ch 10-13 Flashcards
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emotional regulation
ability to control ehwn and how emotions are expressed
initiative vs guilt
erikson’s 3rd psychosocial crisis , in which children undertake new skills and activities and feel guilty when they do not succed at them
self concept
a person’s understanding of who he or she is, in relation to self-esteem, appearance, personality, and various traits
intrinsic motivation
a drive or reason to purrsue a goal, that comes from inside a person, such as the need to feel smart or competent
extrinsic motivation
a drive or reason to pursue a goal that arises from the need to have one’s achievements rewarded from outside, perhaps by receiving material posessions or another person’s esteem
imaginary friends
make believe friends who exists only in a childs imagination; common from ages 3 through 7 they combat loneliness and aid emotional regulation
psychopathology
an illness or disorder of the mind
externalizing problems
difficulty with emotional regulation that invoves expressing powerful feelings through uncontrolled physical or verbal outbursts as by lashing out at other people or braking things
internalizing problems
difficulty w/ emotional regulation that involves turning one’s emotional distress inward as by feeling excessively guilty, ashamed or worthless
rough and tumble play
play that mimics aggression through wrestling, chasing, or hitting but in which there is no intent to harm
sociodramatic play
pretend play in which children act out various roles and themes in stories that they create
authoritatrian parenting
approch to child rearing that is characterized by high behavioral standards, strict punishment of misconduct and little communication
permissive parenting
approch to child rearing that is characterized by high nurturance and communication but little disipline, guidance, or control (aka indulgent parenting)
authoritative parenting
an approach to child rearing in which the parents set limits but listen to the child and are flexible
neglectful/ uninvolved parenting
approach to child rearing in which the parents are indifferent toward their children and unaware of what is going on in their children’s lives
empathy
ability to understand the emotions and concerns of another person, especially when they differ from one’s own
antipathy
feelings of dislike or even hatred for another person
prosocial behavior
actions that are helpful and kind but are no obvious benefit to oneself
antisocial behavior
actions that are deliberately hurtful or destructive to another person
instrumental aggression
behavior that hurts someone else b/c the aggressor wants to get or keep a possession or a priviledge
reactive aggression
an impuslive retaliation for another person’s intentional or accidental action, verbal or physical
relational aggression
nonphysical acts, such as insults or social rejection, aimed at harming the social connection between the victim and other people
bullying aggression
unprovoked, repeated physical or verbal attack, especially on victims who are unlikely to defend themselves
psychlogical control
disciplinary technique that involves threatening to withdraw love and support and that relies on a child’s feelings of guilt and gratitude to the parents