WNRS couples edition + relationship expansion LEVEL 2 Flashcards
(170 cards)
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When do you think I am at my best? Who am I with? What am I doing?
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What did you learn from your parents’ relationship that you’d like to apply/avoid in this one?
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How does social media affect me in my day today life? How does it affect our relationship?
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When was the last time I made you feel loved when you didn’t feel lovable?
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Have I ever betrayed your trust in any big or small way? What would help rebuild that trust?
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What small thing had a big impact on our relationship?
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How do you define cheating?
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What’s one small way we can improve our sex life?
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How does our age difference, or lack thereof, affect us? If at all?
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What have I helped you appreciate about yourself?
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Have I changed your worldview in any big or small way?
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How do I show that I love you without telling you?
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How have you seen me grow in this relationship?
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When was the last time I hurt you, perhaps unintentionally?
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How do our strengths and weaknesses complement each other?
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What recent experience made you feel closer to me?
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Are there any insecurities from previous relationships that you carried into this one? If so, what are they?
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What’s the most important lesson a past relationship has taught you that you applied to ours?
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What about you feels hardest to love?
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What immediately attracted you to me? What attracted you more over time?
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What’s the best gift I have given you? Material and immaterial?
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What feelings are hard for you to communicate to me? How can I make it easier?
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What have you been extra sensitive to lately?
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What did our worst argument teach you?
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What are you currently working through that I don't see, if anything?
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What's the most romantic thing I've done for you recently?
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What has this relationship taught you about yourself?
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What do you overthink most in our relationship, if anything?
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The hardest thing for me to reveal about myself to you was _______.
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What did you learn to not take personally with me?
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What can we laugh at now that once felt so daunting in our relationship?
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Finish the sentences:
I knew I really liked you when _____.
I knew I loved you when _____.
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What compromise have you seen me make in our relationship that you're most grateful for?
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What's the sexiest thing I do without realizing it?
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When was the last time someone betrayed your trust? How did that affect your ability to trust today?
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How have I changed you for the better?
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What's something we used to do at the beginning of our relationship that you miss the most?
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How has your definition of love changed over time, if at all?
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What's the hardest compromise you've had to make in this relationship?
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What's one small thing I do that tells you everything you need to know about me?
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In what way(s) is this relationship unlike any other before?
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What fight of ours did you struggle with most? What felt particularly hard for you about it?
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What's one way our relationship has gotten better over time?
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Level 2: Connection WILDCARD
Write down three things you love most about your partner. 1 minute. Compare.
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Between the two of us, who apologizes first after a fight? Write down their name. Compare answers.
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On a scale of 1-10, write down the importance of having kids to you. Compare and explain.
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Finish the sentence:
I'm sorry for _____.
Write it down. Both players. Compare.
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Write a short guide on how to love your partner well. 1 minute. Compare.
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Write down one small way you can be better in this relationship. Both players. Compare.
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Write down the title you would give this chapter of our relationship. Compare.
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Draw one of your favorite memories from our relationship. 30 seconds. Compare.
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What's one small way I can be a better partner?
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Write down one small way you can be better in this relationship. Both players. Compare.
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What are you currently working through that I don't see, if anything?
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What song best describes our relationship?
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Do you think my job affects me positively or negatively? How does it affect us?
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What have you been extra sensitive to lately?
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Level 2: Connection WILDCARD
Write down the top 3 things your partner does that makes you feel most loved. Both players. Compare.
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What do you wish we did more of?
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What made you fall in love with me?
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What's the most important lesson a past relationship has taught you?
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Finish the sentence: Thank you for accepting ____________.
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Write a love song for your partner. 1 minute. Perform for each other.
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Write a short guide of how to love your partner well. 30 seconds. Compare.
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Have I helped you change your mind about anything?
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Ask your partner something you've never asked them before.
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What fear do you think holds me back the most?
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How many relationships do you think I've been in? how many times do you think I've been in love? Explain.
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Has sex ever been a deal breaker in your past relationships? Explain.
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Share something you typically wouldn't on a first date. Both players.
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What about you has felt repeatedly misunderstood by others, if anything?
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Write down the top 3 most important qualities in a romantic partner. Both players compare.
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What did the people who raised you teach you about love? How has that shaped your views on love today?
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What's the hardest part about dating you?
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What are you feeling a lot lately?
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What dating advice would you give your younger self?
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Describe your worst heartbreak. What did it teach you?
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What are you overthinking right now?
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What have you tolerated from others in the past that you no longer have space for?
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How do you define "dating".
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Who in your life do you feel most yourself around? Why?
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What was the worst date you've ever been on and why?
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I know I really like someone when ______.
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Level 2: Connection WILDCARD
Give each other tattoos with the nearest pen or marker. 30 seconds.
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What has being single taught you about yourself?
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What about me intrigued you besides my physical appearance?
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What is something new you've learned about yourself recently?
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Which one of your parent's personality traits do you want to keep or let go of?
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How has your view on love evolved over time, if at all?
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How emotionally available do you currently feel? Explain.
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Do you have any unconventional opinions when it comes to romantic relationships?
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Write down your top 2 relationship deal breakers. Both players. Compare.
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Have you ever considered an open relationship? Why or why not?
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What's a non negotiable in your life?
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What do your friends know about me, if anything?
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Look through each other's social media. pick your favorite photo. Compare and explain.
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What mannerisms of mine stood out the most to you, if any?
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How would you describe our date in one word?
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Have you ever said "I love you" without meaning it?
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Have you ever broken someone's heart? Have you ever had your heart broken?
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How many times have you been in love?
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What makes you feel sexy?
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Describe the first time we had sex
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What is your love language to give and to receive?
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What are your biggest relationship fears?
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What do you think our life together will look like in a year? Five years?
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What sex position is overrated? Explain.
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Give our sex life an honest review.
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Name one thing better than sex.
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Admit something.
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What song feels like falling in love for the first time?
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Are you avoiding any hard conversations right now?
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What can I help you with?
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How do I make you feel loved? What can I do better?
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What's the hardest part about dating me?
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What do you enjoy doing with me the most?
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What are your favorite personality characteristics of mine?
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What's the biggest fight you've ever been in? What went down?
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What would make you feel closer to me?
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What are three things you bring to a relationship?
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What makes you feel comfortable to be vulnerable?
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What's the worst thing an ex would have to say about you?
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What's something we've never done that you want to do with me?
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What is your favorite memory of the two of us?
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Do you have any kinks or fetishes?
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Who was your first love?
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What are your sexual fantasies?
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In what ways do you think we're most compatible?
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Was there anything that surprised you about me as we started getting to know each other more?
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Are there any patterns that have been revealed in your past relationships, and do you see that happening with us? Are there ways we can avoid or resolve them?
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What boundaries do you have with your family and friends?
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What are the biggest red flags you watch out for? Green flags?
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In what ways do I bring out the best in you?
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What do you think about when having sex?
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What are your relationship dealbreakers?
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What parts of our relationship do you think we need to work on?
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What is your toxic trait?
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When do you think sex is over?
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What makes you feel confident in bed?
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What are your favorite compliments to receive?
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Who in your life is most important for me to get along with?
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What do you think is innocent flirting? What are your boundaries around that?
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What did you not hear enough in your last relationship that you'd like to hear more in our relationship?
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What is something that could be an issue in our relationship? What can we do to solve or avoid this?
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What are your goals for the future?
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What do you do to unwind or destress?
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How do you process your emotions?
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How do you ask someone to take accountability?
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What makes you feel angry or frustrated?
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What makes you feel sad or upset?
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How much alone time do you like? What hobbies or activities do you only like to do alone?
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What are your biggest insecurities?
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How would you describe me to a stranger?
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Which year of your life was your favorite?
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What makes you the happiest?
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What emotion do you like feeling the best?
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Who are your best friends? Describe them.
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What do you think is the best way to breakup with someone?
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If someone cheated on you, would you rather they confess and work through it together, or keep it to themselves and commit to never doing it again?
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What are you proud of me for?
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Do you get jealous easily?
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Have you ever cheated? Have you ever been cheated on? What do you define as cheating?
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What do you think is the most interesting part of my life?
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What part of my life do you want to know more about?
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Are there any things in our relationship that make you feel jealous or insecure? How can we handle these things?
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What are your boundaries or preferences when it comes to sharing information about our relationship with friends or family?
