PerDev Flashcards
(50 cards)
between two people or groups is the way in which they feel and behave towards each other
Relationship
Sustained series of interactions
Based of interdependence and fulfillment
Personal relationship
The very first meaningful relationship in every human being encounter is one’s mother
Even before birth the mother-child relationship is already established
Attachment and developments
primary caregiver is present most of the time
Secure
primary caregiver is cold and detached
Avoidant
driven by sex hormones
Lust
the love struck phase
Attraction
when the couple decides to continue with the relationship
Attachments
we meet people who we immediately like or dislike
Transference
we develop a sense of familiarity
Propinquity
we often like people who we have similarities with
Similarity
we like people who likes us back
Reciprocity
onnotes positive health and reproductive fitness
Physical attractiveness
moments when someone understands us
Intimacy
act of deciding or consistently fulfil and live with agreements
Commitment
intense state of pursuant
Passion
It can easily be described as “Friendship”; people have a strong bond and closeness with each other which doesn’t include physical attraction and long-term commitment.
Liking (Intimacy)
This kind of love can be called “Love at First Sight” where you hardly know anything about the person but are only physically attracted to them.
Infatuation (Passion)
Can be observed from a long-term relationship,where the partners involved have lost all feelings and closeness with each other.
Empty Love (Committment)
This kind of love is commonly found at the initial stage of the relationship, the “Dating Period” before any long-term plans and promises are made.
Romantic Love (Passion + Intimacy)
This could be commonly found in long-lasting marriages, where the physical attraction dies over time but the partners are deeply connected and committed to each other.
Companionate Love (Intimacy + Commitment)
The “whirlwind courtships” type,where you decide to get into a long-term commitment only based on passion and physical intimacy.
Fatuous Love (Passion + Commitment)
The final kind of love is the ultimate goal of a relationship. This is the kind of love people ultimately aim to find.This kind of love could be easy to achieve but it is very difficult to maintain it in the long run.
Consummate Love (Intimacy + Passion + Commitment)
two or more people who interact with one another
Social Relationship