Reality questions

Question 1

Reality 1. What is…

Answer 1

What is the situation right now?

Question 2

Reality 2. In the current….

Answer 2

In the current situation what steps have you taken already towards this goal?

Question 3

Reality 3. In the current situation…

Answer 3

What are you saying to yourself?

Question 4

Reality 4. In the current situation…

Answer 4

What are you feeling?

Question 5

Reality 5. In the current situation…

Answer 5

What are others saying?

Question 6

Reality 6. What effect…

Answer 6

What effect does this have?

Question 7

Reality 7. What else…

Answer 7

What else is relevant? (and how is that contributing to the situation?)

Question 8

Reality 8. Who else…

Answer 8

Who else is relevant (What role are others playing?)

Question 9

Reality 9. What is…

Answer 9

What is their perception of the situation?

Question 10

Reality 10. What are…

Answer 10

What are any other major concerns you have right now?

Question 11

Reality 11. What is..

Answer 11

What is it about the situation you don’t want?

Question 12

Reality 12. What about…

Answer 12

What about (if anything) keeps you up at night?

Question 13

Reality 13. When you hear…

Answer 13

When you hear yourself saying these things, what are you thinking now?

Question 14

Reality 14. Given what we’ve…

Answer 14

Given what we’ve discussed, are there any refinements you would make to your goal?