CMH Test 4

Question 0

A central aspect of quality time is ____________

Answer 0

Togetherness

Question 1

Quality time is giving someone your ___________ attention

Answer 1

Undivided

Question 2

I do not mean just to be in close _________

Answer 2

Proximity

Question 3

Togetherness has to do with ________ attention

Answer 3

Focused

Question 4

Quality time does not mean that we have to spend our moments together __________ across from each other and _________ non-stop into each other eyes

Answer 4

Sitting, staring

Question 5

It does mean that we are doing something __________ and that we are giving the other person our full ____________

Answer 5

Together, attention

Question 6

The important thing ___________ is that we are spending _______ time with each other

Answer 6

Emotionally, focused

Question 7

The activity is just a _________ that creates the sense of togetherness

Answer 7

Vehicle

Question 8

Quality conversation means a ____________ dialogue where two individuals are sharing their _____________, ____________, _______________, and ___________ in a friendly, uninterrupted context

Answer 8

Sympathetic, experiences, thoughts, feelings, desires

Question 9

Words of affirmation focus on what we are _________; whereas quality conversation focuses on what we are ___________

Answer 9

Saying, hearing

Question 10

Many of us are trained to _____________ problems and to ____________ solutions

Answer 10

Analyze, create

Question 11

A relationship calls for _______________ listening with the idea of understanding the other person’s thoughts, feelings, and desires

Answer 11

Sympathetic

Question 12

Maintain ________ ___________ when your spouse is talking

Answer 12

Eye contact

Question 13

Don’t listen to your spouse and do _____________ else at the same time

Answer 13

Something

Question 14

Listen for ___________

Answer 14

Feelings

Question 15

Observe ___________ __________

Answer 15

Body language

Question 16

Refuse to __________

Answer 16

Interrupt

Question 17

By the time we reach adulthood, many of us have learned to _________ our feelings

Answer 17

Deny

Question 18

We tend to express our ______________ and not our ____________

Answer 18

Thoughts, feelings

Question 19

What are the two basic personality types? And what do they mean

Answer 19

Dead Sea, babbling brook

Question 20

Dead Sea

Answer 20

It receives, but it does not give. This personality type receives many experiences, emotions, and thoughts throughout the day.

Question 21

Babbling Brook

Answer 21

.Whatever they see or hear they tell

Question 22

Quality activities may include anything in which one or both of you have an __________

Answer 22

Interest

Question 23

The emphasis is not on _______ you are doing but on ______ you are doing it

Answer 23

What, why

Question 24

The essential ingredients in quality activity are:

At least one of you _________ to do it;
The other is _________ to do it;
Both of you know _________ you are doing it - to express love by being together

Answer 24

Wants, willing, why