You are the prize Flashcards
(21 cards)
Instead of telling him everything he has not done right…
How about saying what you want, who you are, and what you will and will not put up with.
Don’t move in with your boyfriend. How will he know what it’s like living with you?
He will find out if he is crazy about you by your BEINGNESS, not your doingness.
What do men really love?
Women who don’t have qualms about how their body looks.
Instead of letting fear dictate your decisions, focus on creating a life that reflects your true ambitions and stengths.
Trust in your capability to handle life’s twists and turns, and you’ll find your path to fulfillment instead of safety nets.
If you berate your man, you’re draining him spiritually.
It’s hard to be hated.
What serves as a form of protection for the feminine?
Boundaries. The masculine is going forward to achieve, and the feminine is protecting yourself with boundaries.
Boundaries aren’t to do with the hat you won’t accept but with…
How far you are willing to go with someone until you know them.
Don’t mother your boyfriend…
Wasn’t he managing just fine before you met?
Don’t try to do anything for his life, business, or meals. Don’t try to push the relationship with him.
Be a completely lazy girl and then he will take action.
Be lazy and inconvenient, not convenient and productive.
Be a bit lazier.
It’s rare to hear about woman just lounging around and contributing nothing. Give yourself permission to not always be on, to not constantly overextend yourself.
You are not asking him for too much.
He’s going to love you more for what he is putting into you. It’s the most precious thing because they’ve put their time, love, and energy in.
If you man needs some space,
It’s not because you’re not valuable enough.
if you want to be appreciated more…
Stop letting people take you for a ride. PEOPLE WILL TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED. It’s not authentic.
If you feel resentment and unequal labor….
It’s up to you to STOP before you burn yourself out. Put yourself first.
How do I get him to do more for me?
Thank him for what he already does.
The fastest way NOT to get something from a man is…
To be stomping around angry and resentful. The only way to review it is appreciate him for the things he IS doing.
If you do everything your man wants and act as his mom…
He perceives himself as inherently worthy and un-needing to alter.
Men need to
Feel trusted and respected.
Masculine energy rebels against being told what to do
Men respond better to having ownership over their responsibilities and decisions
