love and loving in a relationship Flashcards

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1
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love

A

deep abiding feelings that grow over time including qualities of friendship
-prioritization
-caring and sacrifices
-sexual desire (sometimes)

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lust

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sexual desire and arousal

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3
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triangular theory of love (Sternburg): intimacy

A

liking
romantic (passion) companitionate (decisions and commitment)

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triangular theory of love (Sternburg): passion

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infatuation
fatuous(decision and commitment)
romantic (intimacy)

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5
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triangular theory of love (Sternburg): decision/commitment

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empty
compassionate (intimacy)
fatuous (passion)

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lees color of love: eros

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romantic
passionate
primary

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lees color of love: agape

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selfless love
mix of eros and storage

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lees color of love: storage

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friendship love
primary

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9
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lees color of love: pragma

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shopping list of love
mix of storage and ludus

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lees color of love: ludus

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game playing love
primary

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lees color of love: mania

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possessive dependent love
mix of ludus and eros

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12
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current conceptualization: passionate

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short term
sexual desire and preoccupation
short lived
idealized partner

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current conceptualization: compassionate

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long term
sexual and emotional intimacy
permanence/commitment
realistic view of partner

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your brain on love

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neurotransmitters released by the nervous system
-certain parts of the brain being activated

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15
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your brain on love: rejected in love

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unrequited
nucleus acumbens
-craving which is also activated when addicted to cocaine

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16
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your brain on love: remaining in love

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companion
ventral tegmental
raphe nucleus (system for calm)
ventral pallidum (pair bonding and reproduction)

17
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5 love languages

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words of affirmation
quality time
receiving gifts
acts of service
physical touch
mismatching and speaking the love language of the other person
people can be happy in relationships that do not have the same love language