relationships Flashcards

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what is sexual selection?

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evolutionary explanation of partner preference. attributes or behaviors that increase chances of reproductive success are passed on and may become exaggerated over succeeding generations of offspring.

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examples of sexual selections

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male peacocks tail is a likely sign of genetic fitness. Other characteristics such as aggressiveness are adaptive because they provide an advantage over competition.

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anisgomy

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difference between male and female sex gametes. Male gametes are small, mobile, are in large numbers and are created for a long time. Female gametes are large, static, produced in a limited number of years and require a lot of energy to produce. A limitation of this is that fertile females are much rarer than males. It gives rise to the two types of sexual selection

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inter- sexual selection

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BETWEEN the sexes. strategies males use to select females or females select males.
preferred strategy of the female, due to quality over quantity (ova are rarer than sperm)
Robert Trivers pointed out: it is a necessity for females to choose carefully due to the female making a greater investment of time and commitment during the before after and birth of her offspring. There are larger consequences with choosing the wrong partner. Both sexes are choosy, but females have to be especially selective
It is the females preference that determines which features are passed into the offspring. E.g height preference means more taller males in successive generations.

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sexy sons hypothesis

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Ronald Fisher: the genes we see today are those enhanced by reproductive success. A female who mates with a male for a certain characteristics will then have sons that have this trait. They are then more likely to be selected. ‘sexy’ trait is perpetrated

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intra-sexual selection

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WITHIN each sex. E.g. strategies between the males so they are the one that is chosen. This is the preferred strategy of the male, quantity over quality. characteristics of the competition winner are passed through successive generations.
This leads to male and female characteristics being very different, since attributes such as large size are successive, when females don’t this. However it can be argued female youthfulness is selected as males prefer more fertile females (e.g. waist to hip ratio in humans
can be behavioral consequences as negative attributes such as aggression and deceitfulness allowed the male to win and is then passed down

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evaluation for sexual selection

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-research support for inter-sexual relationships :study with university campus students where they asked ‘would you like to go to bed with me tonight’ where 75% of males agreed and none of the females did, supporting the idea that females are more choosy for their partners.
-COUNTERPOINT: simplistic argument. Strategies are different depending on the length of the relationship. Bereckzei et al argues that there is similarities when choosing a partner for a LT relationship.
-research support for intra-sexual selection: survey for over 10,000 adults in 33 countries relating to important evolutionary attributes for preference. Findings showed woman placed greater preference on resource related characteristics while males were youth attractiveness. Supports idea different preferences in sexes.
-social and cultural differences are under estimate: Woman’s greater role in the work place means they no longer need men to supply for them. So no longer resource oriented preferences.

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what is self disclosure?

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revealing personal information about yourself (such as deep feelings) Romantic partners will do this as their relationships develop, and these can strengthen a romantic bond.

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what is the social penetration theory

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Altman and Taylor’s theory on how relationships develop: gradual process of revealing your inner self to someone else. In romantic relationships, it involves the reciprocal exchange of information. It occurs so partners obtain a greater understanding of each other.

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The depth and breadth of self disclosure

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according to taylors and altman, self disclosure hs two elements (breadth and depth).
-as these increase so does a relationship. At the beggining we do disclose stuff about ourselves, but it is only the outer layer of the onion otherwise we may get ‘TMI’ response which may even threaten a relationship.
-as a relationship develops we ‘peel back the onion layers’ and end up talking about deep feelings and painful secrets.
-for a relationship to develop and increase in this it needs to be reciprocal.

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self disclosure evaluation

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-research support: correlations were found in heterosexual dating to show that men and woman who used self disclosure were more satisfied and committed to their relationship. A later study also showed that they were closer with self disclosure. This increases validity to the theory
COUNTERPOINT: correlation is not causation, it cannot tell us if this is a valid conclusion the draw. Alternative results may be likely, for example the partners may self disclosed the more satisfied they are rather than the other way round. Or a third variable could be present.
Real world application: research found 57% of homosexual men and woman said that self disclosure was the main way they maintained their relationships. This shows psychological input can be valuable to solving real life relationship problems.
Cultural differences: research showed US (individualist culture) tend to self disclose more than China (collectivist culture), but satisfaction levels were the same. This therefore makes it a limited explanation as the information is not generalisable.

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physical attraction meaning

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factor in forming romantic relationships. How appealing we find a persons face.
General agreement a cross culture to what we find attractive.
E.g., symmetrical faces and baby faces.

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What is the halo effect?

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One distinguishing feature tends to have a tends to have a disproportionate influence on our judgments about the persons attributes, such as personality. Research has found physically attractive people are constantly rated as good, sociable kind and successful.

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What is the matching hypothesis? (attractiveness)

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we are attracted to someone who is of the same physical attractiveness as us, instead of the most attractive person. This implies that we take into account our own attractiveness ‘value’ to others when we are seeking out a partner.

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describe the procedure of research on the matching hypothesis

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‘The computer dance’
male and female students were invited to a dance and were rated in physical attractiveness by objective observers and filled out a questionnaire about themselves. They were then told data about themselves and that a computer would decide their partner based on this data when in reality they were paired up randomly

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describe the findings of research on the matching hypothesis

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The hypothesis was no supported- most liked were also the most physically attractive rather than them taking their own level of attractiveness. A replication of this study was conducted where people were allowed to chose their partner based on a selection of people who were different levels of attractiveness, and this time matched pairs were more present.

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Evaluation on the halo effect- research support

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research support:
-Palmer and Peterson found physically attractive people were rated as more politically knowledgeable and competent than unattractive people. This persisted even when people found out they had no particular expertise. This suggests there are dangers for democracy if people are judged as suitable for office just because of their physical attractiveness.

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Evaluation of factors affecting attraction- physical attractiveness: Evolutionary explanation

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Cunningham et al found that women who had features of large eyes, small nose and high eyebrows were rated as highly attractive by white, Hispanic and Asian men. this concludes that physical attractiveness is continuous across societies. This could be due to sexual selection, as attractive features are a sign of genetic fitness and are there fore perpetrated similarly in multiple cultures.

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Evaluation of matching hypothesis with challenging research

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not supported by real world research: study into online dating logs that involves actual choices rather than just preferences. Findings showed that online daters sought meetings with potential partners who were more physically attractive than them. This undermines the validity as it contradicts the central prediction about matching attractiveness.

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counter point to evaluation of matching hypothesis with challenging research

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-choosing them for dating could be seen as different in real life relationships. A meta analysis showed a significant correlation between physical attractiveness in partners. Just because online daters seek someone more attractive does not mean they get them, so dating selection may just be as fantasy as it is in lab research. Therefore there is support for the matching hypothesis from studies of real world established romantic partners

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What is the filter theory?

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an explanation of relationship formation. A series of different factors reduces the range of available romantic partners to a much smaller pool of possibilities. The filters are: social demography, similarity in attitudes and complementary.

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What is the 1st level of filter?

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social demography

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explain social demography as the 1st filter

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Includes social class and geographical location, ethnicity, religion etc. These filters therefore filter out a large number of available partners, meaning relationships are often formed with people under similar demographic characteristics. (homo gamy)

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What is the 2nd level of filter?

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similarity in attitudes

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explain similarity in attitudes as the 2nd filter

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Partner will share important beliefs and values, partly because of the field of available’s being narrowed down in the first filter. Kerckhoff and Davis found this only to be important for couples that have been together for less than 18 months. This is when self disclosure of values is important.

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What is the 3rd filter?

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Complementary

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Describe complementary as the 3rd filter

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similarity becomes less important as a relationship develops, and is replaced by a need for your partner to balance your traits with opposite ones of their own.

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evaluation of the filter theory

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research support- longitudinal study with questionnaires to assess similarities in attitudes and complementary of needs found less than 18 months has similarities but over 18 months had complementary.
Counterpoint: studies have failed to replicate findings and 18 month cut of was a bold assumption meaning it lacked validity.
Problems with complementary: may not be central to all long term relationships. the markeys found that lesbian couples of equal dominance were most satisfied. Their sample couples had been in a relationships for over four and a half years.
Actual versus perceived similarly: Meta-analysis of 313 studies showed actual similarity only affected attraction in lab based studies that were short term. IRL: perceived similarity was a stronger predictor of attraction. Therefore perceived similarity can be an affect of attraction not a cause.

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Ducks phase model

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explanation of stages people go through when their relationship is not working. Once one partner is dissatisfied, these occur.

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what are the four stages of ducks phase model?

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intra-psychic, dyadic, social and grave dressing

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explain the intra psychic stage of ducks phase model.

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Threshold: ‘i cant stand this anymore’ determination that something has to change’
-cognitive processes occurring within the individual.
-private thoughts, or may share with a trusted friend.
-way up pros and cons, compare them to the alternatives and plan their future.

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explain the dyadic stage of ducks phase model

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Threshold: ‘i would be justified in withdrawing’
-discussed with partner and dissatisfaction are aired, and these could include lack of equity, hostility and anxiety etc. This has either the outcome of determination to break up or to repair it. Self disclosure can become more frequent in this stage.

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explain the social stage of ducks phase model

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Threshold: ‘I mean it’
-public with social networks, partners will seek support and forge pacts. mutual friends are expected to choose a side. some friends provide reinforcement and some hasten the end of the relationship.
-usually he point of no return.

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explain grave dressing

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threshold: ‘it is now inevitable’
-positive stories are spun by the partners to make them look good
-gossip
-creating a personal story you can live with which may differ from the public one, by re writing memories. The traits you found endearing are now seen in a negative light. Finally the dissatisfied partner reaches the threshold of ‘time to have a new life’

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ducks phase model evaluation: real world application

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+suggests ways in which relationship breakdowns can be reversed.
+recognises that different repair strategies are more effective at different points in the break down than others, for example- intra-psychic phase people could be suggested to think of positive aspects of their partners.
+can be useful in relationship counselling.

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ducks phase model evaluation: RWA counterpoint

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-model is only based on breakdown of relationships in individualistic cultures. Fathali Moghaddam claimed that relationships in this culture often voluntarily come to an end. however relationships in collectivist cultures are less easy to end as they often involve the wider family. This suggests that the models application cannot be applicable in all cultures.

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ducks phase model evaluation: incomplete model

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Duck and Stephanie added a fifth phase to their model after grave dressing- resurrection phase.
-ex partners apply to future relationships with experiences gained from old one.
-progression from one stage to the next is not inevitable because it is possible to return to an earlier stage again.
-attributes from stages such as gossip are more important than progression itself

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ducks phase model evaluation: early stages are much

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-underexplains early stages of breakdown.
-this is due to research being retrospective, and recall from early relationship may not be accurate. Memories might be distorted

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what is Rusbult’s investment model?

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commitment depends on three factors: satisfaction, comparison with alternatives and investment.

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what is commitment?

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a romantic partners desire or intention to continue on the relationship, reflecting the belief that their relationship has a long term future

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factor one satisfaction:

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based on the concept of comparison level (CL)
-satisfying relationship is judged through comparing rewards (e.g. sex, compassion) and costs (e.g. anxiety)

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factor two comparison with alt’s:

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judgement that partners make concerning whether a relationship with a different partner would bring more rewards and less costs.

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factor three investment

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Created after realization that CL and CLalt are not enough to explain commitment.
-investment is anything we would loose if the relationship were to end.

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what is intrinsic investment?

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resources we put directly into the relationship. These can be tangible things such as money or possessions. they can also be intangible things such as emotions and self disclosures.

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what is extrinsic invesment?

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resources that were previously not featured in the relationship but now are, such as a car bought together (tangible) or shared memories (intangible)

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why do some dissatisfied partners stay in their relationships?

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commitment is the main factor, and they have investments that they do not want to waste.

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What are relationship maintenance mechanisms?

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commitment is expressed in maintenance behaviors:
-promoting relationship instead of retaliation (accommodation), willingness to sacrifice, forgiveness, unreasonably positive (positive illusions) and are negative about alternatives (ridiculing alternatives)

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Research support for investment model

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-Meta analysis reviewed 52 studies which included about 11,000 participants and 5 countries.
-found that satisfaction, comparison with alternatives and investment size all predicted commitment. Relationships where commitment was most prominent lasted longest and were most stable
-found true for men and woman, multiple cultures and sexualities
-validity

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counterpoint to research report on investment model

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-correlations were used in the meta analysis and correlation does not mean causation.

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evaluation of investment model abuse relationships

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study of domestically abused woman showed those who were most likely to go back to their partner had also made the most investments and fewer alternatives.
-This shows that satisfaction on its own cannot explain this on its own and alternatives and investment are also factors.

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evaluation of investment model simplifies investment

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-simplifies in a one dimensional way
-ignores complexity of different levels of investment at different stages, for example in early stages when they have not moved in together their commitment may be due to future plans instead.

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what is the equity theory

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economic theory of relationship development.
-acknowledges the impact of rewards and costs on relationship satisfaction but criticizes social exchange theory for ignoring the central role of equity

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whats the role of equity

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strong correlation predicted between dissatisfaction and perceived inequity.
In earlier days we may feel i is natural to contribute more than you receive, but if this carries on this can lead to dissatisfaction.

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how do partners deal with inequity?

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under benefited partner is motivated to make it more equitable if possible and if the relationship is salvageable.
-cognitive process of changing perceptions of a reward and cost to make the relationship seem more equitable.

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Research support on equity theory

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-more valid explanation that SET
-survey of 118 recently married couples where equity was measured with two self report scales
-couples aged 16-45 had been together for more than two years before marrying
-found couples who considered their relationship as more equitable were more satisfied than those who saw themselves as over or under benefiting.

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Research support on equity theory: COUNTERPOINT

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-Berg and McQuinn found that equity did not increase overtime as predicted by the theory.-
-found no difference in equity between relationships that ended and those that stayed.
-variables such as self disclosure were far more important
-undermines validity because it does not play the role in dissatisfaction or satisfaction as predicted.

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equity an equality

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ratio of size and rewards of relationship. E.g. if a partners puts a lot into a relationships but also gets a lot back they are likely to feel satisfied

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consequences of inequity

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distressed and dissatisfied partners
this may all be due to changes in perceived equity. As time goes on, expectations of contributions increase.

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Equity theory evaluation: Cultural limits

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–individualist cultures were found to like their relationship more when it was equitable.
-partners in a collectivist culture (Jamaica) were most satisfied when they were over benefiting. Suggests theory only applies to some cultures.

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measuring profit in relationships- (Soc. Exch. Theory) COMPARISON LEVEL

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The amount of rewards you believe you deserve, develops from previous relationships which set expectations and is also influenced by social norms that consider what is deemed a reward. (set by e.g. books, shows). Cl changes after time. Link between self esteem- e.g. low self esteem means low Cl and person will be satisfied with gaining a small profit from someone.