attachment theory Flashcards
attachment theory (developed by Ainsworth and Bowlby in the 1970s) identified…
the idea of development of social relationships, and how the type of attachment would influence relationships in later life
Attachment theory is rooted in
object relations theory
basic assumption of object relations theory
all people naturally seek relationshps with other people
internal working model (coined by Bowbly)
- are frameworks of thoughts, feelings, plans, goals that allow us to make sense of our relationships with others and the world around us
- developed over time with “millions of experiences”
- schemas
IWM helps to (3)
1) make sense of others behaviour
2) make predictions regarding future behaviours
3) facilitate the organization of the individual’s response
*4 main components of Attachment Behavioural System (Bowlby, 1982)
1) Our attachment figure is our secure base
2) As infants, we seek proximity* and support from a secure base* in times of need
3) We use our secure base as a safe haven to explore new experiences
4) We experience distress as a separation protest when attachment figure becomes unavailable to us
Positive interaction cycle:
Self worth/self esteem is reinforced through ->
positive parent/child interactions ->
child responds positively ->
positive response maintains or increases feelings of self worth and self esteem->….
Requirements of developing a secure base (as per Bowlby)
** to have a secure base/attachment in life, it’s the repetitive nature of positive interactions which contribute to a positive internal working model ** - Bowlby
Parental behaviours necessary to develop a secure attachment
- sensitive
- responsive
- accepting
Attachment styles
1) secure
2) insecure-avoidant
3) insecure-ambivalent (or anxious-ambivalent)
4) disorganized
5) non-attached
Secure attachment style
- Experience is that caregiver is accessible and responsible
- Child responds positively to caregiver upon reunification – after separation
- Actively seek out interactions (relationships) with others
- Readily accepts comfort if distressed
- Display few negative behaviours towards their caregivers
- Balance of a secure base and haven of safety
Outcomes:
• Working model of self is “worthy and competent”. Working model of others is “responsible and dependable”.
Insecure-Avoidant
• Experience that caregiver is rejecting
- Show little stress upon separation
- Do not seek affection upon reunification
- Show little preference for their primary caregiver over strangers
- The child’s reaction to separation and reunification helps the child maintain proximity to their parent without risking rejection
Outcomes:
• Working model of self as “alone or unwanted” and working model of others as “rejecting and untrustworthy”
Insecure-ambivalent/anxious-ambivalent
• Experience parents as being unpredictable or inconsistent in their responses (not overly rejecting)
- High level of stress both upon separation and when their primary caregivers are present
- Upon reunification, children demonstrate angry resistance – seeking out their caregivers, but then pushing them away
- Ambivalent-resistant children may appear more attached, by becoming alarmed by the presence of a stranger or appearing helpless/distressed if caregiver leaves
- These children are unsure whether the caregiver will be responsive, may be at risk for separation anxiety, tend to be preoccupied with caregiver’s availability and may be clingy/dependent
- The child fears potential abandonment and will maximize efforts to maintain close parental attachments by becoming hypervigilant for any signs of threat or rejection
Outcome:
o Working models of self whose “worthiness of attention” is questionable, working models of others as being “questionable” (untrusting?)
Disorganized attachment
- Experience parents as being frightening (associated with abuse)
- Diverse contradictory behaviours including strong proximity-seeking behaviour followed by avoidance, general expressions of fear, some disorientation/confusion and apprehension upon caregivers return
- Disorganized responses are attempts to gain some sense of security from parents that are unpredictable
Non-attached
• Associated with war-traumatized or orphaned children