ch2 Flashcards

palms and handshakes

1
Q

biggest sign of submissiveness

A

humans show their hands, dogs show their throats

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
2
Q

when people lie

A
  • men body language can be obvious
  • women try to look busy
  • salesmen take advantage of this one
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
3
Q

law of cause and effect

A

body language itself can change your attitude

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
4
Q

palm power gestures

A

1) palm up
2) palm down
3) palm closed finger pointed

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
5
Q

palm up gesture

A

submissive non threatening. “no weapons”

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
6
Q

palm down gesture

A

project immediate authority

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
7
Q

pointed finger gesture

A
  • tries to beat ppl into submission with “symbolic club”.

- brings negativity

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
8
Q

OK gesture

A

-use OK gesture instead of pointed finger, less agressive

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
9
Q

three basic attitudes you can transmit when you meet someone

A

1) dominance - he is trying to dominate
2) submission - he is submissive, i can dominate
3) equality - i am confortable

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
10
Q

dominance in a handshake

A

take control so your palms are down

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
11
Q

submissive handshake

A

your palms are up. good for apologies

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
12
Q

equal handshake

A

both palms are vertical. use same pressure as other person

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
13
Q

disarming a handshake

A

1) put left foot forward and grab
2) put right foot forward
3) step to your left and twist

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
14
Q

the double hander handshake

A

more intimate, use only when you could do a hug

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
15
Q

use of a two handed shake

A

convey sincerity or empathy. use only on people you know well already

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
16
Q

shoulder hold

A

hold someone shoulder when you shake. two handed approach and not reccomended

17
Q

basic rules of good handshake

A

vertical and match grip