Exam 4 Flashcards

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What is the history of love as a necessary condition for marriage

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We only started getting married for love recently. We used to get married for political, economic , practical, and family reasons

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According the Sternberg what are the three building blocks of love

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Intimacy , passion and commitment

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Define intimacy

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Includes the feelings of warmth , understanding, trust support and sharing

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Define passion

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Defines by physical arousal and desire , excitement
Takes form of sexual logging but any strong emotional need that is satisfied by one’s partner fits the category

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Define commitment

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Includes feelings of permanence , stability , and the decisions to devote oneself to the relationship and work to maintain it , it is congnitive in nature
Intimacy is emotional and passion and passio) is motive or drive

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Know the characteristics of love

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Nonlove
Liking
Infatuation
Empty love

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Define nonlove

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Intimacy , commitment , passion are not present
Casual , superficial , uncommitted relationship
People are acquaintances not friends

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Define liking

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Intimacy is high but passion and commitment is low
Occurs in friends with closeness and warmth but not to spend the rest of their life
If a friend does arouse you , it is beyond liking

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Define infatuation

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Strong passion with no commitment or intimacy .
Happens when people are aroused with people they don’t know

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Define Empty love

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Commitment without intimacy or passion , thins occurs in burnt out relationships where warmth and passion has died and staying together is the only thing that remains

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Know the different types of love

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Romantic love
Companionate love
Fatuous love
Consummate love

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Define romantic love

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High intimacy and passion .
Combination of liking and infatuation

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Define companionate love

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Intimacy and commitment combines. To form love for a close companion or compassionate love

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Fatuous love

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Passion and commitment in the absence of intimacy create a foolish experience
Fatuous meaning stupid
This love happens when two people marry quickly based on overwhelming passion but don’t know each other

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Define Consummate love

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Intimacy , commitment , and passion are all present . They experience complete love. Many people seek this love

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What is unrequited love

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Love that is not retuned from a individual , including passion , Romantic , attraction

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How many people experience unrequited love

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80 to 90%

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When is unrequited love most likely to occur

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In your young adults

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Which attachment style most likely experience unrequited love

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Mania

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What are the different love styles according to lee

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Eros
Ludus
Storage
Mania
Agape
Pragma

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Define Eros love style

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The erotic lover finds good looking compelling and seeks intense , passionate realstiomships

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Define Ludus love type

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The ludic lover considers love to be a game and likes playing the game and field

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Define Storage love style

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The storgic love prefers friendships that gradually grow into lasting commitments

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Define Mania love style

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Is demanding , possessive , and excitable

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Define agape love style
Lover is altruistic and dutiful
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Define pragma love style
Lover is pratical , careful , and logic seeking
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How do secure attachment individuals experience intimacy
High regard for others , view them as trust worthy , they open more
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How do secure attachment individuals experience passion
Best most fulfilling sex is done by secure attachment styles , greater pleasure and more frequent organism
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How do secure attachment individuals experience commitment
Secure ppl are more committed . Not a surprise because day by day they have more intimate , positive , and satisfying interactions
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How do insecure attachment individuals experience intimacy
More wary of others , high in avoidance , tend to be close mouthed , telling partner little to nothing about their feelings
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How do insecure attachment individuals experience passion
Anxiety over abandonment , nervously experiencing rather than delight intimacy They are avoidance and more distant and detached
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How do insecure attachment individuals experience commitment
They are not committing
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At the beginning of the 21st century , I’m the USA what is the most prevalent sexual standard
Belief that sex between unmarried partners is fine as long as it occurs in a committed caring relationship
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What does the boom say that determines acceptance of same sex relationships
Having more positive exposure of same sex marriage like in movies have affected Also we gave a better understanding of same sex marriage than we used too , we consider it to be acceptable when they believe that sexual orientation results from biological influences that happen before we are born
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What does multi national research show on attitudes towards sex ( premarital , extramarital , same sex ) from USA vs other nations
USA are found to be more conservative and less accepting
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What is the effectiveness of abstinence programs
They do not work
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The prevalence of extradyadic sex is highest Among who
Gay men
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What is the good gene hypotheses and what does it say
When women are with less desirable men, they profit from a dual mating strategy Peruse a partner that can contribute resources and protect and feed offspring and also seek good genes for their children from other men
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Under which conditions are women more attractive to extradyadic mates
When they are fertile , and is more likely to happen when their partners are unattractive
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Saying that women are often gatekeepers for sex in a relationship means what
As gatekeepers, women decided when sex occurs and women find men are willing to offer more concessions in exchange for sex, in some relationships sex may be seen as a valuable good , and in a market place the women are the sellers and men the buyers
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What percent of college students use condoms
50%
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What is illusion of unique invulnerability and what can it lead too
Believe bad things are more likely to happen to other people but not us so we fail to to take precautions . This can lead to us catching an sti bc we don’t use protection for thinking it won’t Happen to us
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What is alcohol myopia and how does it affect condom use
Reduction of peoples abilities to think and process all the information available . When drunk people may not thinking of anything but how attractive their partners are and completely forget to use condoms
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What is pluralistic ignorance
When people wrongly believe that their feelings and beliefs are different from others, doing this can make a group follow norms that no one privately supports ex young adults may wisely want to have safe sex but wrongly peruse bc they they it’s unpopular when it is
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If the women are more powerful in the relationship , how does that affect the likely good of condom use
When two partners have different power , they are unlikely to use a condom if the more powerful one doesn’t want too. In general the more powerful the women , and the more honest and more likely to use comdom
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According to self - determination theory , when is sex more satisfying to both members of the couple
Sexual interaction is most rewarding when they fulfill basic human need for autonomy, competence , and relatedness, Autonomy - activities that allow us to choose and control our own choices Competence - to feel capable and confident Relatedness - establish close connection to others The best sex is when we do what we want , do them well, feel loved, and respected
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Direct and honest sexual communication is associated with what
Grate sexual satisfaction
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The high subjective quality of sexual interaction among same sex coupples has been found to be related to what
Good communication , gay and lesbians would communicated on what they liked or what they didn’t liked and also since women slept with women they knew what they would like based on their own experience
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What gender is more likely to perceive sexual interest is present when it is not
Men
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How do most Americans feel about same sex marriage
Minority feel that same sex marriage should be illegal , however most Americans do not hold that view . Majority 61% are in favor for same sex marriage and are even more supportive the younger they are
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Are elderly people more / less. / as likely to notice a gay or lesbian couple as young adults are
Young adults are in favor for same sex relstonhsups and are more likely to know openly gay couples
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What reasons do men have sex
For physical , pragmatic , and insecure reasons .and have more practical reasons for having sex than women
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What reasons do women have sex
Emotional component of sec as a communication of love and commitment
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The steepest incline in sexual frequency is associated with what. What is association between working long hours , pornography , and use of smartphones with sexual frequency
Steepest incline is associated with advent of smart phones and largest with those with college degrees . However unrelated to long working hours , pornography
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For whom is a drop of frequency of sex after 10 year the greatest .
Everyone has less sex in ten years , however gays have the most decline
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What is consensual non monogamy
Arragment where parthners agree that it’s is acceptable to have more than one sexual or romantic parthner
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Define bisexuals
Sexually attractive but not exclusively to people of one gender, both men and women
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Define monogamy
Being married and or having sex with only one person
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Define asexual
Asexual not involved in sexual activity feelings , or association)
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Who is least likely to participate in consensual non monogamy
Women , heterosexuals , and those with restricted sociosexual orientations