Peacemaker material

Question 1

The 3 types of responses to conflict (Escape, Attack, Peacemaking/Biblical) with the examples for each of the 3 types

Answer 1

Escape: Suicide, Flight, Denial
Attack: Assault, Litigation, Murder
Peacemaking: Overlook, Reconcile, Negotiation, Arbitration

Question 2

> Suicide, Flight, Denial
Assault, Litigation, Murder
Overlook, Reconcile, Negotiation, Arbitration

Answer 2

The 3 types of responses to conflict (Escape, Attack, Peacemaking/Biblical) with the examples for each of the 3 types

Question 3

The 4 step ‘biblical’ pattern for reconciliation: i.e. the “4 Gs” (just the titles)

Answer 3

Glorify God
Get the log out of your eye
Giving Loving Correction
Go and Be Reconciled

Question 4

Glorify God
Get the log out of your eye
Giving Loving Correction
Go and Be Reconciled

Answer 4

The 4 step ‘biblical’ pattern for reconciliation: i.e. the “4 Gs” (just the titles)

Question 5

The 4 promises of forgiveness

Answer 5

‘I will not dwell on this incident’
‘I will not bring this incident up and use it against you’
‘I will not talk to others about this incident’
‘I will not allow this incident to stand between us’

Question 6

‘I will not dwell on this incident’
‘I will not bring this incident up and use it against you’
‘I will not talk to others about this incident’
‘I will not allow this incident to stand between us’

Answer 6

The 4 promises of forgiveness plus what forgiveness is not

Question 7

7 things Forgiveness is not:

Answer 7

A feeling
Forgetting
Excusing
A temporary pardon
Expecting the offender to earn/deserve our forgiveness
A desire to punish the offender
Demanding a guarantee that it won’t happen again

Question 8

A feeling
Forgetting
Excusing
A temporary pardon
Expecting the offender to earn/deserve our forgiveness
A desire to punish the offender
Demanding a guarantee that it won’t happen again

Answer 8

7 things Forgiveness is not:

Question 9

What makes a good mediator plus the basics of the One-Down Position including its potential misuse. This is covered by Elmer.

Answer 9

Status and influence
Respected by both parties
Is impartial but understanding

Question 10

-Status and influence
-Respected by both parties
-Is impartial but understanding

Answer 10

What makes a good mediator