Butter - Deepen Emotional Gold Veins Flashcards

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List some great deepening questions?
PART 1

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1.
Why is <____> important to you?

What do you mean by <____>?

Where do you feel the drive to <____> comes from?

Tell me more about that?

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List some more great deepening questions?
PART 2

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Do you feel like that’d impact <____> at all?
How so?

Why is it important for you to <____>?

How do you feel that <____> would impact <____>?

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What does it mean to mirror their emotions?

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  1. MIRROR MIRROR MIRROR
    Repeating what they say with curiosity makes them expand on it.

IE
“I wanna retire my mother and buy her a house”
Reply - “O I see, I love that, so you don’t want mom to have to work anymore, and you wanna give her a house”
If they don’t expand - ask deeper - “Do you have an idea of the type of place that would make her super happy?”

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At what point do you move onto attaching emotional reasons to income goal?

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  1. Once they have felt the emotion behind their vision.
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