Week 10 - Attraction and Close Relationships Flashcards

1
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Determinants of Initial Attraction

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  • Proximity/exposure
  • Similarity
  • Reciprocal liking
  • Physical attractiveness
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Festinger et al (1950) housing study

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In a university housing complex individuals were asked to list their 3 closest friends and 65% of the responses lived in the same building. Living by stairs and mailboxes had more upstairs friends.

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3
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Classroom Study (Moreland & Beach, 1992)

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The more often a female confederate attended class the higher students would rate their attractiveness.

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4
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Reasons for proximity effect

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  • More likely to cross paths
  • More exposure effect (more we are exposed to stimulus, more we come to like stimulus)
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5
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Why does exposure effect happen without conscious recognition?

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  • Increases perceptual fluency (easy to process)
  • Repeated exposure to object + nothing bad happened = safe
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6
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Similarity between romantic partners

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People become involved romantically with others who are equivalent in physical attractiveness

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7
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Friends, dates, and marriage partners similarity

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  • Demographic variables
  • Opinions and personality
  • Interpersonal style
  • Interests and values
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8
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Two-stage model of the attraction process (Byrne, 1986)

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9
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Reasons for similarity-attraction

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  • Social validation function
  • Attributions for disagreement
  • Reciprocal liking
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10
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Curtis & Miller (1986) liking study - IV

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Experimenter tells you the other participant likes you or doesn’t like you

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Curtis & Miller (1986) liking study - DV

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  • How much do you like the person?
  • How do you act toward them when you meet again?
  • How much do they like you?
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12
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Curtis & Miller (1986) liking study - Results

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Participants reported that they liked the research participant if they knew they liked them back and vice versa

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13
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Reasons for reciprocal liking

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  • Rewarding - feels good to be around someone similar
  • Similarity - we like ourselves
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14
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Exceptions for reciprocal liking

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  • Playing hard to get - prefer people who are moderately selective
  • Role of self-esteem - lower self-esteem individuals prefer people who criticise them
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15
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Physical attractiveness

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The more attractive a person is the more positively they are viewed by others

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16
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Evidence of more attractive = more positive association

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  • babies look at attractive faces for longer
  • attractive experimenters get more signatures
  • attractive suspects get lower bail and fines
  • attractive people get paid more
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17
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Attractive characteristics

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  • smooth skin, pleasant expression, youthfulness
  • symmetry
  • body shape - women (fertility), men (muscles)
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18
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Composite faces

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Composite faces are more familiar and prototypical

19
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When are composite faces more attractive

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  • When they’re made out of attractive vs average faces
  • Contain an image of ourselves
20
Q

What are stereotypes about attractive people?

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  • socially competent
  • more sexual, happier, and more assertive
  • in US higher in personal strength
  • in Korea higher in integrity and concern
21
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Self-fulfilling prophecy design- Snyder, Tanke, and Berscheid (1977)

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Male P’s talked to female P’s on the phone and were shown pictures of attractive or unattractive photo of a woman

22
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Self-fulfilling prophecy male results - Snyder, Tanke, and Berscheid (1977)

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Males P’s were warmer and more sociable to the female P’s they believed were attractive.

23
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Self-fulfilling prophecy female results - Snyder, Tanke, and Berscheid (1977)

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When men responded to attractive female P’s the women rated the male’s as:
- attractive
- confident
- animated
- warm

24
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What do men look for in a partner

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  • signs of reproductive fitness
  • physical appearance (age, health)
  • attractiveness, youth
25
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What do women look for in a partner?

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  • resources
  • economic and career achievements
  • ambition, industriousness, good earning capacity
26
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Conspicuous Consumption (Sundie et al., 2011)

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Buying/displaying expensive items and showing off your resources/status

27
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Who engages in conspicuous consumption?

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Low investment men primed with a short term situation were high in conspicuous consumption

28
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Perceptions of conspicuous consumption

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Men were only attractive as short-term partners

29
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Types of love

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  • Passionate love
  • Companionate love
30
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Passionate Love

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  • Intense longing for a person
  • Physiological arousal
31
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Companionate Love

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Feelings of intimacy and affection

32
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Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg, 1988)

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  • Passion
  • Intimacy
  • Commitment
33
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Intimacy

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Self-disclosure - revelations about the self made to others

34
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Higher self-disclosure is associated with?

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  • More positive affect and attraction in lab study
  • greater satisfaction, commitment and love in couples
35
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Gender effects of self-disclosure

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Women disclose more than men but people disclose more when talking to women.

36
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Misattribution of Arousal - Dutton and Aron (1974)

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Men who had to cross a scary bridge to meet a female confederate were more likely to call her back presumably because they mistook their arousal for attraction rather than fear.

37
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Social Exchange Theory

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People are motivated in their relationships to maximise benefits and minimise costs

38
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Investment Model (Rusbult, 1983)

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What people put into a relationship that they can’t recover if the relationship ends - this is why people stay in relationships they aren’t satisfied in

39
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Comparison Level

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People are more satisfied when the reward/cost ratio

40
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Comparison Level for Alternatives (CLalt)

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Expectations about the level of rewards and punishments they would receive in an alternative relationship.

41
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Equity Theory

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People feel happiest when the balance of rewards and costs are the same for each person in the relationship

42
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Comparison Level (CL)

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Average expectation about the level of rewards and punishments they are likely to receive in a particular relationship

42
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Comparison Level for Alternatives (CLalt)

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Expectations about the level of rewards and punishments they would receive in an alternative relationship.