Radical Candour Flashcards
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What are the Axis and Quadrants of the Radical Candour Framework?
Axis: Caring Personally and Challenge Directly
Quadrants: Manipulative Insincerity, Ruinous Empathy, Obnoxious Aggression, Compassionate Candour
What is relational awareness and how is it different from self-awareness?
Relational awareness is about knowing how your words and actions will affect your relationship with someone, both in the short and long term, how to show people that you care even when you’re saying things that they might not like to hear. Self-awareness which is more about seeing yourself as you really are.
What is the order of operations in Radical Candour?
- Solicit criticism
- Give praise
- Give criticism
- Gauge the criticism
- Encourage praise and criticism between others
What were the 5 key dynamics for successful teams outlined by the research of Google’s People Operations. Which one was most important? And why?
- Psychological Safety
- Dependability
- Structure and Clarity
- Meaning
- Impact
Psychological safety is by far the most important, because it lays the foundation for the other 4.
What is psychological safety, in a work environment? And how does this relate to the Radical Candour Model
“a shared belief that the team is safe for interpersonal risk taking.”
When Radical Candour leaders solicit criticism, this helps to create an atmosphere of psychological safety, where people aren’t treading on eggshells the whole time.
What are 2 good times to get people’s criticism?
- On a routine basis at the end of 1:1 meetings
2. When people are angry
What are 4 attributes of good go-to question for soliciting criticism?
- Sincerity - i.e not canned
- Don’t ask questions that can be answered with a yes or no
- Specific vs open-ended
- Frequency
What are 2 criteria for assessing go-to questions?
- Did it produce useful feedback?
2. Did it sound natural i.e., like something you’d like to say?
Where does counting to 6 come in in Radical Candour?
You do it after asking for feedback - it’s a part of embracing the discomfort
Listen with the intent…
to understand, not to reply
What is a good team exercise for improving listening?
One person speaks for 3 minutes while the other listens intently, then reverse.
What is a practice for making your listening tangible?
Make a list of 3-4 times colleagues have offered you criticism recently. At a team meeting or standup, share it, what you learned from it, your gratitude for it, and what you plan to do about it. Ask your team for help as you try to address the behaviour or problem raised.
What is a good analogy for praise and criticism when you’re leading a team?
Criticism is like your brake and praise is like your accelerator
What should you do with criticism that you disagree with?
Reward it
The role of guidance is to help others succeed…
…not to prove how smart you are
How do managers sometimes throw good employees under the bus?
By using public praise of that person to make the others feel like losers.
How much time to you spend making sure you have the facts straight…
…before giving a team member praise?
What are the 3 guidelines (3, 2, 1) for compassionately candid feedback?
- Do it humbly, helpfully, immediately.
- Praise in public; criticize in private
- Don’t give guidance about personality attributes
“Compassionate Candour gets measured not at your mouth…
…but at the other person’s ear.”
Why is the way you listen more important than the way you talk?
Because you need to be gauging people’s emotions in order to steer the conversation in the right direction in terms of how much you focus on challenging directly or showing that you care personally.
Nothing will move you down the care personally axis more than…
Anger
One way to show you care when confronted with negative emotions is to…
…name the emotion your seeing. “It seems like I’ve upset you/pissed you off/frustrated you. That’s not what I intended to do. I’m trying to help you. How can I do this in a better way?” (use own words)
What phrase should you eliminate from your vocabulary in terms of people getting upset?
“Don’t take this personally”
What should be your mantra when people are defensive or oblivious or hopelessly optimistic or overconfident or whatever. When you’re clearly not getting through to them.
“It’s not mean, it’s clear.”