Women Flashcards
(7 cards)
What Your Woman Wants In You
A woman wants YOU to figure things out for yourself. Don’t ask your woman what she wants from you, it’s something she wants you to figure out. She doesn’t want an incompetent man, so stop always asking what she wants and instead take charge. For her birthday, instead of asking what she wants, you plan something for her and surprise her, you may say:” Pack your bags, you got 30 minutes, this is going to be the best birthday weekend you ever had”, that would absolutely excite her contrary to you asking her what she wants. She can also challenge you by telling you what she wants, but this may not be what she wants. Sometimes she wants to test your integrity and authenticity to see if you know what the right thing to do is. She could push you for a decision you know deep down is not the correct decision and see what your response is to determine whether you are true to yourself or not.
A woman is with you for the masculine gifts you bring as you are with her for the feminine gifts she brings. Therefore, you give them back when she asks for advice, and it could be asking which shoe is prettier, where you answer honestly, but at the same time tell her no matter the choice you still love her. You teach her to trust her own feelings and you explain your decisions about what you would do and why to help her. Another masculine gift is the “killer,” which she very much wants in her man. The man who is afraid of cockroaches will probably turn his woman off. The “killer” is what she wants, but she wants it because you show the capacity to transcend the fear of death for the sake of love. It often comes from dangerous situations, and in modern times, it would be a home intruder or someone assaulting your woman on the street,t where you face the burglar showing that you are willing to lose everything, for love.
Emotional Storms
As a masculine man you will require a feminine woman for the delight and feeling of ecstasy, both spiritual and sexual, that her body expresses. The thing is that a woman with feminine sexual essence will be all over the place emotionally, and a mediocre man would always calm her down and tell her she will come back to discuss once she is “sane”. The superior man, however, learns to dance with her emotional storms and stand with her through her psycho episodes, and then she can fully trust you and relax in your presence. This will be a challenge and you will get hurt, but no matter what you keep trying to penetrate her emotional storms with love, always love, smile, scream, lick her face and start to love and be turned on by her dance of anger and emotional drama. It may seem crazy but it’s all worth it for the feeling she gives you.
Making Love
When you find a woman to establish deeper connections with, you need to know you don’t penetrate your woman for personal gain or pleasure anymore, but to show love, openness and depth. You start to not impose needs on your woman and focus on penetrating her deeply both physically and verbally. Instead of getting lost in self-enclosed spasm for your pleasure, you will start prioritizing controlling your body and start to make her trust you with her vulnerable core. You relax your muscles instead of tensing them, you slow down your breath when it speeds up and start redirecting your attention to your woman and feel her, her movements, her moans, her internal energy more than your sensations during sex. A good exercise would be to simply decide if you want ejaculation before you have sex, and if you decide not to, and instead satisfy your woman, you don’t ejaculate. If you ejaculate without satisfying your woman, she might be pleased she made you come, but deep down she is let down.
The Feminine Glow
The amazing thing about your woman is her natural shine and radiant feminine glow. This glow, however, often evaporates as life continues, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be kept alive. First you must take your masculine duty and relieve your woman of the necessity to be in charge. Don’t boss her around, but know where you need to go and how, including financially and spiritually. She just wants to be with you and her feminine glow will be kept alive if she can fully trust your sense of direction. The feminine has intimacy with her partner as the core of her life, while to the masculine, the intimacy is a thing to be enjoyed in addition to their purpose. So never complain to your woman that her life only seems to revolve around you, because if she starts living her own life she has to take on more masculine responsibilities resulting in the feminine glow to evaporate. You will also go through hardship, and it may be bad where your woman turns dark inside with dark feminine energy, making your relationship rot and you hating her. The way to bring back her shine and radiance is to fill her with love once again, so make love to her even if the last thing you want is to get it up for that potato. Use your love to smithereens your woman’s darkness into the love she once possessed.
Your Woman’s Problems Are Often Solved Through Love and Praise
It’s a fact that 90% of women’s emotional problems come from them feeling they are not loved enough. So instead of trying to figure out what is wrong like a doctor, try and simply give her your love. It’s something like telling it, kissing her, stroking her and her emotional problems will likely evaporate. So try it next time your woman is in a bad mood, and stop analyzing her.
The feminine says what it feels in the present moment and the masculine means what it says. Your woman may agree to move to another city, but once the moving starts happening, she changes her opinion, men would typically answer with: “But you said….!”, but it just means she is insecure about the decisions right now. Instead, you spin her around, kiss her and tickle her and watch her mood change, likewise will her opinion if you ask again like a doctor.
The masculine grows by challenge, but the feminine grows by praise. Saying: “You are so beautiful when you smile” is much more effective than saying: “You’re so ugly when you frown”. The both sayings indicate you want her to smile, and with a woman, always call the glass half full than half empty. As a man, you need to learn to praise the qualities you feel are not yet praiseworthy for them to become so. So if you want a quality in your woman, simply praise her, and she will likely want to please you, resulting in the quality being performed more. Saying she is hot when she works out could mean she would be more likely to exercise more, just try and praise specific things 5-10 times a day and see what happens. The petty annoyances should be avoided, and instead of fighting the endless tussle with arguing, you should learn to find humor in the never-ending tussle. Instead, when she does something tiny that annoys you, show her love, embrace, tussle and kiss her.
Taking Advice
Your woman provides an excellent perspective in decision making. As a man you should therefore always appreciate your woman’s advice and reevaluate your decisions. Although you should never betray your gut and principles to please your woman. This will only weaken you both in the relationship, since you are telling her you don’t trust your wisdom, which your woman will see as a lack of authenticity and lose trust in your decision-making. There will be the possibility of failure in your decision, but all you need to do is learn and gain experience from the decision. If you do this, you either win or gain experience, while protecting your gut feeling and principles.
“Be yourself and stand for opinions, don’t just change for the sake of others or your authenticity disappears”
Trouble Never Ends
In life, hardship and obstacles always come, and they never seem to stop coming, so we learn to challenge the hardship and overcome the obstacles. In a relationship, the same thing goes and trouble will always lurk around the corner, challenging your creative skills and willingness to love. These challenges often come in the form of tests from your woman, and she often doesn’t realize it herself, but the tests are her testing your weak spots to see if you collapse and demonstrate your dependence on her validation, or you remain humorous, strong and happy, resulting in you passing the test. As a man, you can make millions of dollars in a day, and when you get home to celebrate with your woman, she is somehow disappointed, because you forget the milk, the one thing she asked for you to get today. This is a test and a mediocre man will get upset about how his woman can behave this way, but what you need to do is instead meet her disappointment with happiness, creativity and playfulness. Instead of you also getting upset, you tickle, kiss and throw your woman on the couch and say sorry, and that you will get the milk right away. This will make her truly trust you, surrender herself to you, and you will become the type of man who can laugh at the fact you forgot the milk on the day you made a million dollars. Your woman will also be in cycles of easy moments and difficult moments, testing you, and the sooner you learn to dance with the tests, the sooner you can both grow out of her psychodrama and see the humor in it. The difficult times are hard, where your woman closes up testing to see if you can open her up, which you do through creative skill, tickling, dancing, singing or taking her clothes off. The superior man will always see these psychodramas as a challenge and an amusement, not a course, and will learn to open her heart, again and again and again. You do this to live with an open heart instead of a closed one, to not close down amid pain but truly live free in feeling and action and the superior man will stay in the wound of pain, and still love from this place. Your woman criticizes you, but your heart remains open and full of love. Remember the most loving women test you a lot to make sure you are always at your edge, your fullest, and most magnificent self, because she won’t settle for less. If your woman could just do these tests herself and open herself up, she wouldn’t need to be with you, so get over it, learn the dance of trouble, and be the superior man.
