Exam 3 Flashcards
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Sexual scripts
Descriptions of behaviors that reflect beliefs about what is “normal” sexual behavior in a given culture.
Compulsory Heterosexuality
normal and romantic sexual behaviors are heterosexual
Performative Bisexuality
Non-heterosexual script in which heterosexual women kiss and engage in sexual activities with other women for the enjoyment of men watching them.
Sexual Double Standard
Women are judged more harshly than men for engaging in comparable sexual behaviors.
Slut Shaming
When people are criticized for their actual or presumed engagement in sexual behaviors.
Affirmative Consent
When there is mutual, explicit, voluntary, active consent given before a sexual act.
Casual Sex
Men generally engage in this more than women do, LQBTQ are more likely to accept this offer (friends with benefits)
Hookups
More common than casual sex, women more likely to because of hope of romantic relationship.
Masturbation
stimulating oneself, usually through touching one’s genitals, to result in sexual pleasure.
Cognitive Distraction
When women take a third person perspective on their bodies (self-objectification) ex: women worrying about if partner notices new “fat roll”
Spectatoring
out-of-body experience in which a women’s focus is on other things other than the sexual encounter.
Sexualization
When sexuality is imposed on others, when people are regarded as sex objects, when their value is reduced to their sexual appeal or behavior. Women’s worth is connected to their sexual body parts and other people’s pleasure. It is sexism, not sex!
Self-sexualization
Women portray themselves in sexual ways. Leads to positive attention or feedback.
Social Support
A feeling of being cared for and having support and assistance from people around us.
Instrumental Social Support
Others providing tangible assistance in terms of money, goods, or services.
Emotional Social Support
When we feel nurtured and/or care for by others.
Active Constructive Responding
A way to respond when someone shares good news. Involves reacting enthusiastcially and asking follow up questions.
Co-Rumination
Emotional support can cross over into this. Extensively discussing problems and dwelling on negatives in conversation with another person.
Dating Scripts
The lessons that we absorb from popular culture influence our beliefs about what should happen when people date.
Compulsory Monogamy
The expectation that everyone, but especially women, should strive to find one partner (to marry) who can exclusively fulfill all desires, wants, and needs.
Consensually non-monogamous relationships
One type is polygamy
Polygamy
One husband having many wives. Tied to religious belief or cultural practices.
Polyamorous Relationships
Are NOT tied to religious beliefs or to specific gender identities.
Wedding Industrial Complex
Multi-billion dollar industry, emphasizing extravagant celebrations and material goods.