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optimal distance

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distance needed in a relationship. it is often found by going past it

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3 cautions of love

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  1. love is seldom ever equal
  2. the person the least in love has control
  3. renegotiation
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love is seldom ever equal

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usually one person is more in love than the other. one person is more in need of the relationship, one breaks it off

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the person the least in love has control

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the more in love one follows the other person to stay in the relationship. the person more in love has more emotions invested in the relationship. power (brutal, decisive) vs love (sentimental, pushover)

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renegotiation

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when the relationship has to renegotiate how to make it work and distribute the love and power

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4 types of intimacy

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physical, intellectual, emotional, spiritual

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physical

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very selective because its based on an idea of biochemical attraction. short lived, very intense, cant base a lot on it, powerful

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intellectual

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are they interesting? respectful? do they challenge me? do they have opinions?
-having a worthy opponent

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emotional

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somebody you can be really honest with who you are, your deep self, someone you dont have to pretend with

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spiritual

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do you have the same values? understanding of life? beliefs?

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cathexis

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cathexis: to cathect
- you want to own it, you want to be committed to it: can cathect objects, people, etc.
- cathexis can be mistaken for love
- most relationships start as cathexis
- can wear off, very temporary
- usually driven by sexual desire

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dorothy and her friends mother

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saw her friends mom praying at her bedside and she had a burst of love, gratitude, and happiness for her and began to pray at her own

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dorothy and St. augustine’s book

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she read “confessions”. she identified with his struggle between human love and love of god. saw parallels in their two conversions from “a life of sin”

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dorothy and shocking other students

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she was defiant, smoked, and spoke foul language at any students who may walk by

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dorothy’s thoughts on religious people early on

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she said only the weak needed religion

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contradiction dorothy experienced in jail

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she asked for a bible and loved it but at the same time she resisted depending on God because it was a sign of weakness

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dorothy’s bohemian lifestyle

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writer by day, hanging out with friends, smoking, discussing books and politics

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dorothy and relation to “hound of heaven”

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resonated with its sentiments and was fascinated by the notion of being pursued by god

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dorothy’s relationship with lionel moise

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moise was a womanizer

  • she left her hospital work to move in with him
  • he was possessive and jealous
  • she became pregnant and got an abortion as he suggested
  • he left her and advised her to marry rich
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dorothy and forester

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forester was an anarchist and atheist who loved nature. they moved in different directions, she to god, him away from god. she became pregnant with tamar, a girl. he did not believe marriage. daisy decided to choose god over man

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peter maurin and dorothy

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he was a simple, bright man who served the poor. he taught social teachings and was dedicated to changing society. they founded the catholic worker

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dorothys disappointment in young catholics

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kids were only concerned about their own security and wages while others were homeless

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verse from matthew and dorothy

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“just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me”

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voluntary poverty and dorothy

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she lived simply, wore hand me down clothes, traveled by bus, had few possessions

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trust in Gods providence and dorothy
she was totally dependent on god
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"pie in the sky" and dorothy
- she was critical of people who had little ambition for bettering their condition - opposed patient acceptance of suffering with humility and hope for a better life with god - said an active fight for justice was necessary
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"beauty will save the world"
god created so much beauty, shows awe and greatness of god in nature
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"all the way to heaven is heaven"
heaven is already here, but not totally here. if you are in tune with love, god, and spirit, youre already in heaven. death may be more enhanced
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"christ chose his friends among the ordinary workers"
he chose regular people, he didnt choose high class people. he has a special place for the common people
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hell and dorothy
hell is to live without and kind of love
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"absence of god" and dorothy
the horrible darkness that can come over ones soul, where the soul appears to cease being, the person loves the emptiness and has the want to love but cant
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"god is the measure by which we will be judged"
we will be judged on how we learned to love or not, not if you memorize your prayers
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what do we really all want according to dorothy
we all want to be loved by our families, in our work, in our relationships
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"love casts out fear"
true love is so strong it casts out all fear, even of enemies, and it can be a force so strong it can overcome war
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why are we "never going to be finished"
there are always going to be needy people. you cant save everyone
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disillusioned with the church and dorothy
its identification with the wealthy and she criticized the luxurious rectories of the clergy.
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views on war, pacifism, atomic bomb, hitler and dorothy
she thought you had to learn to love enemies, people thought it was crazy to learn to love hitler. she didnt support any wars. she was very radical
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parody and "true man" and dorothy
pres truman believed in violence and destruction. the true-man does not believe in weapons and violence. truman is not the "true-man"
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vietnam war and dorothy
she was appalled at the slaughter of innocent Vietnamese citizens, especially children scorched with napalm
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loneliness and its solution and dorothy
she fell in love with god in the midst of her loneliness. the solution is love and love comes from community
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prayer, supreme prayer and dorothy
- saw her work with the poor as a prayer | - the mass was the supreme prayer--one comes closest to god there
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"dont call me a saint, i dont want to be dismissed so easily" and dorothy
we create saints as perfect people, we turn them into cartoons, we turn them into what we believe in. she knows she made a mistake and isnt pure, she believes she isnt taken seriously when made a saint
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inscription on dorothys tomb
"deo gratias" thanks be to god
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ego boundaries
a newborn cannot distinguish itself from crib, its mother, food, etc. the animate and inanimate are the same. there are no boundaries, no separations, no identity
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anima
yin, female | passive, peaceful, conservative, emotional, cooperative, possessive, subjective
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animus
yang, male | ego, aggressive, rational, logical, independent, disciplined, hierarchical, violent
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puer eternis
a man who has never matured - living in a world of "mommys boy' - "boy external"
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pella eternis
- "girl external" - "daddys girl" - typically mees an older guy
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senex
- wants to grow up too fast - nothing but a dream of being super success ful and overworked - kills off childhood - hates youth
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mystified love
imitating your parents, sleepwalking love
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john bradshaws 4 stages of love
-codependence, counter dependence, independence, co creation and independence
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codependence
- like a drug, cant live without each other - around each other - last about 2 yrs
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counterdependence
-not seeing eye to eye anymore, toxic feel, arguments, can survive, good marriages have healthy amounts of counter dependence
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independence
both separate people support each other in their differences
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co creation and interdependence
a couple that realizes their love is there to be shared with other people, very advanced type of love. a team that makes the world a better place
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the 3 brains
reptilian, the limbic brain, neo-cortex
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reptilian
-instincts and central nervous system, every vertebrae animal has. keeps our heart pumping etc
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the limbic brain
- encapsulates the reptilian brain, but is another part - emotions - can be bio chemical - certain people are going to make you feel certain things
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neo cortex
where you remember things, math, history - where you make decisions, plan - trying to decide to put things in our lives that make us feel the way we want to feel - can make you choose people that make you feel a certain way but are bad

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