SEMI-FINALS Flashcards

(72 cards)

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kind, unselfish love

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Agape (agapic)

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love as friendship or
companionship

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Storge (storgic)

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very pragmatic/practical
approach to love

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Pragma

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passionate, romantic
love

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Eros (erotic)

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obsessive, jealous, and
addictive

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Mania (manic)

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6
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love as a game

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Ludus (ludic)

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_____ lovers fall in love early in a relationship

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Erotic

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Love is very intense and passionate

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Eros (erotic)

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The ____ lover wants to share everything with
and know everything about the loved one

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erotic

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The _____ lover thinks of his/her partner in an
idealized manner

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erotic

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The _____ lover’s reaction to criticism from
his/her partner is one of hurt and intense pain

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erotic

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The _____ lovers reaction to separation from the
partner is agony and despair

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erotic

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13
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______ have a very self-oriented approach to love

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Ludics

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14
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minimize dependency and commitment

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Ludics

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15
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They rarely or never become overly involved with one
partner and often have more than on partner at a time

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Ludics

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They don’t reveal their true thoughts and feelings to their
partner, especially if they think they can gain some kind
of advantage over their partner

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Ludics

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17
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Usually want sex (plenty of it) for pleasure

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Ludics

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18
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Reaction to criticism from the partner is indifference

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Ludics

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19
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Reaction to separation form the partner is immediate
replacement

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Ludics

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20
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_____ love develops slowly

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Storge

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21
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It grows out of mutual understanding, rapport,
respect, companionship, sharing, and concern

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Storge

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22
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It is not characterized by high levels of ecstasy
and excitement (as is eros), but is a solid,
stable, enduring love

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Storge

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Reaction to criticism from partner—give and
take, compromise, constructive problem solving

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Storge

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Reaction to separation—feelings of emptiness
and loss

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Storge

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_____ lovers are obsessive, jealous, irrational, possessive, and consumed by thoughts of their lovers
Manic
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They need constant attention, affection, and togetherness
Mania
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Love is very intense
Mania
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They frequently put love to the test for the sake of reassurance
Mania
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Their reaction to criticism from partner—defensiveness, hypersensitivity, and sometimes violence
Mania
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Their reaction to separation—instant panic
Mania
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_____ love is altruistic
Agape
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The ____ lover gets more pleasure from giving in a relationship than from receiving
agapic
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The _____ lover is very forgiving, patient, understanding, loyal, and willing to make sacrifices for his/her partner
agapic
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Their reaction to criticism form the partner— willingness to change or compromise
Agape
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Their reaction to separation from the partner— sense of loss and emptiness
Agape
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It is very logical and realistic
Pragma
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_______ lovers are self-oriented
Pragmatic
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Their reaction to criticism from the partner—defensive, analytical
Pragma
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refers to love between human beings.
Interpersonal love
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It is a much more potent sentiment than a simple liking for a person.
Interpersonal love
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______ love is most closely associated with interpersonal relationships. Such love might exist between family members, friends, and couples
Interpersonal love
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Triangular Model of Love, proposed by _______________
Robert J. Sternberg
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Triangular Model of Love, proposed by Robert J. Sternberg in __________
1986
44
This model suggests that any interpersonal love relationship consists of three basic components.
Triangular Model of Love
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suggests that any interpersonal love relationship consists of three basic components:
● INTIMACY ● PASSION ● COMMITMENT
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refers to feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness in loving relationships.
Intimacy
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Presence of bondedness, warmth, and closeness with another but not intense passion or long-term commitment.
Intimacy
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refers to the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, sexual consummation, and related phenomena
Passion
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___________ is presence of only the passion component
Infatuation
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refers to the decision that one loves a certain other, and to one's commitment to maintain that love.
Decision/commitment
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Sometimes, love begins from this stage, or a stronger love deteriorates into empty love.
EMPTY LOVE
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__________ lovers are bonded emotionally and physically through passionate arousal.
Romantic
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COMPANIONATE LOVE
Commitment and intimacy without the passion component
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Presence of commitment and passion, without the intimacy.
FATUOUS LOVE
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______________ is the complete form of love.
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__________ love may not be permanent., and is hard to maintain.
Consummate
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refers simply to the absence of all three components of love.
Non-love
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The geometry of the "love triangle" depends upon two factors:
● Amount of love-Area of Triangle ● Balance of love-Shape of Triangle
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The possibility of Multiple Triangles by:
Michele Acker and Mark Davis (1992)
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This can exist because individuals can experience each component of love more intensely than another.
Multiple triangles
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Viewing of progress and depth of relationship.
Real triangles
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Ideal qualities of partner/relationship.
Ideal triangles
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- Ideas of how partner views the relationship.
Perceived triangles
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Although he predicted the stages of a person's love for another person, he did not specify a time or point in the relationship when the stages would evolve.
LIMITATIONS
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He does not specify whether the different parts of love are dependent on duration of relationship or on the particular stage that relationship has reached.
LIMITATIONS
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Large numbers of unique and different love stories convey different ways of how love is understood.
Love as a Story:
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The two theories create:
Sternberg's Duplex theory of love.
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Same as Triangular theory of Love, but the emotions manifest itself in the negative spectrum.
Triangular Theory of Hate
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Triangular Theory of Hate;
1. Negotiation of Intimacy 2. Passion in the hate 3. Commitment in hate
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Contempt for targeted group.
Commitment in hate
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Response to a threat.
Passion in the hate
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Seeking of distance.
Negotiation of Intimacy