The Joy Luck Club key quotes Flashcards

1
Q

I can never remember things I ____ ____ in the first place

A

didn’t understand

Jing Mei cannot understand Chinese words / identity, immigration and language - mother and daughter relationship

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These kind of explanations made me feel my mother and I spoke ___ ___ ___, which we did. I talked to her in English, she answered back in Chinese

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two different languages

Language differences between Jing Mei and her mother / immigration and language, mother and daughter relationship

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3
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My mother and I never really understood ___ ___

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one another

Jing Mei and her mother using different expressions and languages leading them to misunderstand or mistranslate each other’s meanings / mother and daughter relationship, immigration and language

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4
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My mother believed you could be ___ ___ ___ to be in America

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anything you want

Jing-Mei’s mother Su-Yuan believing the American dream / immigration, mother and daughter relationship, fate and autonomy

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5
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I won’t let her ___ me, I promised to myself. I won’t be what I’m ___

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change, not

Jing-Mei looking at her own reflection / identity, fate and autonomy

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6
Q

You want me to be someone that I’m not. I wish I wasn’t your ___. I wish you weren’t my ___.

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daughter, mother

Jing-Mei was ignorant of the sacrifice and suffering of her mother and what she had gone through as a parent as a Chinese refugee. The great expectations gave Jing-Mei pressure and this caused misunderstandings between mother and daughter / mother and daughter relationship

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6
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I guess my mother’s telling me I’m ___ ___something.’

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Still worth

Jing-Mei receiving a pendant from her mother. Chinese mothers using action more than words to express their love “This is your life’s importance” / mother and daughter relationship

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6
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That’s the way Chinese mothers show they love their children, not through ___ and ___ but with ___ ___ of steamed dumplings.

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hugs, kisses, stern offerings

Jing-Mei / mother and daughter relationship, immigration, tradition

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7
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Only her ___ and ___ are Chinese. Inside she is all ___. How could I know these two things do not mix?

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skin, hair, American-made

Waverly / immigration, sacrifice, mother and daughter relationship

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8
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I smile, this time with my ___ ___

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Chinese face

Lindo is used to the ignorance of Americans towards immigrants. she uses two different faces to fit in without causing conflict / immigration and language, sacrifice, identity

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9
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If you show one, you must always ___ the other

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sacrifice

Lindo having identity problems with the two different faces while Waverly thinking it is good –> value and traditional differences / immigration and language, identity, mother and daughter relationship

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10
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They knew my face was not one hundred percent ___

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Chinese

Lindo is disconnected from America and China: she has characteristics from both places. She had to sacrifice her Chinese heritage / identity, fate, immigration

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11
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The art of ___ strength

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invisible

Waverly starts her story by introducing what she had learned from her mother Lindo. The invisible strength: linked to the wind - invisible yet powerful beyond belief. –> the power of foreigners who are considered ignorant / mother and daughter relationship, immigration, fate and autonomy, story telling and tradition

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12
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Why do you have to use me to ___ ___?

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show off

Waverly to her mother / immigration and language, mother and daughter relationship

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13
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Strongest wind cannot be ___.

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seen

the art of invisible strength, Lindo to Waverly / mother and daughter relationship, tradition

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14
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She had no words for me, just sharp ___.

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silence

Waverly talking about Lindo. parallel to the mother and daughter relationship problems from Jing-Mei’s chapter sharp silence: chinese parents not using words

15
Q

She and I make a bad ___.

A

Combination

Waverly and Lindo - due to the zodiac signs / tradition, mother and daughter relationship, fate and autonomy

16
Q

In her hands, I always became the ___. And she was the ___. Always able to find my weakest spots

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Pawn, queen

The author uses chess as a metaphor to show that Waverly is feeling like she is being defeated by her mother (with the one thing that she thought she had a talent for) The queen and the pawn → metaphor

17
Q

my mother loved to show me off, like one of the many ___ she polished.

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trophies

Waverly / simile

18
Q

My mother was doing it again, making me see ___ where I once saw ___.’

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black, white

Waverly, Chess: black white, metaphor of chess. The power her mother has over her → Waverly thinks her mother can make her think the opposite to what she once saw
Desperate for her mother’s attention and love

19
Q

‘I once sacrificed my life to keep my ___ ___.’

A

parents’ promise

Lindo - Mother and daughter relationship and sacrifice

20
Q

I had no ___, now or later.

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choice

Lindo / tradition, fate and autonomy

21
Q

“For a long time, I wanted to give you this ______” Suyuan

A

Necklace