TRM Flashcards
(95 cards)
women first priority
Security
o que é ONE its?
A crença irracional na existecia de uma alma gemea
Quais os prejuizos da crença em ONEits?
No momento em que voce “acha” sua alma gemea, vc acaba criando uma dependencia doentia pela pessoa. Principalmente se nao for reciproco.
What is Feminine Mystique?
The apparently confusion on their behavior, and the lack of integrity on their word, once she can always change her mind if it feels “right”.
Qual a função da “feminine mystique”?
Free-pass on hypergamy.
“Nothing is more threatening yet simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who is aware of his own value to women.”
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What kind of man do women want?
ideally women want a Man that other women want to fuck, but in order to assess his sexual market value to other women he’s got to have exercisable options for her to compete against, or at least display indirect social proof to that effect. So, she needs to limit his options while simultaneously determining he has these options.
For what shit tests are used for?
“Essentially a shit test is used by women to determine one, or a combination of these factors:
a.) Confidence – first and foremost
b. ) Options – is this guy really into me because I’m ‘special’ or am I his only option?
c. ) Security – is this guy capable of providing me with long term security?”
What is the most basic affront to the feminine imperative?
“For a woman, to encounter a man with a healthy awareness of his own value to women, this constitutes a threat. Here is a man for whom’s attention women will demonstrably compete for, and he knows this. This is the most basic affront to the feminine imperative; to be unplugged, of high sexual market value and to derive a sense of confidence from being consciously aware of it.”
What is the strategy to find unplugged men?
Using shit tests.
“Therefore, in order to promote and actualize her own sexual strategy, his self-confidence must be challenged with self-doubt, because if such a man were to use this knowledge to his own benefit he may not select her from a pool of better prospective women. Thus, in various ways, both consciously and subconsciously, she must ask him “Are you really sure of yourself? You think you’re so great?
Maybe you’re just egotist? Don’t tempt fate.”
Traditional Masculine traits
“characteristics that define traditional masculinity – independence, self-confidence, rugged individualism, be grounded, physical strength, risk taking, problem solving and innovation
Why is it important to never compromise yourself, especially on a shit test?
“There is no more a superior confidence for a man than one with the self-understanding that he will not compromise himself for the recognized manipulations of a woman, and the fortitude to walk away knowing he has in the past, and will in the future find a better prospect than her. This is the man who passes the shit test. It’s called ‘enlightened self-interest’, and a principle I wholly endorse.”
What is power?
“Real Power is the degree to which a person has control over their own circumstances. Real Power is the degree to which we actually control the directions of our lives.”
What’s the most useful tool in the game arsenal?
“A woman’s imagination is the single most useful tool in your Game arsenal. Every technique, every casual response, every gesture, intimation and subcommunication hinges on stimulating a woman’s imagination. Competition anxiety relies on it. Demonstrating Higher Value (DHV) relies on it”
Greatest failing of an AFC
“This is the single greatest failing of average frustrated chumps; they vomit out everything about themselves, divulging the full truth of themselves to women in the mistaken belief that women desire that truth as a basis for qualifying for their intimacy.
Learn this now: Women never want full disclosure. Nothing is more self-satisfying for a woman than to think she’s figured a Man out based solely on her mythical feminine intuition (i.e. imagination).
When a man overtly confirms his character, his story, his value, etc. for a woman, the mystery is dispelled and the biochemical rush she enjoyed from her imaginings, her suspicions, her self-confirmations about you are gone”
Familiarity
Is anti-seductive. “Nothing kills Game, organic passion and libido like comfortable familiarity. Despite their common filibuster tactics, women don’t want to be comfortable with a potential (or proven) sex partner, they need their imaginations stoked to be excited, aroused and anxious to want sex with a potential partner”
“What covertly, tactfully, demonstrably implying that other women find you desirable is useful for?”
To remind her daily why you’re fun, unpredictable and exciting, not only to her, but other women as well.
What’s the biggest cause of problems of AFCs and men in general, in intergender relationship?
Fear of rejection. 90% of problems disappear by overcoming fear of rejection.
What’s the secret to a good night? How you do it?
Emotions. Make yourself feel it first. Be selfish, search for your own pleasure, let her have the honor of give it to you.
What the commandment “Maximize your strengths and minimize your weaknesses”means?
“In the betterment of ourselves as men we attract women into our orbit. To accomplish this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, you must identify your natural talents and shortcomings and parcel your efforts accordingly. If you are a gifted jokester, don’t waste time and energy trying to raise your status in philosophical debate. If you write well but dance poorly, don’t kill yourself trying to expand your manly influence on the dance floor. Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor. Except World of Warcraft.”
What is plate theory?
“Just like the plate spinner, a Man needs to have a lot of simultaneous prospects spinning together.
Think of each plate as a separate woman you are pursuing. Some fall off and break, others you may wish to stop spinning altogether and some may not spin as fast as you’d like, but the essence of plate theory is that a man is as confident and valuable as his options. This is the essence of the abundance mindset – confidence is derived from options.”
The cardinal Rule of relationships
“In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least”
Why plate theory is important?
Cause it causes a true change in the core beliefs in the mans mind.
“There are mannerisms and attitudes that a man with options will subconsciously convey to prospective women that they interpret, and give this man a value as a commodity to be competed for with other females.”
“it’s much easier to actually not “give a fuck” if you have other prospects going simultaneously”
What’s the importance of abundance which spinning plates gives us?
“Spinning more plates allows you more opportunity to select from the largest pool of
prospective choices and date them or drop them as you see fit. This has two benefits. First, it serves as valuable, though non-committed, experience for learning what a man requires for his own personal satisfaction. Experience teaches harsh, but it teaches best and the breadth of experience serves a man well. Who’s insight is more beneficial, the man who’s sailed the world over or the man who’s never ventured beyond a lake?
Secondly, opportunity and options make a man the prize. Rock stars, professional athletes and movie stars aren’t irresistible to women because of their celebrity, but because they blatantly, and with the highest form of social proof, prove they have options that other women will jealously compete for as well as the confidence that this unconscious knowledge naturally manifests itself in them.”
Excerpt From
The Rational Male
Tomassi, Rollo
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