Exam 3 Flashcards
(136 cards)
the transition from adolescence to adulthood
Emerging Adulthood
doing something to obtain something else (the activity is a means to an end)
Extrinsic Motivation
the internal motivation to do something for its own sake (the activity is an end in itself)
Intrinsic Motivation
passion and persistence in achieving long-term goals
Grit
positive views of relationships, find it easy to get close to others, and are not overly concerned with or stressed out about their romantic relationships
Secure Attachment Style
hesitant about getting involved in romantic relationships and once they are in a relationship tend to distance themselves from their partner
Avoidant Attachment Style
demand closeness, are less trusting, and are more emotional, jealous, and possessive
Anxious Attachment Style
our own attitudes and values are supported when someone else’s attitudes and values are similar to ours
Consensual Validation
although we may prefer a more attractive person in the abstract, in the real world we end up choosing someone who is close to our own level of attractiveness
Matching Hypothesis
has strong components of sexuality and infatuation, and it often predominates the early part of a love relationship
Romantic Love
the type of love that occurs when someone desires to have the other person near and has a deep, caring affection for the person
Affectionate Love
involves all three dimensions of love
Consummate Love
competent in multiple areas of life, showing a remarkable ability to bounce back from stressful circumstances and to create something meaningful out of problems
The Enhancers
average people coping with divorce; they showed some strengths and some weaknesses, some successes and some failures
The Good-Enoughs
these individuals were motivated to find new mates as soon as possible
The Seekers
people in this category often spent more time in singles bars and had more casual sex than their counterparts in other divorce categories
The Libertines
they had a successful career, an active social life, and a wide range of interests, but had little interest in sharing their lives with anyone else
The Competent Loners
some of these individuals had problems before their divorce, and these problems increased after the breakup when the added stress of a failed marriage was more than they could handle
The Defeated
goes beyond adolescent thinking by being more reflexive, practical, and more flexible
Postformal Thought
things are right or wrong and authorities determine this difference; have a hard time seeing multiple solutions to a problem
Dualism
subjectivity in what’s right and wrong, shift from authority to peers; can provide arguments for both sides of an issue
Multiplicity
start to realize that there may be multiple solutions to a single problem; look for supporting evidence
Contextual Relativism
many perspectives may be valid, learn to evaluate evidence; recognize how contexts can shape solutions
Commitment within Contextual Relativism
an ingrained cultural belief that engaging in hard work and long hours through adulthood will lead to status, security, and happiness
Career Mystique