Dec Ka Knowledge Ka Bandaar Flashcards
Y should I be calm (chalinchakapovadam) to weird questions and reactions from people?
Don’t feel guilty or embarrassed about what you said before you smiled. Remember, their reactions and questions are not a reflection of you, but of themselves. Their fears, their closed minds, their inadequacies and their poor self esteems.
And remember Hanlon’s Razor:
Never attribute to malice that which is adequately attributed to stupidity.
Trust me, it’s often hard to differentiate between malice and stupidity if we look at something discerningly instead of thinking that the world is out to get us.
How to respond to weird responses?
Firstly you must remember we humans all have different take on life. What is weird to one is natural to another. Some people derive much pleasure in the art of being ‘weird’. There are those that just want to be different and stand out in the crowd. Others just want to be ‘ordinary’ and go about there business in what we would term as a normal way.
So to get to the answer to your question, if someone from your perspective asks you something you deem to be weird or you are phased by someone’s reaction to a conversation you are having or a particular set of circumstances, the best way forward is for you not to react.
In the first instance you need to stay calm yourself and you do this by the simple technique of a few deep breaths. This slows the whole process of over-reaction down so that you can energise your body and plus give yourself time in the thought process of how you are going to respond.
Once you have calmed yourself in this manner, and you will discover the tremendous benefits that breathing deeply can hold, just summon up your instincts and respond in a manner that you deem to be proportionate to the situation. You know what, there are from time to time things we will face which in our own perspectives is a bit alien to our individual thought patterns. But that is what makes life so interesting. We are all so different.
We do not have to be clever all the time with quick off the cuff responses, trying to get the better of the other person. If someone is weird and over-reacting, then they have to live with themselves, just remember you do not. There is a penchant today to always be witty and quick off the draw and responsive, but sometimes in life it is better not to react and let things pass.
There is a Shakespearean saying ‘the soft answer turneth away wrath’. So that is my advice on these occasions. Smile pleasantly, nod the head, may be even roll the eyes a bit, but sometimes saying little is the best response.
Note to my conscious self to escape the trap of Maya.
I’m Gayathri thammireddy. I’m tired of me getting defeated by maya. I really wish to make some conscious decisions. I wish to sit in this room and crack prelims at any cost this year. My strength is my polity. Stop speaking to others except shivam. I need some momentum in my preparation. Which requires major changes in my behaviour. I’m perfectly ready to chant the mantra of ugram veeram. Once I’ll go to the temple inside my heart I’ll wish strongly to clear this exam asap in order to meet vikky. Chant this mantra constantly. And keep studying. Your only breaks are food, sleep. That’s it. Clear prelims at any cost. You will definitely feel like killing yourself if you don’t complete the task of constantly chanting the mantras. Get into a trance and just do it. Keep doing it. Respect his time. Be in a trance. Respect him. And help him to level up. Yes, you can.
Enroute legacy
Building legacy is not easy coz you have to stick to the personality. You have to stick to the boundaries. You can’t let your energy flow out of those boundaries. Most Essential thing to build a brand is first’ you need to have immense energy to spend every second, every minute, every hour and build a boundary around that energy and not letting that energy flow out of the dam. Staying in the character is important. Rocky is such a character where once the dam breaks the character dies. With great risk comes great fame and glory. Right now you are behaving so carelessly bcz you have got nothing to lose. Nothing significant is at stake right now as per philosophical pov. But, from pov of your personality and the character that you’ve maintained and built over these 25 years already you’ve lost a lot and a significant portion is at stake. You are a company currently your maa, papa, vani pinni are significant investors in this company. No one else has such deep faith in you other than these. There are people with observer status like srinadh, vivek, mukesh, sreeha etc.. and there is a active partner shivam. Your aim is to turn the obsevers into investor’s and turn the current investors into most happiest people. For this you need to sacrifice your selfish happiness. All these you lead a nomadic life where there was no tension about tomorrow. But, now you need to turn into a person whose every second matters. Who has proper boundaries which are very well revised again and again. spend energy like there is no tomorrow. Journey from 22 marks to 120 marks. Daily taraget is to increase the marks and how??. Which are the areas that I can afford to score marks. This is a way to build legacy Gayathri. Kgf took 8 yrs. Can’t you spend 5 months on building an art that is you
