PSY 118 CH 8 Flashcards

Question

what are the 4 elements of communication apprehension

Answer 1

**-anxiety caused by having to talk with others' -1.avodiance; choosing not to participate -2.withdrawl- "clamming up" say as little as possible - whispering and being quiet. -3. disruption;inability to make fluent statements. -4.overcommunication; e.g. nervous system.**

Answer 2

-focuses on saying and getting what you want at the expenses of others -dont care what others want.

Answer 3

-involves "giving in" to others

Answer 4

-involves acting in your own best interests by expressing ur thoughts directly/ honestly.

Answer 5

-is more than just hearing (the physical experience of sound.) -is voluntary / requires that we attend to and interpret what we hear.

Answer 6

W;less assertive in communication M;more aggressive in communication -------------------------------------------------- W;more rapport talk (convo amied at establishing connections/negotating relationships, having emotional connection and feelings. M; more report talk (talk designed to provide information, give advice, men tend to find solutions to a problem.) ---------------------------------------------------------------- W;rely on self disclosure more than men. Interrupt conversations more than women.

Answer 7

(high concern for self and others) -everyone wins, takes more trust + work (+,+) -Sarah and Alex demonstrate collaborating behavior in their relationship by actively working together to plan their vacation. Instead of prioritizing their individual preferences or compromising on their desires, they collaborate to create an itinerary that combines both of their interests. They communicate openly, compromise where necessary, and engage in joint decision-making to ensure that they both have a memorable and fulfilling experience. - this where you both put 100% effort... Involves working together with others to achieve a mutually beneficial outcome. Focuses on finding win-win solutions where all parties' needs and interests are met.

Answer 8

-moderate concern for self, and others -you give a little, they give a little, to meet in the middle. -Alex compromises by making extra time to spend with Sara, even though he initially wanted to play soccer. Meanwhile, Sara compromises by letting Alex go to his game, even though she initially wanted to go out to a restaurant. By finding a middle ground and considering each other's desires, they ensure that both of them have the opportunity to enjoy their preferred activities while also prioritizing quality time together. Involves reaching a middle ground or settling for a solution that partially satisfies each party's interests. Requires both parties to give up something in order to reach an agreement. Can involve a trade-off where one party sacrifices their preferences or desires for the sake of resolving the conflict.

Answer 9

-low concern for self high, high concern for others.) (-,+) - you put others, before ur needs -u make ur own example

Answer 10

(low concern for self and others) (-,-) - dont want any part of the situation. ex;Amanda, suggests visiting her in-laws for the holidays. Another family member, her sister-in-law, strongly opposes the idea and begins to express her concerns loudly. Instead of engaging in the escalating conflict, Amanda's husband, John, quietly excuses himself from the conversation and leaves the room. John avoids getting involved in the conflict by physically withdrawing from the situation,

Answer 11

-(high concern for self, low concern for others.) -force ur ideas on others (+,-) Emily is adamant about going to the beach, as it's herfavorite spot for relaxation. Lisa, on the other hand, prefers mountainous regions for hiking and exploring nature. Instead of discussing their preferences openly and trying to find a compromise,Emily insists on going to the beach and dismisses Lisa's suggestions. She pressures her to agree with her choice, arguing that it's the best option for both of them.

Answer 12

being so self absorbed the other cant equally participate (one-upping.) During a family dinner, one family member, let's call him David, constantly steers the conversation toward himself. He talks about his achievements, experiences, and plans without showing much interest in what others have to say. Even when someone else shares a story or accomplishment, David quickly redirects the conversation back to himself, overshadowing others' contributions.

Answer 13

-listening carefully only to then verbally attack the speaker Person A: "I've been thinking about pursuing a career change." Person B (ambushing response): "That's interesting, considering you've complained about your current job for years without taking any action. What makes you think you'll follow through this time?"

Answer 14

excessive concern with protecting self from being hurt. Partner A: "I feel like you don't listen to me when I'm talking." Partner B (defensive response): "What do you mean? I always listen to you. You're just exaggerating."

PSY 118 CH 8 Flashcards

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