Self and other Flashcards
(45 cards)
Sense of self
awareness of the self as differentiated from other people (distinction between self and other)- very critical for children behaviour basic requirement- can tell the difference between your self and other
Individual self
aspects of the self that makes the person unique- a person sees themselves as hard working, physically fit, confident- characteristics of the individual
Relational self
aspects of the self that involve connection- you in relation to other people, how you are defined with other people
Collective self
concept of self with in a group- all belong to groups and see ourselves as members- gender, race…
Ecological self
physical sense of self and ones capabilities. more advances - second yr of life children are still developing an ecological sense of self- developmental differences
Ecological self (Shopping cart)
15mo introduced- figure out how to get cart to mother after demonstration- pushes and pushes but does not get closer- in order to solve this they have to have a sense of self- no idea it is her body preventing the cart from moving. 14mo- cannot figure out why it cannot move- tries to climb in 16mo makes a connection to mat but not further to her self. 18mo pushes once then steps off mat- suggests aware of himself and body. 18mo takes a walk to analyse no time to understand that if she is standing it wont move- roles mat- baby humans become aware of themselves only after 18 months of life. adjust something about themselves to find the solution. Themselves standing was what was preventing- requires a way of recognise your own ability and sense of self and that they can get in their own way
Development of self awareness
the self is separate from other and the environment- process consciousness- aware of the environment and awareness which is the ability to reflect,
Mirror self recognition
A way to test self awareness. the rouge test- a mark is placed on childs forehead- younger than 18mo does not make a connection between itself and the person in mirror- look behind to find stranger. at about 18mo change in awareness- notices red dot and the link between itself and the image in the mirror.
Developmental Origins of Self Concept- ages and reactions for mirror recognition
0-1: act as if some other child is behind the mirror; stare at the mirror and don’t touch their own face.
By 2- recognise their own image. almost all will giggle, show embarrassment or act silly at the sight of their own red nose- delay in time and show them a video of putting a sticker 2/3 year olds will not self recognise (limitations)- a time delay is introduced 2/3 year olds will fail to recognise themselves
Developing self awareness
Children typically ”pass” the task at 15- to 18-months of age
Independent of children’s mirror exposure and their ability to use a mirror as a tool to search for hidden objects
* Even children from cultures with few/no mirrors show roughly the same developmental trends.- can use a mirror to find objects.
Tied to production of “self-conscious” emotions: shame, guilt, pride, jealousy- only feel these emotions if you feel bad about yourself
Mirror self recognition Animal studies
Some non human species can also pass the mirror recognition task
Apes-
Elephants-
Developing a sense of self- Autistic Children
Autistic children exhibit deficits in self-recognition- autism affects the ability to develop a sens of self- do not recognise themselves as independent beings- age 3-13 31% failed to recognise themselves in the mirror. Delays in self recognition and if they do recognise themselves do not have a huge emotional response- less proficient in understanding emotions.
Even when autistic children do recognise themselves in the mirror, they demonstrate little emotional response.
Autistic children, in comparison with normal children, show similar neurological responses to their own face, a familiar face, and an unfamiliar face- more indication in having difficulty in developing a sense of self
Self-Esteem
the evaluative component of the self that taps how positively or negatively people view themselves in relation to others. am I as good as my friends, am I better than my classmates, am I worse than my neighbours. Global evaluation of individuals worth
High self esteem
Children who have high self-esteem view themselves as competent, capable, and are pleased with who they are- low self esteem- inadequacy and inferior
Individuals with high self-esteem are happier than those with low self-esteem
High self-esteem in childhood is linked to a variety of positive adjustment outcomes including school success, good relationships with parents and peers, and less anxiety and depression- good performance is as likely to lead to high self esteem as the reverse. Not exactly a cause and effect relationship- can potentially feed into each other.
Negatives of high self esteem
High self-esteem may foster experimentation, which may increase early sexual activity and drinking- does not prevent smoking, drinking, early sex- can sometimes increase these activities
High self-esteem can also be related to prejudice and antisocial behaviour- aggressive adolescence who have high self esteem were more likely to belittle victims than aggressive with low self esteem
Self-Appraisal
more specific- refers to perceptions and rating of the self in particular areas e.g. as an athlete, as a friend- more specific to certain context areas
Learning Self-Appraisal
Children under the age of 8 tend to have unrealistically positive self appraisals- how good they are at something- really good and have high ratings. Children are note entirely inaccurate its just the ratings of themselves are inflated. With age they become less inflated and more realistic (compared to teacher rating)
Self-appraisals become more specific and realistic across development as children incorporate feedback from others
Children also distinguish among different kinds of competence and view themselves as better in some domains than others
Self-appraisals in each domain affects global self-esteem- children with positive self appraisal devote more interest attention and effort given to a particular domain- in return reinforces and feeds back to the self appraisal in that domain e.g. more effort and interest into your studies how that guides and reinforces the self appraisal
Social Determinants of Self-Esteem
Family Influences
Peer Influences
Mentor influences
Family Influences on self esteem
Children’s higher self-esteem associated with parents who are:
1. Accepting, affectionate and involved with their children
2. Set clear and consistent rules
3. Use noncoercive disciplinary tactics
4. Consider the child’s views in family decisions
(authoritative parents )
Influence of Peers on self esteem
children are most influence by peers they are not as close to- they know they are more objective, influences their self esteem
Influence of Mentors on self esteem
Mentoring programs have positive effects on self-esteem- But depends on consistency, quality, and duration of the mentoring
Praise & Self-Esteem
the way parents and teachers use praise and the effect on self esteem- praise takes 2 forms- 1: person praise- praises the individual for the characteristics they poses (you are so smart so pretty) 2: process praise- praising the effort (you are such a hard worker) praising the effort rather than characteristic
tell a child they are smart and talented- the way they approach is it forms an evaluation of them- when they receive a challenging task they will get nervous because they think if they do not do well people will think negatively of them. Person praise- child consistently receives person praise and come up to challenging task it leads to opting out of difficult task (related to fixed mindset)- reject learning opportunities. Process praise- related to growth mindset- challenges, profiting from mistakes and percevierng from mistakes, more interested in learning. Praising children for pre dispotsitonal leads to less resilience can be seen in toddlers
Praising for effort better
Lucca, Horton & Sommerville, 2019
Researchers wanted to know the effects of praise in early life. 18mo- gave infants a difficult task- different geers- had to put the geers and the spindle- difficult because designed for 3 yr olds- made the task harder because they put insetrs into the geers- they would have to take them out then put geers. Told parents to interact with children and do what they normally do at home. Looking to see when parents would praise, what kind and how often. Identified infants trying behaviour- how long, how many geers, what did they do when they failed.
relationship between parental praise and infant trying behaviour- great job trying (recognising effort)- the longer the children would try for. Unique about process praise and is seen in infants.
the more used process praised the harder children tried on the second task- can be applied to a different task as well.