RELATIONSHIPS Flashcards
(97 cards)
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Define sexual selection
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- Evolutionary explanation for partner preferences
- Attributes or behaviours that increase reproductive success are passed on and may become exaggerated over succeeding generations of offspring
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Define anisogamy
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- Difference between male and female+ female sex cells
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What are the two mating strategies proposed by Charles Darwin?
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- Intersexual selection
- Intrasexual selection
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Outline intersexual selection
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- Preferred mating strategy for females
- Members of one sex evolve preferences for desirable qualities in potential mates
- QUALITY OVER QUANTITY
(E.g. attractiveness + resources gain a mating advantage)
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Outline intrasexual selection
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- Preferred mating strategy for males
- Individuals of one sex competes with members of the same sex for members of the other sex
- QUANTITY OVER QUALITY
- successful individuals can mate + pass on their genes
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Explain why mechanisms for mate choice evolve?
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- Random mating is stupid mating
- Being ‘choosy’ (which is time + energy consuming) pays off as the genetic quality of a mate determines half the genetic quality of offspring
- Low-quality mates are likely to produce unattractive, unhealthy offspring
- FEMALES attracted to males who have resources + can invest resources in her and her offspring, can parent well + can protect them - for females creating offspring is TIME + ENERGY CONSUMING
- MALES - creating offspring requires little time, energy and responsibility
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Outline a study supporting intersexual selection
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- Fisher’s (1930) ‘sexy sons’ hypothesis
- If female chooses to mate w/ attractive male, her offspring will also grow up to be attractive so they will also attract mates
^— ensures female’s genes passed on
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Define physical dimorphism
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Differences in the body size and physical appearance between males and females
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Outline the procedure of Buss (1989)
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- Explored what males and females looked for in a long-term partner
- 10000 people from 37 different cultures
- Participants asked to rate each of 18 characteristics (e.g. physical attractiveness, good financial prospect) on how important they would be in choosing a mate
- Four-point scale used: 3 (indispensable) to 0 (irrelevant)
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Outline the findings of Buss (1989)
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RESOURCES - women desired mates who had good financial prospects more than men - desire for men with resources or ambition
PHYSICAL ATTRACTIVENESS - men placed more importance on physical attractiveness - cues a woman’s health + fertility
YOUTH - men universally wanted mates who were younger than them - indicated fertility
OTHER - both sexes wanted intelligent (linked to parenting skill) + kind (linked to interest in long-term relationships) mates
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What are evolutionary explanations?
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Focus on adaptive nature of behaviour
^— Modern behaviours are believed to have evolved because they solved challenges faced by our distant ancestors + became widespread in the gene pool
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Briefly explain what is meant by the ‘matching hypothesis’
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Claims that when people look for a partner for a romantic relationship, they tend to look for someone whose social desirability approximately equals their own
Walster and Walster (1969)
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Outline the role of physical attractiveness in attraction
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- Shackelford and Larsen (1997) - Symmetrical face more attractive = signs of genetic fitness
- NEOTONOUS features thought to trigger protective + caring instincts, related to formation of attachment
BOTH EVOLUTIONARY
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What is the Halo effect?
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- We hold preconceived ideas about the attributes of physically attractiveness people
^— believe all other attributes overwhelmingly positive
Pretty privilege
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Outline the matching hypothesis as it applies to attraction
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- Claims that, when initiating romantic relationships, individuals seek out partners whose social desirability approximately equals their own
- When choosing a partner, individuals first assess their own ‘value’ in the eyes of a potential romantic partner + select the best available candidates who would likely be attracted to them
- Both would theoretically be attracted to those most socially desirable, but partners similar to them in social desirability means increased likelihood of success
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Describe the relationship between the matching hypothesis and physical attractiveness
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- Matching hypothesis proposed ppl pair up with those with equal social desirability (a range of assets), though it has changed to only be associated with physical attractiveness
^— expect people to pair up with those similarly physically attractive - Walster et al: ‘realistic’ choices - each individual is influenced by the chances of their affection being reciprocated
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Outline the procedure of one study of the matching hypothesis
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- Walster et al (1966) advertised a ‘computer dance’ for new students at Uni of Minnesota
- 177 males + 170 females were randomly selected to take part
- When they came to pick up their tickets, 4 student accomplices surreptitiously rated each of them for physical attractiveness
- Participants then asked to complete long questionnaires (e.g. to assess personality, intelligence, etc) + told that the data would be used to allocate their ideal partner for the evening of the dance - PAIRING ACTUALLY RANDOM
- During intermission, participants asked to complete a questionnaire about their dates + a questionnaire 6 months after the dance
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Outline the findings of one study of the matching hypothesis
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- Walster et al. (1966)
- DID NOT SUPPORT MATCHING HYPOTHESIS
- Once participants had met their dates, they responded more positively to physically attractive dates regardless of their own physical attractiveness + were more likely to subsequently try to arrange dates with them if they were physically attractive
- Personality + intelligence did not affect liking the dates or any attempt to date them
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What is self-disclosure?
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When a person reveals intimate personal information about themselves to another person
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What is social penetration theory?
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- Altman & Taylor
- Suggests that as the relationship between individuals develops, interpersonal communications breadth + depth increase from shallow to more intimate
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What is breadth in self-disclosure?
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Types of topics
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What is depth in self-disclosure?
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Level of detail in topics
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List THREE elements of self-disclosure
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- Reciprocity
- Attributions
- Appropriateness
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Explain reciprocity in self-disclosure
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Relationships will only develop is both individuals are active in disclosing information + responding appropriately
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Explain attributions in self-disclosure
Individuals consider the motivations behind self-disclosure
^— someone who discloses to everyone is seen as less attractive than someone who reveals to fewer people
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Explain appropriateness in self-disclosure
While revealing information is generally seen as improving relationships, breaking social norms or revealing information too early (TMI) can have the opposite reaction (lowering attraction)
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Describe the relationship between self-disclosure and satisfaction
Relationship between self-disclosure + relationship satisfaction is based on the many forms of self-disclosure
^— e.g. disclosing taste in music + disclosing inner fears and fantasies are VERY different
- It is not self-disclosure that predicts relationship satisfaction, but the TYPE of self-disclosure
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Outline the procedure of one key study into self-disclosure
- Sprecher et al. (2013)
- 156 undergrad students @ US uni paired into dyads
^— approx. 2/3 of dyads were female-female + 1/3 were male-female
- each dyad of unacquainted individuals engaged in self-disclosure over Skype
- RECIPROCAL CONDITION: dyad members took turns asking questions + disclosing
- NON-RECIPROCAL CONDITION: one person asked questions in 1st interaction while other disclosed
- The two then switched roles for second interaction (extended reciprocity)
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Outline the findings of one key study into self-disclosure
- Sprecher et al. (2013)
- RECIPROCAL CONDITION: individuals reported more liking, closeness, perceived similarity + enjoyment of interaction than other condition after 1st interaction
- Difference remained after participants in NON-RECIPROCAL dyads switched disclosure roles during second interaction
- Showed that turn-taking self-disclosure reciprocity is more likely to lead to positive interpersonal outcomes than extend reciprocity
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What is filter theory?
- Kirchhoff & Davies (1962)
- Romantic partners are chosen by using a serious of filters that narrow down the ‘field of availables’ from which we might eventually make our choice from the newly formed ‘field of desirables’
^— these are made of from those who pass through each filter
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What are the THREE filters in the filter theory?
1. Social demography
2. Similarity in attitudes
3. Complementarity
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Explain social demography in filter theory
- We are more likely to come into contact w/ people who live nearby and people who share characteristics like social class, education level + economic status
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Explain similarity in attitudes in filter theory
- Due to social demography, we are more likely it come into contact with people with similar core values (e.g. attitudes, values + beliefs)
^— these people are seen as more attractive/compatible - these shared attitudes also help to encourage self-disclosure in the beginning
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Explain complementarity in filter theory
- We are attracted to those people who provide for our emotional needs
^— partners can have mutually beneficial differences
- How well two people fit together as a couple + meet each other’s needs
- OPPOSITES ATTRACT
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Outline the procedure of one study of the filter theory of attraction in romantic relationships
- Kerchhoff + Davies (1962)
- Longitudinal study on 94 dating couple @ Duke University in US
^— each partner in the couple completed two questionnaires assessing degree of which they shared attitudes + values & degree of need complementarity
- 7 months after initial testing, couple completed further questionnaire assessing how close they felt to their partner compared to the beginning of the study
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Outline the findings of one study of the filter theory of attraction in romantic relationships
- In initial analysis, only similarity appeared to be related to partner closeness | THEN divided couples into short-term (<18 months) and long-timer (>18 months)
- Short-term: Similarity in attitudes + values was most significant predictor of how close they felt to their partner
- Long-term: Only complementarity was predictive of how close individuals were to partners
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What is Social Exchange Theory?
A theory of how relationships form + develop - assumes partners act out of self-interest in exchanging rewards + costs
- Assumes relationships are guided by the MINIMAX principle
- THIBAUT + KELLEY (1959) proposed relationships could be explained in terms of economics: satisfaction judged in terms of profit (perceives value of rewards minus the value of costs)
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What is the MINIMAX principle?
States that partners try to minimise losses and maximise gains
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How is relationship profit assessed in SET?
- Comparison Level
- Comparison Level for Alternatives
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What is comparison level (CL)?
- Our perception of what rewards we deserve in a relationship - a standard against which all our relationships are judged
- This is the product of our experiences in other relationships together with our general views of what we might expect from this particular exchange
- If profit exceeds CL, then the relationship is deemed worthwhile and the person is attractive
- Someone who has previously had an unpleasant/unsatisfying relationship may have a very low CL + be perfectly happy in a relatively poor relationship
- If perceived profits > CL for both individuals, there is more solidarity between them
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What is comparison level for alternatives (CLA)?
- An individual considers if there may be a greater profit in a different relationship w/ different partner
^— weighs up potential increase in rewards form different partner, minus any costs from ending current relationship
- A new relationship can take the place of the current one if it’s anticipated profit level is higher
- Individual will be committed to current relationship if benefits & costs are greater than those perceived in an alt. relationship (or even having no relationship)
- Relationships may become less stable is one (or both) of the partners has a low level of dependence on that relationship
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What are SET’s four stages of a relationship?
- Sampling stage
- Bargaining stage
- Commitment stage
- Institutionalisation stage
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What is the sampling stage of SET?
- involves exploring rewards + costs or relationships by experimenting in own relationships & observing others
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What is the bargaining stage of SET?
- occurs at start of relationship where romantic partners negotiate around rewards and costs
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What is the commitment stage of SET?
- where relationships become more stable
Costs reduce + rewards increase
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What is the institutionalisation stage of SET?
- when partners become settled because norms of relationship are settled
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Outline the procedure of one study of SET
- Kurdek + Schmitt (1986)
- Investigated importance of social exchange factors in determining relationship quality in 185 couples
^— comprised 44 heterosexual married couples, 35 co-habiting heterosexual couples, 50 same-sex male couples _ 56 same-sex female couples
- Each couple lived together + had no children living with them
- Each couple completed a questionnaire without discussing their answers with each other
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Outline the findings of one study of SET
- Kurdek + Schmitt (1986)
- For each of the 4 different types of couple, greater relationship satisfaction was associated with:
^— perception of many benefits of current relationship (CL)
^— seeing alternatives to the current relationship as less attractive (CLA)
- these findings show that the factors that predict satisfaction in same-sex relationships are the same ones that predict satisfaction in heterosexual relationships
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What is equity theory (ET)?
- Walster et al.(1978) suggests partners aim for fairness
^— feel most comfortable when rewards are roughly equal to costs
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Describe how inequity can distress partners
- Underbenefitted partner feels: anger + resentment -> ends relationship
- Overbenefitted partner feels: discomfort, guilt, shame -> ends relationship
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Describe the consequences on inequity
- The more perceived inequity, the stronger sense of dissatisfaction (there is predicted to be a strong positive correlation)
- At the start of a relationship, it may feel natural to contribute more than what’s being received
^— but if that continues as relationship continues, dissatisfaction will set in
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Outline the procedure of one study into equity theory
- Stafford and Canary (2006)
- Interested in how equity and satisfaction predicted the use of maintenance strategies typically used in marriage
- Asked 200+ married couples to complete measures of equity and relationship satisfaction
- Additionally, each spouse was asked questions about their use of relationship maintenance strategies such as assurances (emphasising affections + commitment), sharing tasks (household responsibilities + chores) & positivity (communicating in an upbeat manner)
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Outline the findings of one study into equity theory
- Stafford + Canary (2006)
- Revealed that satisfaction was highest for spouses who perceived their relationships to be equitable, followed by overbenefitted partners, then underbenefitted partners
- Under benefitted husbands particularly reported lower levels of relationship maintenance strategies compared to equitable or overbenfitted husbands
- Relationship between equity and marital happiness appeared to be complementary
- Spouses who were treated equitably tended to be happier and do were more likely to engage in behaviours contributing to spouse’s sense of equity + happiness
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What are the two ways of restoring equity in relationships?
- Behavioural
- Cognitive
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Describe the behavioural method of restoring equity in a relationship
- Overbenefitted partner may increase costs
- Underbenefitted partner may decrease costs
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Describe the cognitive method of restoring equity in a relationship
- Dissatisfied partner might revise their perceptions of rewards + costs so relationship feels more fair even if nothing changes
- What was once perceived as a cost (e.g. abuse) can become accepted as the norm of the relationship
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Equity q.
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What is the Investment Model of Relationships?
- Rusbult’s Investment Model (RIM)
- A way of understanding why people remain in some romantic relationships but not others
- A development of SET, considering how much has been invested in the current relationship, not just current satisfaction
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What is commitment in the Investment Model?
The likelihood that an individual will persist with their current relationship
- increased commitment = remain in a relationship
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What are the three factors that contribute to commitment in the Investment Model?
- Satisfaction
- Alternatives
- Investments
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Outline the role of satisfaction the Investment Model of Relationships
- Refers to the positive versus negative emotions experiences within a relationship
- Influenced by the extent to which the other person fulfils the individual’s most important needs
^— e.g. a partner may feel satisfied to the degree that the other partner gratifies their domestic, companionate and sexual needs
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Outline the role of alternatives the Investment Model of Relationships
- Quality of alternatives refers to the extent to which an individual’s most important needs might be better fulfilled outside the current relationship
^— perceiving that an attractive alternative might provide superior outcomes to those experiences in the current relationship might lead an individual towards that alternative and away from their current relationship
- However, if alternatives are not present, an individual may persist with a relationship due to lack of better options
- Attractive alternatives are not always other people
^— e.g. no relationship may be more attractive than the current one
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Outline the role of investments the Investment Model of Relationships
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What are the two types of investment?
- Intrinsic
- Extrinsic
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What is an intrinsic investment?
Things we put directly into the relationship (e.g. money, energy + self-disclosure)
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What is an extrinsic investment?
Things brought into peoples’ lives as a result of the relationship (e.g. shared mortgage, house, children, shared memories)
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What is Duck’s Model of Relationships Breakdown?
- Duck (1982)
- proposed a phase model of relationship breakdown
^— ending of a relationship is not a one-off | IT IS A PROCESS
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What are the four phases of relationship breakdown?
- Intrapsychic phase
- Dyadic phase
- Social phase
- Grave-dressing phase
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Explain the Intrapsychic phase of relationship breakdown
- PHASE 1
- One partner admits to themselves that they are dissatisfied w/ the relationship
^— burdened by feeling of resentment + a sense of being under-benefited
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Explain the Dyadic phase of relationship breakdown
- PHASE 2
- Individuals confront their partners + begin to discuss their feelings of discontentment + the future of the relationship
- Feeling of guilt + anger are likely to surface as part of these discussions
^— may discover partner also has concerns
- Couple may become away of the forces binding them together (e.g. children + other investments) + the costs that would be incurred
- Relationship can be saved is both partners are motivated to resolve the issue (may seek couples therapy)
- Or may involve others
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Explain the Social phase of relationship breakdown
- PHASE 3
- Privacy gone, dissatisfaction spills over to network of friends/family
- Distress experienced by one/both partners is now made public
^— harder for partners to deny there is a problem with their relationship + harder for them to bring about reconciliation
- Others may take sides, offer advice/support, or may help in mending disputes between 2 sides
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Explain the Grave-dressing phase of relationship breakdown
- PHASE 4
- Left the relationship
- Each partner must present themselves to others as trustworthy + loyal (to attract a new partner)
- Striving to construct a representation of the failed relationship that doesn’t paint their contribution to it as unfavourable
- May also strategically reinterpret their view of their partner
^— e.g. initially attracted to their ‘rebellious nature’ but now label that trait as irresponsible
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What are virtual relationships?
Relationships that are formed + maintained using online communication platforms such as emails, social media, texting, chat rooms, etc…
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What are the two theories on self-disclosure in virtual relationships?
- Reduced cues theory
- Hyperpersonal model
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What is the reduced cues theory?
- Sproull + Kiesler (1986) - SD DECREASES in virtual; relationships
- Virtual relationships lack non-verbal cues (e.g. facial expressions, vocal tone, by language
^— this is relied on in face-to-face relationships
- Leads to de-individuation
^— causes blunt + even aggressive communication + this results in a reluctance to self-disclose
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What is de-individuation?
In terms of virtual relationships, people online feel free from social norms and become disinhibited
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What is the hyperpersonal model?
- Walter (1996) - SD INCREASES in virtual relationships
- Virtual relationships can develop very quickly as self-disclosure happens early (INTENSE + INTIMATE)
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According to the hyperpersonal model, why is self-disclosure higher?
- Sender has greater control of what they’re disclose (selective self-presentation) + may be hyperhonest or hyper dishonest
- Receiver’s feedback may reinforce sender’s selective self-presentation + prompt further self-disclosure
- Anonymity = INCREASED self-disclosure
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What are gates in terms of virtual relationships?
Barriers that limit opportunities for the less attractive shy, or less socially-skilled to form relationships in face-to-face encounters
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Outline the effect of absence of gating in virtual relationships
- Due to relative anonymity of internet, gates are not initially evident + are less likely to stop potential relationships forming
- Removing traditional gating features that dominate initial liking + relationship formation is that a person’s true self id more likely to be active in internet relationships than irl
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Outline the nature of self-disclosure in virtual relationships
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Define parasocial relationships
An individual is attracted to another person (usually a celebrity), who is usually unaware of the existence of the person who has created the relationship
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List the levels of celebrity worship using the Celebrity Attitude Scale
- Entertainment-social
- Intense-personal
- Borderline-pathological
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Outline the absorption addiction model
- McCutcheon (2002)
- Most people never go beyond admiring celebrities because of he celebrities’ entertainment/social value
- Those who go much further than that + engage in celebrity worship are compensating for deficiencies in life
^— e.g. difficulty forming intimate relationships, low self-esteem or poor psychological functioning
- Forming parasocial relationships allows them to achieve fulfilment they lack in everyday life
- Someone who starts as entertainment-social may be triggered into a more intense level by a stressful life event
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What is the entertainment-social level of parasocial relationships
- Fans are attracted to a favourite celebrity + will watch, keep up with, read + learn about that celebrity for entertainment + gossip purposes
^— e.g. friends w/ interests in reality TV enjoy discussing drama between characters on Love Island
^— e.g. “Learning the life story of my favourite celebrity is a lot of fun@
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What is the intense-personal level of parasocial relationships
Involves a deeper level of involvement and reflects intensive + compulsive feelings about the celebrity, akin to the obsessive tendencies of fans often referred to in the literature
^— e.g. Kylie Jenner fan might frequently comment on her social media posts + think they are soulmates
^— e.g. “I love to talk to others who admire my favourite celebrity”
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What is the borderline-pathological level of parasocial relationships
Typified by empathy w/ the celebrity (as individuals at this level identify with the celebrities successes + failure
- Also over identification with the celebrity + uncontrollable behaviours + fantasies about their lives
^— e.g. Christiano Ronaldo fan spend more money on signed football boots or be willing to commit illegal acts to see him
^— e.g. “If I walked through the door of my favourite celebrity’s house, they would be happy to see me”
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Explain the absorption element of the absorption addiction model
- Seeking fulfilment in celebrity worship motivates an individual to focus attention on the celebrity to become absorbed in the celebrity’s existence and identify with them
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Explain the addiction element of the absorption addiction model
- Like physiological addition
^— an individual needs to increase their ‘dose’ of involvement to gain satisfaction
^— may lead to more extreme behaviours + delusional thinking (i.e. borderline pathological)
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Outline the attachment theory explanation of parasocial relationships
- Bowlby’s attachment theory suggests early difficulties in attachment may lead to difficulties in forming successful relationships irl
- Parasocial relationships may function similarly to ‘real life’ relationships in terms of attachment behaviours
^— relationships with TV personalities exhibit to some degree the three fundamental properties of adult attachment
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What are Weiss’ (1991) three fundamental properties of adult attachment?
- Proximity seeking
- Secure base
- Protest at disruption
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Explain the role of proximity seeking in parasocial relationships
- Individuals attempt to reduce the distance between themselves and their attachment figure
^— fans exhibit proximity-seeking behaviour w/ parasocial relationships
- Research shown that people like to stay informed about their favourite celebrities - collecting trivia about them, rearranging schedules to see them on TV, attempting to contact through letters or in person
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Explain the role of secure bases in parasocial relationships
- Presence of attachment figure provides a sense of security for the individual (a ‘safe haven’) that allows them to explore the world
- W/ parasocial relationships, where little/no chance of rejection from the attachment figure, the individual can create a secure base from which they can explore other relationships in a safe way
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Explain the protests at disruption in parasocial relationships
- Best marker of an attachment may be the presence of prolonged distress following separation/loss of an attachment figure
^— e.g. BBC axing Jeremy Clarkson from Top Gear in 2015 was met by raw emotion associated with the loss of an attachment figure
^— met with comments such as ‘I want to cry’ + ‘Top Gear gave my life purpose’
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What two attachment styles did Ainswoth associate with unhealthy emotional development?
- Insecure-resistant
- Insecure-avoidant
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State the association of the insecure-resistant attachment type with parasocial relationships
- MOST LIEKLY to form parasocial relationships
^— they want to have their unfulfilled needs met but w/out rejection, disappointment + criticism they associate with real relationships
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State the association of the insecure-avoidant attachment type with parasocial relationships
- AVOID pain + rejection of any type of relationship (parasocial or social)
