Relationships Flashcards
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What is self disclosure?
Revealing personal information about yourself.
What is social penetration theory?
The gradual process of revealing your inner self to someone, involving reciprocity and a display of trust when revealing information.
What is matching hypothesis?
- What are the 2 hypothesis which make up the theory?
The belief that we are most attracted to a person who approximately matches us in physical attractiveness.
H1: Attractive people expect an attractive partner
H2: Couples who are equally matched are happier.
What is the difference between inter-sexual selection and intra-sexual selection?
Inter-sexual = between the sexes, that strategies that males/females use to select females/males.
Intra-sexual = within the sexes, the strategies between males to be the one that is selected.
Define anisogamy:
The differences between male and female sex cells (gametes)
What is one biological consequence of anisogamy?
There are no shortage of fertile males but a fertile female is much rarer.
- Female gametes require a significant investment of energy.
What is the preferred method of selection for females?
Inter-sexual selection
(quality over quantity - ova are rarer than sperm)
What is the preferred method of selection for males?
Intra-sexual selection
(quantity over quality - plentiful supply of sperm)
What strategy of selection has resulted in sexual dimorphism?
Intra-sexual selection
What is sexual dimorphism?
‘Two Forms’ (males and females look very different)
Evaluation of sexual selection:
- Research support: Hatfield (1989) - Men have evolved psychological mechanisms to ensure success in short term mating
- Gender bias: Men couldn’t have evolved a desire for short term mating without willing females, meaning there must be benefits of short term mating for women: mate switching to leave a poor relationship, or producing more genetically diverse offspring.
- Universality is high: Buss (1989): 10000 people across 37 cultures
What is the main evolutionary explanation for partner preferences?
Sexual selection
What research study acts as evidence for sex differences in short term mating preferences?
Hatfield (1989)
What were the results of Hatfield’s study?
Of the females approached:
- 50% agreed to a date
- 0% agreed to have sex
Of the males approached:
- 50% agreed to a date
- 75% agreed to have sex
What study acts as evidence for universal sex differences in long term mating preferences?
Buss (1989)
Findings of Buss (1989)
- Women desired good financial prospects; ambition, resources.
- Men places more importance on physical attractiveness; fertility, reproductive value. Males also want younger females
- Both sexes wanted mates who were intelligent, kind, and dependable.
Procedure of Buss (1989)
Meta analysis of 10000 people from 37 cultures
Buss explored what males and females look for in a marriage partner.
What study opposes Buss (1989)’s theory that males want younger females?
Kenrick (1996)
Findings of Kenrick (1989)
- Found that teenage males are most attracted to women who are 5 years older than them, despite the fact that they usually show no interest and are not easily controlled.
What do both sexes look for in long term mates?
Males: signs of fertility
Females:
1. Resources
2. Physical protection
3. Good parent
4. Sufficiently compatible to minimise costs
What does more disclosure result in?
Greater feelings of intimacy
What theory does self disclosure fall under?
Social Penetration Theory
What 2 factors are important in self disclosure and how do they play into each other?
Breadth and depth:
Breadth is restricted at first as some topics are ‘off limits’. As depth increases so can breadth.
Evaluation of self disclosure:
- Real world applications: Can increase intimacy and strengthen bonds
- Cultural differences: Tang (2013) found that individualist self disclosure concerning sexual thoughts is higher than that of collectivist cultures.
- Hendrick (2004): Strong correlation between satisfaction and self disclosure