relationships Flashcards

(56 cards)

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sexual selection

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survival of the sexiest. attributes or behaviours that increase reproductive success are passed on and may become exaggerated or more common over time

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amisogamy

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differences between make and female sex cells

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characteristics of female gametes

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large, limited years of fertility, static

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male gametes

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long supply, small, mobile

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intersexual selection

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what one sex looks for in the other

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intrasexual selections

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within each sex: how members of the same sex compete to mate with the opposite sex

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trivers

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females hold greater importance in time, commitment and resources than makes because making the wrong choice in partner is more serious due to their fertility window

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fisher - sexy son hypothesis

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women select men with traits they hope to pass to their children

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dimorphism

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women and men look different as they look for different things

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clark & hatfield

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women agreed to the date because they can get to know the men
men agreed because quantity > quality

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self disclosure

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revealing information about yourself to someone
when we learn more about someone, we become more attracted to them

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altman & taylor - social penetration theory

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the gradual process of revealing your inner self to someone, starting at a basic level and getting more intimate as time goes on

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reis & shaver - reciprocity

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for a relationships to develop, self disclosure needs to be reciprocated and partners should respond in a rewarding empathetic way

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the halo effect

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dion et al
attractive people are consistently rated as kind, strong, sociable, and successful compared to unattractive people

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the matching hypothesis

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walster and walster
people choose partners who are roughly of similar physical attractiveness to each other

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3 Filters : Kerckhoff and Davis

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social demography
similarity in attitudes
complimentary

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social demography (filters)

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factors that influence the chances of potential partners meeting each other in the first place

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similarity in attitudes (filters)

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partners agree over basic values

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complimentary (filters)

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partners have traits the other lacks i.e dominance/submissive

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festinger et al (filters)

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found people who lived near the stairways in a u shaped housing block had most passive contact with other residents, and had developed the greatest friendships with those nearby

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clark (filters)

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50% of people living in columbus ohio married someone within walking distance of

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social exchange theory

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thibailt and kelly
a satisfying relationship is maintained when rewards exceed costs for both parties

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minimax principle (SET)

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we try to minimise costs and maximise rewards

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what are the two ways of measuring profit (SET)

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Comparison Level
Comparison Level for Alternatives

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what is Comparison Level (SET)
the amount of reward you believe you deserve based on previous relationships + norms
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Comparison Level for Alternative (SET)
comparing the rewards and costs to other possible relationships and being alone
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stages of relationship development (SET)
sampling stage bargaining stage commitment stage institutionalisation stage
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sampling stage (SET)
first stage we explore the rewards and costs of social exchange by experimenting with them in our own relationship, or by observing others doing so
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bargaining stage (SET)
second stage beginning of the relationship partners start negotiating what is more profitable
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commitment stage (SET)
third stage the sources of costs and rewards become more predictable and the relationship becomes more stable
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institutionalisation stage (SET)
fourth stage partners are settled down rewards and costs are firmly established
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walster et al (equity)
we strive to reach fairness in our relationships
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what are the principles of equity
profit distribution dissatisfaction realignment
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profit (principles of equity)
rewards are maximised and costs minimised
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distribution (principles of equity)
trade offs and compensations are negotiated to achieve fairness in a relationship
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dissatisfaction (principles of equity)
the greater the degree of perceived unfairness, the greater the sense of dissatisfaction
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realignment (principles of equity)
if restoring equity is possible, maintenance will continue
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rusbults investment model
satisfaction + comparison with alt + investments -> commitment level -> relationship mechanisms
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rusbults investment model
satisfaction + comparison with alt + investments -> commitment level -> relationship mechanisms
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intrinsic investments (RIM)
what we directly put into a relationship (effort time)
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extrinsic investments (RIM)
did not feature in one’s life but are now strongly associated in it (house kids)
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relationship mechanisms (RIM)
enduring partners : accomodation, willingness to sacrifice, forgiveness committed partners : positive illusions, ridiculing alternatives
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4 stages of duck’s phase model
intra-psychic dyadic social grave dressing
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intra-psychic (Duck)
personal brooding nothing is said to the partner but you may express dissatisfaction in other ways
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dyadic phase (duck)
confront partner, discuss feelings and the future
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social phase (duck)
issues made public to family and friends they may take sides, offer support or help mend any disputes
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grave dressing phase (duck)
relationship is over. partner attempts to justify their actions may reinterpret their view of partners
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reduced cues theory
sproull and kiesler cues such as physical appearance or emotional state are lacking in cmc -> this can lead to a person losing identity and acting in a way they wouldn’t normally
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hyper personal model
walther cmc relationships are more personal and have greater self disclosure than FtF -> cmc relationships can develop very quickly as self disclosure happens earlier so they become more intense and intimate
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2 key features of hyper personal model
1) the sender of a message has greater control over what to disclose and the cues they send. they manipulate their self image to present themselves in an idealised way 2) receiver gains a positive impression of the sender, they may give feedback that reinforces the senders selective self presentation
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John Bargh et al (virtual relationship)
when you’re aware that others don’t know you, you feel less accountable for your behaviour
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gating
refers to an obstacle to forming a relationship
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levels of parasocial relationships
maltby et al entertainment-social intense-personal borderline-pathological
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mccutcheon et al
celebrity attitude scale the absorption addiction model
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absorption addiction model
absorption: they have deficits in their own sense of personal identity- an attempt to establish personal identity addiction: people need to increase their dose to be more satisfied which can lead to delusions/ extreme behaviours
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attachment theory (parasocial relationships)
type a- most likely type c- less likely type b- unlikely