Social Psych Flashcards
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What are the 4 factors that characterise the strategies that people employ when relationships breakdown?
- Withdrawal/ avoidance
- Manipulation – e.g., create lots of arguments so the other person ends the relationship
- Positive-tone strategies – positive spin on ending relationship “it’s me not you”
- Open confrontation – come clean and be honest
Are quality of alternative and investment reliable predictors of relationship stability?
yes
Lower quality of alternative and greater investment size predicted:
- More commitment
- Less frequent leaving behaviour
Is satisfaction a reliable predictor of relationship stability? Give an example
Satisfaction is not a reliable predictor:
- Abused women stay when
o They have limited/ poor-quality alternatives
o They have invested more in their relationships
What is investments in the economic maintenance theory of relationships?
- Investments – level of resources put into a relationship which increase the costs of withdrawing from the relationships o Financial (e.g., money, house), temporal (e.g., been with them 10 years), emotional (e.g., welfare of kids, self-disclosure)
What is quality of alternatives in the economic maintenance theory of relationships?
- Quality of alternatives – 2 factors
o Comparison level – comparing current levels of satisfaction with previous relationships
o Comparison level for alternatives – comparing current relationship to other possible relationships on offer
What is satisfaction in the economic maintenance theory of relationships?
- Satisfaction – based on costs and rewards and these tend to be subjective
o All relationships have an outcome (subtracting costs from rewards – profit or loss). Satisfaction is when rewards outweigh costs
What is the economic maintenance theory of relationships? What are the three factors it considers?
- Economic maintenance of relationships – look at what we put into and get out of a relationship – will leave if there’s a better deal elsewhere
o Satisfaction
o Quality of alternatives
o Investments
o All feed into commitment which leads to relationship stability
What happened in the bridge study? (arousal and romance)
o Shakey bridge condition: high level of arousal from crossing bridge, shown image from thematic apperception test, ask to make up a story based on image, given phone number of an attractive experimenter, described picture in more sexualised way, more likely to call experimenter
o Safe and wide bridge: low level of arousal, same procedure, non-sexual story, less likely to call experimenter
What are the 3 things we need in the three-factor theory of love?
o A state of physiological arousal
o An appropriate label for the arousal
o An appropriate love object
What is self disclosure? How does it operate? How does it increase likeability?
- Revealing information about oneself to another person is important in interpersonal relationships
- We disclose more to people we like; we like people more after having disclosed to them, we like people who disclose more
- Self-disclosure usually operates according to a “norm of reciprocity”
- Sharing intimate information maintains relationships
What is the matching hypothesis? What have studies shown about it? Is it also true for gay and lesbian couples?
Matching hypothesis – the more socially desirable an individual is, the more socially desirable they would expect their partner to be
- People learn their position in the “attractiveness hierarchy via a feedback loop
- Study found that real couples were rated with similar levels of attractiveness than pseudo couples
- Doesn’t seem to hold true for gay and lesbian people e.g., age, attractiveness, racial background – possibly due to having a smaller pool of choice of people
What findings demonstrate that deception is an issue with dating apps?
o Compared users’ profiles to national average
o Men and women claimed to be taller than national average
o Women claimed to weigh less than the national average
What findings demonstrate why objectification is an issue with dating apps
o “relationshopping” – leads to objectification of individuals
o Found that people tend to see pictures and profiles as “sales pitches” and that we reduce people to products
o Difficult to measure subtle “experimental” attributes from a profile but easy to reduce/categorise people on attributes
Describe a study that demonstrates why having too much choice when using dating apps is an issue
o Supermarket shopper: encountered tasting booth of 6 or 24 jams
o Shoppers significantly more likely to stop at the booth with the larger array, but 10 times more likely to purchase the jams from the smaller array
What are some problems with apps and speed dating?
- When given too much choice, people experience choice paralysis, in which they avoid making any decision rather than exerting the mental effort required to make a decision
- Objectification – presented with thousands of profiles. Online websites allow users to narrow their search categories in much the same way that users on a shopping website can refine their searches
- Deception – people engage in deliberate self-presentation when constructing their profiles
Why does a cognitive bias for attractive people exist?
- Attractive people are more extraverted, have higher self-confidence, possess better social skills
-They become more sociable because:
o Mothers treat attractive children better
o Attractive pupils are treated better by peers and teachers
o Attractive people receive more help and cooperation - Attractive people confirm the what-is-beautiful-is-good-stereotype by reciprocating favourable responses from other – self-fulfilling prophecy
What are some examples that suggest a cognitive bias for attractive people?
- Students are judges as more intelligent and get higher grades
- Raise more money for charity
- Higher income
- Lower sentences in court
- Attractive babies: mothers play more and display more affectionate behaviour
What are the objectively attractive features of the face and body for men and women?
- Symmetrical faces are judged as more attractive than asymmetrical faces
- Female faces with high cheekbones and smooth skin – most sensitive indicator of high level of oestrogen
- Male faces with large jaw, prominent brow ridges and cheekbones – signal high levels of testosterone
- Symmetrical bodies:
o Man: narrow waist and broad chest and shoulders
o Women: hourglass shaped waist-to-hip ratio of 0.70 (associated with fertility)
Is attractiveness linked to fertility in women?
Possibly and would explain why men seek out more attractive female partners
Why are there sex differences in what people find attractive?
Parental investment theory – idea that sex differences can be understood in terms of the amount of time, energy and risk to their own survival that males and females put into parenting versus mating
What attracts us to people?
- In romantic relationships, men focus on physical attraction whereas women focus on status, followed by physical attractiveness
What is majority influence? What is it based on?
– individual will conform to larger group and their norms
- based on conformity
What is minority influence? What is the basis of it?
– minority influences majority
- based on innovation, something new that not many people are doing yet
What is low balling?
o Pitch a reasonable offer that I agreed to followed by a more savoury, less beneficial version of the same request
o E.g., for only $200! Then 15 mins later saying that that didn’t include tax
o Target feels obligation to the requester and so still agrees to the less beneficial offer