Final Flashcards

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  • Real self
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the person you are (experiential system)

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What is flow?

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When you are “in-the-zone” of something you enjoy

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  • Ideal self
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the person you want to be
o Rational self (social norms)
o In the future, not real

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Why is ideal self flawed?

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o Cannot know where you are going because you have never been there (psychologically)

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What is the state of consciousness?

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The connection of real and ideal self

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Why do many people fail to connect their real and ideal selves?

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  • Generous (ideal self) self-created because of my selfish self (real self)
  • Since the generous self-came from selfish self, it is actually selfish
  • Practice generosity in a selfish way
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What are the two steps to mindfulness?

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 1. Acknowledge it (DO NOT say should/wishful thinking/ideal self)
 2. You start to do whatever you were not doing (You stop whatever you were doing)

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  • Past self
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the person you were

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How are the 3 selves connected?

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o Real self makes assumptions based on past self to predict ideal self

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Whos theory involves the selves?

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Carl Rodgers (person-centered theory)

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What are tensions/anxieties according to Rodgers

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o Pressure between ideal and real self

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What is the difference between humanistic and existential therapy

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  • humanists believe that each of us has a
    natural potential that we can actualize and through which we can find meaning

-Existentialists focus on the anxiety that ensues from having to create an identity in world that lacks intrinsic meaning

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What is conditional positive regard?

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Conditions of worth
- using words like: shoulds, musts, always

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  • Self-acutalizing tendency
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striving toward realization (real self; you think you want what society wants you to want), fulfillment, autonomy, and self-determination

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Rodgers is view of human nature is concerned with…

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maslow’s hierarchy of needs

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The 3 Therapeutic Goals in Rogerian Theory

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  • Provide a climate for the client to self-actualize
  • Have to come face-to-face with one’s ideal self that was created through socialization
  • Signs that client is coming self-actualized: an openness to trust in themselves and internal source of evaluation, a willingness to continue growing
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TEST ON ALDRIAN AND SELF PSYCHOLOGY

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  • State of incongruence
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anxiety from discrepancy between real and ideal self

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Why do clients come into therapy (rodgers)

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  • They come for therapy because feelings helpless, powerless, and not in control of their lives
  • Less bound by the past and the future; freer to live in the moment
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What are the therapeutic core conditions (3 of them)

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congruence, unconditional positive regard, empathic understanding

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o Congruence

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 To be authentic; inner experiences and outer expressions of those experiences match
 Openly expresses feelings, thoughts, reactions in the here-and-now to enhance the therapeutic relationship

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o Unconditional positive regard

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 Non-judgmental of client’s feelings, thoughts, behaviors
* Ex. Pedophiles (sin from sinner)
 A sense of caring for the clients’ well-being that does not come from one’s own need to be liked and appreciated
* “Are you doing things for them or are you trying to prove you are caring”

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o Accurate Empathic Understanding

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 To sense client’s subjective experience in the here and. Now as if they were his or her own without getting lost in them
 Empathy at the emotional and cognitive levels to understand the meaning and feelings of a clients experience
* Perspective taking

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  • Dasein
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being-in-world; inherent need for all of us exist in the world and to achieve a sense of being autonomous and distinct
o My existence is making a difference

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25
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How does one live a meaningful life?

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by affirming and asserting our Dasein in the face of pressures to conform, misguided rules and standards and DEATH

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26
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where does anxiety come from?

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an awareness of an eventual end to our being through death, and the impending psychological destruction posed by rejection and insults

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27
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how is anxiety different from fear?

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anxiety is ontological- it is born out of the clash between being and the threat of non-being

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Why is it bad to avoid discussion of death?

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Then we deny our Dasein, and choose conformity or apathy

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Why is it important to accept proposition 6?

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o Death gives significance to life by reminding us to appreciate the present moment
o Death can be the source of zest for life and creativity

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30
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What is important in order to be healthy according to existential psychology

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accept this anxiety as inevitable part of being, meaning fully accept nonbeing as an inseparable part of being

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31
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What is proposition 4?

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Search for Meaning

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31
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What is proposition 6?

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Proposition 6: Awareness of Death and Nonbeing

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31
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Why is proposition 5 important?

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o We avoid anxiety by creating an illusion of security
o Life is inherently meaningless
 Attach meaning to things (ex. a rose is just a flower)
 Meaning is that we exist

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What is proposition 5?

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  • Proposition 5: Anxiety as a Condition of Living

o Existential anxiety arises as a result of confronting our death, meaninglessness, freedom, isolation (we cannot change about ourselves/I am not ___), aloneness, and our basic fallibility

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32
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How are old values connected with our meaning?

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 Anxiety created as result of discarding old values (traditions) and not creating new ones
 Natural to flounder for a while as a result of the absence of clear-out values
* Ex. Marriage was created, but we do not dare change it

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33
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How is meaninglessness connected with our meaning?

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 Emptiness and hollowness= existential vacuum
 If I am going to eventually die, why should I bother doing anything?
 Everything just is
* Ex. giving a rose to someone, but in the end, it’s just a flower with no meaning?

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How do we create new meaning?

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 Meaning/happiness is created from engagement with what is valued
 Meaning cannot be obtained directly; must be pursued obliquely
* Changing parts of society and making them applicable to you

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35
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What is proposition 3?

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Striving for identity and relationship with others

36
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What is the courage to be?

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 Our greatest challenge is to confront our fear that there is no core, no self, but merely a reflection of others
* Afraid to look at self and see empty inside

37
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What is The experience of aloneness

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 We alone must define meaning to life
 We alone must decide how we want to live
* This activity is meaningful to me -> creates courage to be self

38
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What is the Experience of relatedness

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 Being able to stand alone leads to fulfilling and not deprived relationships
 Distinguished between neurotic dependence and life-affirming relationship

39
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What is Struggling with our identity

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 Ritualistic behavior patterns attached to an identity acquired early in life
* Ex. What you eat for breakfast, why do you beat yourself up psychologically,
 Not in the “being” mode, but a “doing mode”

40
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What is proposition 2?

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Freedom and responsibility

41
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Why is freedom and responsibility important?

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o We are free to choose among alternatives to shape our destiny
o We long for freedom but we run from it when we are asked to choose
 Ex. choosing the “wrong” choice
* Not willing to accept responsibility

42
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o Freedom

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responsible for our lives for our actions and for our failures to take action
 Not doing something, is still doing something

43
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o Existential guilt

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knowing we have chosen not to choose and contributes to a sense of incompleteness (“I’m not what I have become”); have given in to anxiety and have not risen to do what we know is possible for us to do

 I want to choose so I can have a sense of my own power (I don’t wanna be someone’s doormat)
 Take responsibility of own life

44
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o Authenticity

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the courage to be who we want to be; based on what is a valuable existence for me
 I choose what I want from my life
* Ex. I want to go to nail school; not go to college

45
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What is proposition 1?

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Capacity for self-awareness

46
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o Consequences of dependence

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identity is defined by others (need for approval)
 Ex. Want someone to validate us (mirrored grandiosity)
 Do what other people want us to do

47
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o Price for becoming self-aware

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movement from deadness to turmoil

48
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Why is it hard to become self-aware?

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o Preoccupied with past, planning for the future, and doing too many things at once – not living in the moment
o Preoccupied with avoiding suffering (anxiety) and death and not appreciating living

49
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What realm is concerned with the future?

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psychological

50
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What are therapy goals of existentialism

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  • Become more present with oneself and others
  • Identify factors that block our ability to be fully present
    o Why does life suck?
  • Assume responsibility for our one lives
    o Ex. experiencing racism, still need to take responsibility that racism exists and what am I gonna do about it?
  • To live a more enriched life
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What are the therapist function/goals of existentialism

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  • Help clients accept responsibility for their lives
    o ex. feel life is meaningless, you haven’t found your own meaning, you are living off other people’s sense of meaning
  • Help clients move away from “restricted existence” that is stifling their present existence
    o Only doing what others want you to do
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Client experience in existentialism

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  • Experiment with new ways of being in the outside world
  • Loosen their “deterministic shackles”
    o You do something you enjoy, tell other people to fuck off <3
  • Confront ultimate concerns instead of being solution-oriented
    o Take away from immediate problem
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What is the Relationship between therapist and client?

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  • “here-and-now” is stressed through genuine concern and empathy
    o No past/future questions
  • Therapy is viewed as a social microcosm
    o Therapist can get sense of other relationships
  • Journey of self-discovery taken both by the client and the therapist
54
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  • Holism
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o You must know WHOLE not just a part, do not pay attention to just 1 thing

55
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  • Phenomenological
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focus on clients perceptions of reality

56
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  • Process-based
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focus is not on content (how clients behave in the present is far more important than why they behave as they do)
o Ex. fist punching, “what is your fist doing, make it talk, what does it say”

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  • Experiential
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direct experiencing is much more important than abstractly talking about a situation
o Concerned with experiential system/implicit beliefs (not rational)

58
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Contact

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connection with the external world (e.g., other people) and internal world (e.g., disowned parts) are monitored
o Ex. how you eat breakfast every day vs. how you talk to your significant other (external world)
o Ex. anger at father, however according to society you ignore that part of you (internal world)

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  • Paradoxical theory of change
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to “be” as fully as possible, rather than becoming what we “should be”

60
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Real vs Ideal self

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 Selfish self (real self) vs generous self (ideal self) – your way of being generous is your selfish self
 If you try to be generous, you are not focused on your selfishness; you are still selfish even if you think you are generous
 To be generous you must first accept you are selfish

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  • Interest in whole person
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thoughts, feelings, behaviors, body, memory, and dreams are all tended to equally
o Whole is more important than sum

62
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  • Figure
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experiences that are the most important
o Ex. 2 photos within one

63
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  • Ground
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experiences that are out of awareness in the “background”
o Cues: physical gestures, tone of voice, demeanor, and other nonverbal
 Ex. brushing your hair
 Soothing yourself

64
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  • Field theory
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need to understand clients within their environment which is constantly changing. Everything is considered to be influx, interrelated and relational

65
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  • Figure-formation process:
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the background and become the figure and the figure can become the background at any given moment
o Putting things you do not accept into the background and things you accept into figure
 Ex. “I am racist” in figure while “I am not racist” in background
o ALWAYS HAPPENING (life is suffering)

66
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  • Organismic self-regulation
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equilibrium is disturbed by the emergence of a need, a sensation or interest from the background. Can take actions to restore equilibrium or make contacts that promote growth and change

67
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How do you restore equilibrium?

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going against what is true/what makes you feel better
 Ex. I’m not racist, I posted a black box on insta for black people

68
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  • The now (phenomenological inquiry
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pay attention to what is happening now to contact the present moment. Focusing on the past (dead) or future (fantasy) is a way to avoid present. Do not ask “why”, ask “what” and “how”. Focus on what’s happening NOW

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  • Unfinished business
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lack of resolution will result in resentment, rage, hatred, pain, anxiety, grief, guilt, and abandonment; these feelings that not fully experienced in awareness linger in the background and interfere with effective contact with oneself and others and lead to: preoccupation, compulsive behavior, wariness, and self-defeating behavior

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  • Impasse
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feeling stuck because the customary way of doing things does not work
o Ex. pull out phone but you can’t avoid your problems/unfinished business

71
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  • Resistance to contact
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refusal to experience the present to a full and real way, which results in dysfunctional behavior if it’s chronic

72
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o Introjection

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Uncritically accept others’ beliefs and standards
 Take everything in, no questions

73
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What are boundary disturbances

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defense mechanisms used to become closer with other people

74
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o Projection

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Seeing in others qualities that we refuse to acknowledge in ourselves
 We are just blah

75
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o Retroflection

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Doing to ourselves what we would like to do others or doing for ourselves what we would like someone else to do for us
 What you want to do to someone else and you do it to yourself
* Ex. self-harm (not only reason for self-harm)
* Ex. Masturbation

76
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o Deflection

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Distraction or veering off from topic (e.g., humor, abstractions, questions)

77
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o Confluence

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Blur differentiation between self and environment (not rock the boat) because of a high need for being accepted. Symptoms: absence of conflict, slowness to anger, and believe that everyone experiences the same feelings and thoughts
 Why you are bad at dealing with conflicts
 Can’t get mad at the person, but super angry alone

78
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  • Interruptions in contact lead to:
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Employ boundary disturbances to control environment

79
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Gestalt THERAPEUTIC GOALS

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  • Awareness includes knowing the environment, knowing oneself, accepting oneself, and making contact
  • Awareness = contact = integration of disowned parts
  • Identity is not static, we are constantly discovering parts of ourselves as we face new challenges
80
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Top dog

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the “critical parent” that manipulates with threats
 Ex. “stop playing games and go to bed!”
 Male in straight relationship

81
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Underdog

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manipulates by playing the powerless victim; finds excuses
 Ex. “I wanna keep playing games”
 female is straight relationship

82
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o Empty chair technique

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a powerful tool for identifying this constant struggle
 Pretend someone is in the other chair
 Good with veterans

83
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  • Reversal exercise
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Do the opposite of what one is comfortable with
o Ex. only wear black; wear something super flashy (figure formation focus)
 DO NOT CARE where people got the idea

84
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  • Rehearsal exercise
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Share private rehearsals out loud to increase spontaneity
- Exaggeration exercise: exaggerates movements, gestures, and postures to become aware of a subtle signals and cues
o Ex. shaking your leg

85
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  • Staying with the feeling
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avoid fleeing from uncomfortable feelings and experience the pain fully to enhance growth
o Don’t run away when you are confronted with truths about yourself (I am racist)

86
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Gestalt therapists goals/function

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  • Values self-discovery in clients
  • Does not make interpretations
  • Pays attention to client’s body language (nonverbal cues), which provide clues to feelings that the client is unaware and to discrepancies (incongruities)
    o “I am Groot” vs “I am fine”
  • Is also attentive to language pattern
87
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Gestalt client experience

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  • Active participant who make their own interpretations and meaning
88
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discovery

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realization about self or see something old in a new way
 Ex. realization of issues regarding trust & etc.

89
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accommodation

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recognizing that they have a choice about how to respond

90
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assimilation

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learning to influence the environment and not be passive – ability to improvise
 Ability to be spontaneous
 Ability to accept change/not have control
 Ability to make FULL CONTACT helps realize future anxieties about similar situations

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Gestalt RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THERAPIST AND CLIENT

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  • Person-to-person relationship between therapist and client
  • Not technique-bound, relationship is what really counts
92
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Gestalt Therapy Techniques

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  • Experiment: shift the focus of counseling from talking about a topic to an experiential activity that will heighten the client’s awareness and understanding
  • Experiments are not exercises; they are spontaneous and relevant to the moment
  • Technique to bring out internal conflict and “unstuck” the client
  • Confrontation: point out discrepancies