Religious Studies Flashcards
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Themes: Issues of Relationships
Relationships - 15 Mark Question
Relationships
The topic includes: Beliefs, Teachings and attitudes about the nature and purpose of relationships in the twenty-first century. Families, roles of women and men, marriage outside the religious tradition, Cohabitation, the nature and purpose of marriage as expressed through ceremonies, adultery, and divorce.
What is Adultery?
Adultery is when a married person chooses to have sex with someone who they are not married to.
What is Divorce?
Divorce is to legally end a marriage.
What is Cohabitation?
Cohabitation is to live together in a sexual relationship without being married or in a civil partnership.
What is Commitment?
Commitment is making and keeping a promise, such as wedding vows.
What is Contraception?
Contraception is methods that are used to prevent a woman from becoming pregnant during or following sexual intercourse (eg; Artificial or natural).
What is Gender Equality?
Gender Equality is when people of all genders enjoy the same rights and opportunities in all aspects of their lives.
What are Responsibilities?
Responsibilities are actions or duties you are expected to carry out, such as looking after family members.
What are Roles?
Roles are the position of a person as well as the characteristics expected of them (eg; A police officers roles is to enforce and obey the law).
Nuclear Families
Nuclear families are the most common type of family, consisting of two parents with one or more children all living together.
Single-Parent Families
Single-Parent Families are where one parent raises one or more children alone. This type of family is continuing to rise due to increasing divorce rates.
Extended Family
Extended Families are a number of adults and children who are related living in the same home. This can include cousins, grandparents, aunts and uncles who all share family roles and live together.
Childless Families
Childless Families are where married or cohabiting couples do not have children. This can be through inability to conceive or through choice; many same-sex couples are childless families.
Reconstituted Families
Reconstituted Familes are families in which adults who have divorced decide to remarry or cohabit, which leads to a mix of step-parents and step children.
Christian Views on Family
Christians believe that family and nurture is the basis of Western society, and it is believed that children should be brought up in loving and supportive families.
As a result of this, Christians believe that the foundation for families is marriage, with the ideal family unit being a nuclear family. Children are considered a “gift from God” so parents need to have a responsibility to care for them properly and teach them how to live.
Many believe that religious belief should be taught and lived out at home, with a lot of believers feeling as though it is their duty to share their faith with their children, such as teaching them the Ten Commandments, taking them to church and teaching them when and how to pray. In return, the children should respect and obey their parents until they themselves are adults.
Quotes for Christian Beliefs on Family
“Honour thy father and thy mother.” Exodus 20:12
“Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6
“[family is] the essential shell of society.” Pope Francis
“The family is the community in which, from childhood, one can learn moral values, begin to honour
God and make good use of freedom” (Catechism of the Catholic Church)
Islamic Views on Family
Islam also holds the general belief that family is extremely important, however it may differ from how Christians view family. Many muslims follow the more ‘traditional’ roles of the family, with women fulfilling the role of being the wife and mother (the primary carer of the children and home) and men fulfilling the role of protector and provider. Despite these different roles, however, men and women are viewed as equals.
Parents have the responsibility to care for their children physically and emotionally, teach them right from wrong, and their goal is for the children to grow into self-disciplined, independent adults. Children are expected to respect their parents, so when their parents reach old age, they are to be treated with kindness and selflessness, therefore Muslims believe that the ideal family unit is an extended family.
For Muslims, caring for your parents in the most difficult time of their lives is considered a blessing and an opportunity for spiritual growth. It is not enough that we only pray for our parents, but we should act with limitless compassion, remembering that when we were helpless children, they preferred us to themselves.
Quotes for Islamic Beliefs on Family
“A man is the guardian of his family/household; a woman is the guardian of the husband’s home and
of his children” (Hadith)
“Your Lord has commanded that you be kind to your parents …since they cared for you when you
were small.” (Quran, 17:24)
“Your Lord has commanded that you worship none but him, and that you be kind to your parents…
and do not say to them a word of disrespect”. (Qur’an 17: 23)
The Nature and Purpose of Marriage for Christians
Many Christians believe marriage is a sacrament, meaning God blesses the marriage by the sending of grace to the married couple, and most believe that marriage is a gift from God and the right atmosphere to engage in sexual relations and to build a family life. Many will chose to get married in a Church as during the service, the Father walks the bride down the aisle, symbolising that he is giving her over to the groom to look after her.
Traditional vows are exchanged as a public demonstration of their commitment. An exchange of
rings symbolises their eternal love and Prayers and hymns say thanks to God and ask for his blessings
on their marriage.
“But at the beginning of creation God made them male and Female. For this reason a man will leave
his mother and father and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” Mark 10:6-8
The Nature and Purpose of Marriage for Islam
A Muslim marriage will usually take place at the bride’s home or at the Mosque (For Shi’a Muslims, six verses of the Nikkah are read during the marriage) and the bride and groom sign 3 marriage contracts before a minimum of two witnesses to show that they have agreed to the marriage.
The wali (woman’s guardian) offers the bride to the groom, to symbolise the groom’s responsibility for his new wife. Prayers and readings from the Qur’an wish them wealth, long life and many children.
Marriages in Islam are often arranged, but these can only take place with the consent of both parties. If someone was forced to marry then the marriage would be invalid. Marriage in Islam is vitally important and celibacy is not encouraged, as Muhammad stated to not delay marriage. Further, marriage in Islam is considered the ideal for
having a family and can act as a combat against sexual immorality.
“And of His Signs is that He has created mates for you from your own kind that you may find peace in
them and He has set between you love and mercy.” Qur’an 30:21
Marrying Outside of Religious Traditions (Inter-Faith Marriage)
In a pluralistic society (where many religions are present), inter-faith marriage is an issue that many
religions have. There are various problems:
Orthodox Christian tradition states that a marriage can only take place in a Church if an Orthodox Christian is marrying a Baptised Christian. Seen in Catholic tradition, the partner who is not Catholic must agree to any children being allowed to follow the Catholic faith. Whilst these are issues, it is possible to have a civil ceremony (non-religious), followed by a religious blessing.
There are also other issues of inter-faith marriage not surrounding religious tradition, such as dietary rules, festivals, gender roles, recognition of the marriage and the religion/faith of any children.
Christian Views on Adultery
Adultery is wrong because marriage is sexually exclusive and should not be shared with anyone else.
Further, the 10 commandments forbid adultery. Marriage is seen as a sacrament and gift from God; adultery goes against this and destroys the special relationship between a husband and wife (adultery also breaks the vows made at the wedding). Adultery can harm the family unit and cause the partner to feel cheated and betrayed. However, in the New Testament, Jesus forgave the women who committed adultery.
Jesus said: ‘“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that
anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
Islamic Views on Adultery
Adultery is wrong because sex outside of marriage is strongly disapproved of. Marriage is a life-long
union based on trust, morality and devotion. Further, adultery is seen as harmful to society, so
against unity and peace of the ummah. Adultery is seen as a form of the worst possible theft and
often in some Islamic countries it has been punishable by stoning.
And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse – it is immoral and evil” Qur’an 17:32