover groups relationship dynamic
Before any presentation of ioi
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Be comfortable and friendly
Enthusiasm is contagious. Smile more. Open set, smile less
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Iods
Indicators of disinterest
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Do not be affected by
A woman's shielding behavior. Never get angry
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Expressiveness
Animated facial expression, vocal tonality go over not under
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Game with a high energy level
Come in with slightly higher energy level than set
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False time constraints
If I didn't have to go right now which i do..... I can only stay here for a sec but....
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Body rocking
Using physical movement to illustrate that you are about to leave
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If you are not moving for any calculated reason
Keep movement to a minimum avoid fidgeting
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Remain rooted during approach if not working moving set
Don't lean into her
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Working a moving set
Walk along same trajectory slightly in front Turn head back run opener then speak with head forward
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She should always feel like you're about to leave
In A1
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Seated sets
Don't stand during seated sets implies lower value OpenUse false time constraint mid opener Sit mid stack Get back up during stack Thenc
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Calibration
Imitate sets body language when they lean in
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Speak clearly
And with instances of confident pausing
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Step one choose target
Ignore/neg
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Iois
Reinstated Conversation Giggles KinoTosses hair Attempts to build rapport Smiles at youProximity Interrupts nearby conversation or laughs at what you say Initiates dialog
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Passive iois
Friends go but she stays Hangs with you for an extended periodFollows you Doesn't move away when too close
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Fake iois
Using iois for manipulate instances.
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Iods
Indicator disinterest Avoidance Not contributing to dialogImpatienceWalks or looks away Leans away "Uh huh"
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Tao of Steve
Be desireless, be excellent
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Ioi
Congruence of negs being lightly returned
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Blowing your nose subtly
Shows your lack of interest Too bad I'm gay I've eaten girls like you for breakfast Where's your off buttonNo touchy
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Get as close to the breaking point
Without crossing the line
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If you cross the line
I'm monumentally sorry I didn't mean to step over your boundaries I'm a bit of an asshole and I'm sorry
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Negs: a telegraphed social value judgement
I don't think we should get to know each other Too bad I'm gay No touchy Where's your off button? The better looking the woman the more negs should be rendered
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You're too much of a nice girl to me
You don't get out much do you? Helllooooo I'm talkingIs she always like that :pPlayfully
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Neg=
IOD
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When she's right at the breaking point
Start appreciating nonaesthethic traits
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Shotgun negs
Group negs that illustrate you don't consider her a sexual interest
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Don't seem like you're looking for a reaction with negs
Don't actively attempt to show s and r value in an obvious way
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DHVs
Social proof from gaming the room Telling fun interesting stories State characteristics in subtext
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Dhvs
PreselectionLeader of men Supporter and protector of loved onesBeing nonneedy Having a strong frame Interesting knowledgeEmotional stimulation Socially in demand Connection
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Group theory
Approach group become highest valued man
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If you switch up threads on a pause
You show you care about the conversation and telegraph interest
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You must be able to contribute 90% of the conversation at the beginning
You need to lead the conversation
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Be talkative af
3-5 simultaneous threads
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Cut threads
If it doesn't serve you change the thread up
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Introduce me to your friends that's the polite thing to do
Solid shotgun transition neg
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He who opens the set lead the set
As wing your objective is to help the wing hit the target
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Don't steal the wings target
Always agree with your wing
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The shorter the set
The earlier you can use the story in set
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Prop lock in
Give target things attaining compliance/lock in
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Compliance tests
Utilized to track attraction have a woman have her hand out then spin her around
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Create absurd enjoyable scenarios
Pepper into dialog
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False disqualifiers
Use False disqualifiers to disarm Shows a lack of neediness It would never work out between isYou're fired You're a nurse I can't even talk to you I'm not even boyfriend material We would never get along
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Single set
Approach directly no waiting smile prior to approach. If eye contact is made for a single approach on contact
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Single frame
Approach with curiosity I wanted to see if there was more that meets the eye
