QUIZ 2 OB Flashcards
(144 cards)
What is an emotion
Intense feelings directed at someone or something
what is a better definition of emotion
An appraisal of an event and one’s reaction to it
What were the outcomes associated with marshmallow test 10-40 years later
brain scans reveal more activity in the prefrontal cortex
(executive functioning area)
what do all of these outcomes (academic, career, interpersonal, health) have in common?
They all involve sacrificing short-term goals for long-term goals
What is delay of gratification
Managing competing motivations, especially short-term and long-term goals
” I want that cookie, but I also want to lose weight”
- “I want to go to the party, but I also want to do well on the exam
delay of gratification
emotional, impulsive, reflexive responses, limbic system
hot system
cognitive, slow, strategic responses, prefrontal cortex
cool system
what are emotions
appraisals of events and our reactions to them
how do people effectively control their “hot” impulses
cognitive reframing
What is cognitive reframing
-cooling down the tempting stimulus by thinking more abstractly
- heating up the desired stimulus by thinking more concretely
-reappraising a “hot” emotion
which of the following techniques would make it easier to delay gratification
imagining the marshmallow as a fluffy cloud
thinking hot and cold about a fight
picture self as a fly on the wall or imagine self-projected onto movie screen
-take third-party perspective
-affects marital satisfaction, conflict resolution, and other relationship outcomes
Cognitive reframing: cooling things down
Thinking of how you feel when you are studying for an exam, When do you experience your peak level of anxiety?
In the days and weeks immediately leading up to the exam
(Saving for retirement ex) Money now for current self, or later(future self)
self-regulation dilemma
(Saving for retirement ex) People place more value on immediate versus delayed rewards
Hyperbolic discounting
causes people to under-save for retirement
-current self is concrete, future self is abstract
heating things up: saving for retirement
Imagine that you work in a large organization of about 500
employees. Tomorrow, you are scheduled to give a thirty-
minute keynote speech in front of the whole company,
including the CEO and the executive board. This makes you
feel extremely anxious.
Try to be excited instead of anxious
-anxiety thought of as bad for performance
- people often try to manage their anxiety by. calming themselves down
reappraising a problematic “hot” emotion
how can we self-regulate more effectiviely?
-dont just react
-actively construe events to optimally their hot and cool properties, “cool down” the present, “heat up” the future
- reappraising a problematic “hot” emotion
the ability tounderstand and influence one’s own and others emotion
emotional intelligence
how to develop emotional intelligence
-know yourself
-empathize
-pay attention to non-verbal signs
-own your emotions
-listen to your body
-it is not about suppressing your emotions
the ability to influence one’s own emotions
emotional regulation
What not to do for emotion regulation
control or fight against them
- ignore them and avoiding situations that may trigger those emotions