Wk 2 Flashcards

(46 cards)

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What is the first level of listening?

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Ignoring

Lack of attention
Boredom
Disinterest
Pretending to listen

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What are some basic rules to become a better listener.

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Stop talking
Put talker at easy
Show u want to listen 
Remove distractions
Empathize with him
Be patient 
Hold your temper
Don't argue or criticize 
Ask questions
Stop talking
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2nd level of listening

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Subtract

Changing the subject
Telling own story
Hearing only parts
Making light of humor

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3rd level of listening

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Questions

Asking too many questions
No sense of total person

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4th level of listening

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Advice-giving

Offering solution
Focusing to much on content

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5th level of listening

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Active listening

understanding of surface feeling
And deep feeling too

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1st rule of understanding.

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Be tolerant of others

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2nd rule of understanding

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Avoid expecting perfection from others.

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3rd rule of understanding

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Be sure you want to understand people.

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4th rule of understanding

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Look for the good in others.

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5th rule of understanding

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Learn to love the unloveable.

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6th rule of understanding

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Hate the thing, not the person.

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7th rule of understanding

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Get all the facts.

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8th rule of understanding

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Have empathy.

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9th rule of understanding

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Control your attitudes and paradigm.

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10th rule of understanding

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Develop a mental image of understanding.

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Amend

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To change a motion.

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Order of Business

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The regular program of procedure.

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Chair

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The chairman presiding officer.

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Floor

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The privilege to speak.

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Unity

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Owning your responsibility to your brothers

Our Unity will make us one, never to be divided

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Motion

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A formal proposal to take a certain action.

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Question

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A motion turns into it after it has been discussed.

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Suspension of rules

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When everyone wants to do something that is against the stated rules
They can suspend them

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Second
To move a motion along
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Table
The speakers table Can also mean to delay motion
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Duties of a member
Maintain seated and silenced Obtain the floor only through permission Refrain from insults or threats Confine remarks to question to the group Avoid personality (don't call any one by name) Vote on all questions
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Rights of a member
Express his opinion Ask a speaker a question or correct a serious misstatement Change his vote before the chair announces results
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Activation
Ritual that brings a pros. Mem. Into the brotherhood
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Active
Brother in good standing. Pays dues. Completes all requirements. Goes to meetings.
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Alumnus
Person who is graduated Was in good standing Alumnus status approved by 2/3
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Bid
An incantation to enter prospective program
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Club
Can be called ODPhi | But cannot wear letters or rush
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Brother
Someone who completes the prospective members program
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Colony
May wear letters Rush Cast one vote regional frat matters
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Chapter
``` Full rights Wear letters Rush Cast 2 votes Hold position in frat ```
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Hazing
Physical or mental cruelty of to pros. Mem.
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Fraternity
A group of men bound together by ritual ties and common goals.
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Greek
Member of a fraternity or sorority
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Independent
A person who is not in a frat or sorority
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IFC - inter fraternity council
University sponsored Fraternity governing Each frat had a representative
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Legacy
An individual who is related to any member of the frat
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Sorority
A group of women bound together by rituals and common goals
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Prospective members
An individual working to be an active member
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Ritual
Traditional secret ceremonies of a frat
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Rush
The official recruiting period in which Greeks extend bids to potential members