Relationships Flashcards
(67 cards)
Important qualities for Christians when looking for love
• wants a partner that also prioritises Jesus
• don’t like any explicit behaviour (before marriage)
• they believe if they ask then God will give them the right partner
• wants another Christian partner
What is a sacrament?
An outward sign of an inward change change that involves God’s blessing, e.g. marriage, baptism
Christian wedding traditions
• Biblical readings during service
• Usually takes place at a church
• Make vows of faithfulness to their partner
• Bride wears white to show she is pure
• Prayers said to ask for God’s blessing
• Given rings to symbolise eternity
Purpose of vows during a Christian wedding
Reflect commitment and faith, promise is a promise to God too - therefore, dislike divorce because it breaks the promise to God
How many people have a religious wedding?
Halved over the last 20 years
Teachings about Christian weddings
• phrase used in services - ‘what God has joined together, let no man put asunder’ - means marriage is a lifelong service and should not be undone
• church teaches that marriage is a ‘gift of God in creation’ - marriage mirrors the relationship between Jesus and his church as the Church cannot exist without Jesus (‘for better or for worse’)
• ‘but at the beginning of creation, God made then male and female. For this reason a man will leave his father and mother to be United to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’ - Mark 10:6-8
Christian beliefs about marriage
• basis for creating an environment children can be born into
• not having children goes purpose of marriage
• lifelong commitment
• divine bond blessed by God
What is premarital sex?
• Sex that takes place before marriage
What is chastity?
Choosing not to have sex before marriage - sex as a gift for married couples
Responsibility
Actions or duties you are expected to carry out
Celibacy
The decision not to have sex, to remain celibate e.g. monks to a vow of celibacy
Purpose
The purpose of sex is to procreate and to express love between a married couple
Maturity definition
Being able to understand the emotional value of sex and responsibilities that come with it.
Promiscuity definition
Having more than one sexual partner
Commitment
A sense of dedication and obligation to someone or something, e.g. marriage partner
Christian attitudes to sex/marriage (1950s)
• 65% of people married in a church
• if born out of wedlock, referred to as a ‘bastard’ - outcast from society, stigma
• save sex for marriage (usually married by 25)
• Christian teachings believe that pre-marital sex is wrong because it goes against the message of the Ten Commandments (thou shall not commit adultery)
• ‘a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife and they become one flesh’ - Adam and Eve were created for each other because ‘it is not good for man to be alone’
Purpose of sex
• unitive and creative
• marriage also - why they come hand in hand
• believes God created sex for the joy and pleasure and bond of a marriage
• couple is united in love/faith
• cannot be separated (believed in Catholicism)
Christian attitudes to sex/marriage (2010s)
• 2010 - only 35% have church weddings
• 2010s - 97% have pre-marital sex
• 80% have more than one sexual partner (promiscuous)
• 2010s - most marriages at 32
Adultery definition
Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a person who is not their spouse
Divorce definition
• to legally end a marriage
Cohabitation definition
To live together in a sexual relationship, without being married, or in a civil partnership
Contraception definition
Methods used to prevent a woman from becoming pregnant during or following sexual intercourse
Gender equality definition
People of all genders enjoying the same rights and opportunities in all aspects of their lives
Roles definition
Position, status or function of a person in society, as well as the characteristics and social behaviour expected of them