Chapter 4 & 5 Test Flashcards

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the early church celebrated in the

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same way that local cultures had for centuries

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2
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during the early church the father of the bride

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handed over his daughter to the groom

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3
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during the early church the bride wore

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a ceremonial gown viel

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4
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during the early church the couples

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joined their right hands

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5
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during the early there was the exchange of

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rings

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6
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in the seventeenth century the church became more

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involved in wedding ceremony

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17th century- who gave nuptial blessing

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bishop or priest

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what was the nuptial blessing

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intended for bride and marriage covenant

taking place after couple gets married

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during the 17th century was happen with the wedding ceremony

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developed into a liturgical rite perfomrmed at church rather than in a home

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10
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during middle ages ceremonies became

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very formal

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11
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what did that help counteract

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the abuses of secret marriges

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in the 12th century the church made what explict

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that marriage is one of the seven sacraments

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the 12th century church taught

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marriage was to be a sacrament lasting until death of a spouse and prohibited divorce and remarriage

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14
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when does preparation for marriage begin

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during infancy and extends through childhood and adolescences

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15
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in an arranged marriage one family makes

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an agreement to promise their daughter to the son of another family

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16
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in an arranged marriage it was understood that love

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was to follow and grow out of marriage

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17
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what is common when meeting a person

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infatuation that leads to friendship

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18
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first two predictors of marriage

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  • that the spouse came from similar backgrounds

- that the spouse had parents with long and successful marriages

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one benefit of dating

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man and women get to know each other by sharing many varying activities and experiences together

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20
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another benfeit of dating

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gives two people a chance to see if they are compatible

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21
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what gives a better chance of having a good relationship

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come from same social group
same or similar values
practice same religion
similar interest

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22
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what questions should a person ask if getting seriosu

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how does partner treat me?
how does he treat other?
im i proud to marry in front of everyone?
do i want to have kids and raise them with this person?

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23
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marriage is permitted in the perish where one of the persons

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lives or has established at least a month long residence

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24
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what do civil laws determine

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legality of marrige

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what is an example
age requirements vary state to state
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what laws do church set for marriage sacrament
mature age unmarried willing to have children freely giving consent to marriage
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why is matrimonial consent most important
determines the validity of the marriage
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why does the priest interview the couple seperatley
to find of if impediments exsist
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what age is invalid for men and women
men under 16 | women under 14
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invalid marriges
priest not being physically capable of sex bloodline
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if not catholic permission must come from
local bishop
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catholic partner must promise
that he or she will do all in his or her power to have children baptized and raised catholic
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what does pre marriage inventory help gauge the couple of
the effectiveness of their communication with one another
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FOCCUS meaning and what it is
facilitating open couple communication understanding with one another; widely used inventories
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pre cana
weekend retreat, series of classes, parish based program | a time to listen and reflect before meeting with future spouse
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marriage is modeled on
faithfulness Yahweh exhibited in his covenant with the Israelite in the old testament
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marriage is an
agreement between the couple and god
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marriage reflects the
new covenant established by Christ at the last supper and with his death on the cross
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when is marriage usually celebrated
during mass because it is in Eucharist that the new covenant is realized
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what importance does liturgy of the work show
christian marriage in the history of salvation
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what is the grace is the sacrament of matrimony
the promise that Christ will remain present in the married life
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unconditional and everlasting love is the love that
god showed through humanity through the incarnation in Jesus and the redemption that Christ brings to the world
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what kind of love do wife and husband share
unconditional and everlasting
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through unconditional love wife and husband reproduce
in their children the very image of christ
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some issues that can occur in the first year of marrisge
``` in- law issues financial issues social issues communication issues sexual issues ```
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how can those problems be dealt with
``` keeping an open mind is important beware of differing personalities keep channels of communication open love one another pray togehtet ```
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for a marriage to work what must happen
each spouse will have to give up something of their previous self
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sex in marriage is meant to be
unitive and procreative
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sex helps maintain what
marriage by fostering intimacy, providing emotional security and reducing stress
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the couple must learn from each other how to make sex
pleasurable and satisfying for both
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catholic couples must be open
to having children
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popular culture today associates sex with
just pleasure
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natural planning is the only
morally acceptable way of not having a baby
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church doesn't agree with
surrogate mothers, or anything other than adoption when it comes to couples that convceive
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if cant conceive then
devote yourself to servivce
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what responsibility do parents have
to educate their children morally and spiritually
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how is this done
by creating a home where there is tenderness, forgiveness, compassion and respect
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how can you do tht
share meals together
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what responsibility does the society have
defend family life
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john Paul II says
no one is without a family in this world: the church is a home and family for everyone
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incarnation
the taking on of human nature by gods son
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conjugal love
the total love between a husband and wife that encompassed their entire being body and soul
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contraception
a method of preventing pregnancy that is intended to alter or avoid the body natural state of fertility
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coitus
a term for sexual intercourse between man and women
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continence
partial or complete abstinence from sexual activity
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surrogate mohter
a women who carries another women child by prearrangement or by legal contract
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ovulation
the time in a women fertile cycle when an egg is released from her ovary
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discipline
a process if training that is expected to produce acceptable pattern of behavior as well as improved mental and social character
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holy family
the family of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus
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impediments
external circumstances or facts that prevent a sacramental or legal marriage from taking place
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domestic church
name for the family the church miniature
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convenant
a sacred and unbreakable agreement between human beings or between god and a human being that involves mutual commitments