SEMI-FINALS Flashcards

1
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kind, unselfish love

A

Agape (agapic)

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2
Q

love as friendship or
companionship

A

Storge (storgic)

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3
Q

very pragmatic/practical
approach to love

A

Pragma

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4
Q

passionate, romantic
love

A

Eros (erotic)

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5
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obsessive, jealous, and
addictive

A

Mania (manic)

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6
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love as a game

A

Ludus (ludic)

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7
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_____ lovers fall in love early in a relationship

A

Erotic

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8
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Love is very intense and passionate

A

Eros (erotic)

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9
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The ____ lover wants to share everything with
and know everything about the loved one

A

erotic

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10
Q

The _____ lover thinks of his/her partner in an
idealized manner

A

erotic

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11
Q

The _____ lover’s reaction to criticism from
his/her partner is one of hurt and intense pain

A

erotic

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12
Q

The _____ lovers reaction to separation from the
partner is agony and despair

A

erotic

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13
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______ have a very self-oriented approach to love

A

Ludics

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14
Q

minimize dependency and commitment

A

Ludics

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15
Q

They rarely or never become overly involved with one
partner and often have more than on partner at a time

A

Ludics

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16
Q

They don’t reveal their true thoughts and feelings to their
partner, especially if they think they can gain some kind
of advantage over their partner

A

Ludics

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17
Q

Usually want sex (plenty of it) for pleasure

A

Ludics

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18
Q

Reaction to criticism from the partner is indifference

A

Ludics

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19
Q

Reaction to separation form the partner is immediate
replacement

A

Ludics

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20
Q

_____ love develops slowly

A

Storge

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21
Q

It grows out of mutual understanding, rapport,
respect, companionship, sharing, and concern

A

Storge

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22
Q

It is not characterized by high levels of ecstasy
and excitement (as is eros), but is a solid,
stable, enduring love

A

Storge

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23
Q

Reaction to criticism from partner—give and
take, compromise, constructive problem solving

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Storge

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24
Q

Reaction to separation—feelings of emptiness
and loss

A

Storge

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25
Q

_____ lovers are obsessive, jealous, irrational,
possessive, and consumed by thoughts of their lovers

A

Manic

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26
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They need constant attention, affection, and
togetherness

A

Mania

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27
Q

Love is very intense

A

Mania

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28
Q

They frequently put love to the test for the sake of
reassurance

A

Mania

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29
Q

Their reaction to criticism from partner—defensiveness,
hypersensitivity, and sometimes violence

A

Mania

30
Q

Their reaction to separation—instant panic

A

Mania

31
Q

_____ love is altruistic

A

Agape

32
Q

The ____ lover gets more pleasure from giving
in a relationship than from receiving

A

agapic

33
Q

The _____ lover is very forgiving, patient,
understanding, loyal, and willing to make
sacrifices for his/her partner

A

agapic

34
Q

Their reaction to criticism form the partner—
willingness to change or compromise

A

Agape

35
Q

Their reaction to separation from the partner—
sense of loss and emptiness

A

Agape

36
Q

It is very logical and realistic

A

Pragma

37
Q

_______ lovers are self-oriented

A

Pragmatic

38
Q

Their reaction to criticism from the partner—defensive, analytical

A

Pragma

39
Q

refers to love between human beings.

A

Interpersonal love

40
Q

It is
a much more potent sentiment than a simple liking for a
person.

A

Interpersonal love

41
Q

______ love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples

A

Interpersonal love

42
Q

Triangular Model of Love, proposed by _______________

A

Robert J. Sternberg

43
Q

Triangular Model of Love, proposed by Robert J. Sternberg in
__________

A

1986

44
Q

This model suggests that any interpersonal love relationship
consists of three basic components.

A

Triangular Model of Love

45
Q

suggests that any interpersonal love relationship
consists of three basic components:

A

● INTIMACY
● PASSION
● COMMITMENT

46
Q

refers to feelings of
closeness, connectedness, and
bondedness in loving
relationships.

A

Intimacy

47
Q

Presence of bondedness, warmth,
and closeness with another but not
intense passion or long-term
commitment.

A

Intimacy

48
Q

refers to the drives that lead
to romance, physical attraction,
sexual consummation, and related
phenomena

A

Passion

49
Q

___________ is presence of only the passion component

A

Infatuation

50
Q

refers to
the decision that one loves a
certain other, and to one’s
commitment to maintain that
love.

A

Decision/commitment

51
Q

Sometimes, love begins from this stage, or a stronger love
deteriorates into empty love.

A

EMPTY LOVE

52
Q

__________ lovers are bonded
emotionally and physically
through passionate arousal.

A

Romantic

53
Q

COMPANIONATE LOVE

A

Commitment and intimacy
without the passion
component

54
Q

Presence of commitment
and passion, without the
intimacy.

A

FATUOUS LOVE

55
Q

______________ is the complete
form of love.

A
56
Q

__________ love may not be
permanent., and is hard to maintain.

A

Consummate

57
Q

refers simply to the absence of all three
components of love.

A

Non-love

58
Q

The geometry of the “love triangle” depends upon two
factors:

A

● Amount of love-Area of Triangle
● Balance of love-Shape of Triangle

59
Q

The possibility of Multiple Triangles by:

A

Michele Acker and
Mark Davis (1992)

60
Q

This can exist because individuals can experience
each component of love more intensely than another.

A

Multiple triangles

61
Q

Viewing of progress and depth of relationship.

A

Real triangles

62
Q

Ideal qualities of partner/relationship.

A

Ideal triangles

63
Q
  • Ideas of how partner views the
    relationship.
A

Perceived triangles

64
Q

Although he predicted the stages of a person’s love for
another person, he did not specify a time or point in the
relationship when the stages would evolve.

A

LIMITATIONS

65
Q

He does not specify whether the different parts of love are
dependent on duration of relationship or on the particular stage that relationship has reached.

A

LIMITATIONS

66
Q

Large numbers of unique and different love stories convey different ways of how love
is understood.

A

Love as a Story:

67
Q

The two theories create:

A

Sternberg’s Duplex theory of love.

68
Q

Same as Triangular theory of Love, but the emotions manifest itself in the negative
spectrum.

A

Triangular Theory of Hate

69
Q

Triangular Theory of Hate;

A
  1. Negotiation of Intimacy
  2. Passion in the hate
  3. Commitment in hate
70
Q

Contempt for targeted group.

A

Commitment in hate

71
Q

Response to a threat.

A

Passion in the hate

72
Q

Seeking of distance.

A

Negotiation of Intimacy