Chapter 3

Question 1

it is described as the cooperative and collaborative use of each other’s resources. __________ is the result of the process of resource sharing.

Answer 1

Interdependence

Question 2

going with the rules even though you sometimes disagree to those rules. Putting your effort into the group task even though you don’t feel like it

Answer 2

Cooperation

Question 3

• having resources that others may not have (applies to all members).
• Sharing these resources so that we can accomplish something as a team.
• Resources willing to share to the group.
• Through sharing of resources to the person who lacks it and him sharing his to you which I do not have, we become intertwined together because we now rely on each other for his and my needs. Thus, we become attached to each other
• Losing the other person means losing opportunities to meet our needs, goals, and potentials.

Answer 3

Collaboration

Question 4

• One of the key features in establishing ____________is the degree to which the partners in an intimate relationship experience interdependence

Answer 4

commitment

Question 5

• Resources are

Answer 5

tangible and intangible

Question 6

• The more you feel you need a person, the more you stay and stick to the relationship, And the more you feel that you need to stick to the relationship, the more you invest to secure your place and position in that relationship/group

Answer 6

commitment in process

Question 7

• It may sound selfish but that is the reality. Humans are built to?

Answer 7

protect the self and his self-interest.

Question 8

three ways on how the family concept was described

Answer 8

o It is a concern with the total persons, a process orientation that grows out of care-giving,
o A unique and intense emotionality,
o An emphasis on quality purposes and processes, an altruistic orientation and nurturing form of governance.
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Question 9

something is missing or wrong when people are not around. As if the natural flow of everything is disturbed.

Answer 9

Interdependence

Question 10

• Members are interdependent when you feel the connections through the process of ____________ from one individual to the another.

Answer 10

emotional transfer

Question 11

• Members are interdependent when one person’s well-being and enjoyment of life is affected by the (4)

Answer 11

rewards, disappointments, satisfaction, and joys of the other

ReDiSaJoy

Question 12

is the recognition that another person’s welfare greatly affects one’s own.

Answer 12

Interdependence

Question 13

is a survival trait that is natural to feel _________ of other people’s success but it is something to overcome in a mindful way to make the relationship stable and functional.

Answer 13

envy/envious

Question 14

• Through the gradual exchanges of available resources namely

Answer 14

material and non-material resources

Question 15

o Relationship is not just about love it is ?

Answer 15

hard work and commitment

Question 16

o It is only among __________ that man stays longer in a relationship.

Answer 16

humans

Question 17

o Is it based on culture or chance?

Answer 17

No. It is programmed in our brained (brain chemistry)

Question 18

is a brain chemical and typically linked to warm fuzzy feelings and is shown in some research to lower stress and anxiety.

Answer 18

Oxytocin

Question 19

It has the power to regulate our emotional responses and pro-social behaviors which includes (6). It is responsible for making relationship lasts.

Answer 19

Oxytocin
trust, empathy, gazing, positive memories, processing of bonding cues and positive communication

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Question 20

o We have to make ________ if we want the relationship to be a functional and pleasant one. It is through the process of _________________

Answer 20

investment, investing our resources

Question 21

Tasks and obligations are __________________ to meet each other’s needs.

Answer 21

distributed among members

Question 22

When a task is assigned to you and you do it well, then we are contributing to the building of one’s ?

Answer 22

home or nest

Question 23

A nest that is

Answer 23

comforting and inviting

Question 24

• The amount of what? a member puts into a responsibility somehow determine the other members’ level of dependency on him.

Answer 24

committment

Question 25

* Interdependence is __________ it keeps on changing as needs change

Answer 25

dynamic

Question 26

Result of interdependency can create?

Answer 26

conflict and disharmony

Question 27

making adjustment when it comes to the resources available to us.

Answer 27

resiliency

Question 28

— all of the members of the family should learn how to manage time, finance, and energy or routine.

Answer 28

Good Management Skills

Question 29

* The individual’s ability to ______ to restore harmony

Answer 29

adapt

Question 30

* Key Ingredient of Interdependence

Answer 30

Meeting each other’s needs using your resources

Question 31

* The basic principle behind interdependence

Answer 31

Social Exchange Theory

Question 32

* It assumes that individuals in a social interaction attempt to __________ ________ in order to obtain the most ___________ __________

Answer 32

Social Exchange Theory maximize costs , profitable outcomes

Question 33

Formula of SET

Answer 33

: Outcome = Rewards – Costs

Question 34

are represented by the material/non-material goods that we invest to the relationship or are the input and output, e.g. prestige, comfort, money

Answer 34

Rewards – Costs

Question 35

is the state of relationship or the level of satisfaction  result of the exchanges. They are the benefits or the failure in certain aspects of the relationship.

Answer 35

Outcome

Question 36

(4) Factors Affecting one’s perception regarding the social exchanges:

Answer 36

Normative Orientation Cognitive orientation Exchange Relationship Marital permanence NoCoErMp

Question 37

* Expectations of marriage in general and of the roles of marital partners

Answer 37

Normative Orientation

Question 38

the roles of marital partners according to the Normative Orientation

Answer 38

o Who performs the role, o Availability of resources with which to negotiate (how much resources do we need to give), o General nature of power with which to negotiate Perform role AR nego GNP nego

Question 39

there are partnerships where the husband dominates the decision-making process, most especially if imposed by culture. Therefore, the wife often times submit to the husband’s demands or expectations. This will affect the resources that they will invest to make the relationship functional.

Answer 39

Power Equality

Question 40

If the husband is the sole owner and the wife is the home maker, then the husband is the dependent to the wife’s ability to manage the home, while the wife is dependent on the husband for their family’s life sustenance.

Answer 40

Affecting the benefits

Question 41

* Refers to the person’s beliefs, values, and attitudes acquired through personal experiences, that will contribute to the attitudes regarding exchange. o Includes how we think and process information, and also include our psychological disposition acquired from experiences.

Answer 41

Cognitive Orientation

Question 42

* It is the general patterning of social transactions involving the availability and/or exchange of valued resources between them. * Established as the family adapts to the daily demands of the family.

Answer 42

Exchange Relationship

Question 43

* We develop this pattern since this became the most convenient for everyone or most for the family members – there are members that are highly reliable and family members that are not

Answer 43

Exchange Relationship

Question 44

* In the long run we become more dependent on those who_____________ on their household tasks or responsibilities. Thus, resources are invested on them.

Answer 44

put their hearts or committed

Question 45

* Expectations of permanency, thus bargaining is related to time * Usually affected by past interaction with the partner and with anticipated future with the partner.

Answer 45

4. Marital permanence

Question 46

You rely on each other for __________

Answer 46

support