Finals Study Guide pt. 1

Question 1

What are the components of Sternberg’s theory of love?

Answer 1

1. Infatuation (passion)
2. Fatuous love (passion + commitment)
3. Empty love (commitment)
4. Companionate (intimacy + commitment)
5. Liking (intimacy)
6. Romantic love (passion + intimacy)
7. Consumate love (intimacy + passion + commitment)

Question 2

What type of love is purely intimacy?

Answer 2

liking love

Question 3

What type of love is passion & intimacy?

Answer 3

romantic love

Question 4

What type of love is passion & commitment?

Answer 4

fatuous love

Question 5

What type of love is purely commitment?

Answer 5

empty love

Question 6

What type of love is intimacy & passion & commitment?

Answer 6

consumate love

Question 7

What type of love is purely passion?

Answer 7

infatuation love

Question 8

What type of love is intimacy & commitment?

Answer 8

companionate

Question 9

What are the myths about love?

Answer 9

• exclusiveness
• selfless
• can’t love and be angry
• changing the person you love
• eternal
• constant closeness
• falling in/out of love

Question 10

What is the definition of homogamy?

Answer 10

The tendency for people to marry others much like themselves

Question 11

What are the five languages of love?

Answer 11

1. Words of Affirmation
2. Acts of Service
3. Gifts
4. Quality Time
   5, Physical Touch

Question 12

What are the five dimensions of how sexuality is formed?

Answer 12

1. Individual Biological
2. Individual Psychological
3. Dyadic-communication between tow individuals about sexuality
4. Family
5. Sociocultural

Question 13

True or False:

If I allow myself to become sexual, I will get into trouble

Answer 13

false

Question 14

True or False:

My partner should know what I need intuitively without my asking

Answer 14

False

Question 15

True or False:

Women are not as sexually desirable when they initiate sex

Answer 15

False

Question 16

True or False:

It is possible to overcome negative conditioning about sexuality learned in childhood

Answer 16

true

Question 17

True or False:

Your partner cannot know what you need intuitively without you asking

Answer 17

True

Question 18

True or False:

If my partner really loved me, I would not have to tell him or her what I liked or wanted

Answer 18

false

Question 19

True or False:

While being sexually free you must still act with a sense of guilt and restrictions

Answer 19

true

Question 20

True or False:

Being sexually attracted to a person other than my partner implies that I don’t really find my partner sexually exciting

Answer 20

False

Question 21

True or False:

Being attracted to someone of the same gender is normal

Answer 21

true

Question 22

True or False:

The more physically attractive a person is, the more sexually exciting he or she is

Answer 22

False

Question 23

True or False:

With the passage of time, some, if not most, sexual relationships are bound to lose a sense of excitement

Answer 23

False

Question 24

List Lee’s six color’s of love.

Answer 24

1. Red- Eros
2. Orange-Agape
3. Yellow- Storge
4. Green-Pragma
5. Blue- ludus
6. Purple- mania

Question 25

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is passionate love?

Answer 25

Eros (red)

Question 26

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is friendship/committed?

Answer 26

Storge (yellow)

Question 27

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is game playing?

Answer 27

Ludus (blue)

Question 28

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is obsessive and stalking?

Answer 28

Mania (purple)

Question 29

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is practical?

Answer 29

Pragma (green)

Question 30

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is selfless love?

Answer 30

Agape (orange)

Question 31

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is erotic & passionate love?

Answer 31

Eros (red)

Question 32

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is an immediate attraction?

Answer 32

Eros (red)

Question 33

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one has an idealized partner?

Answer 33

Eros (red)

Question 34

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is built over time?

Answer 34

Storge (yellow)

Question 35

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one states that friendship is key?

Answer 35

Storge (yellow)

Question 36

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is similar to companionate love?

Answer 36

Storge (yellow)

Question 37

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is built on stability and comfort?

Answer 37

Storge (yellow)

Question 38

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one states that you "play the game of love"?

Answer 38

Ludus (blue)

Question 39

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is about enjoying the act of seduction?

Answer 39

Ludus (blue)

Question 40

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one does not value intimacy?

Answer 40

Ludus (blue)

Question 41

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one often juggles more than one relationship at a time?

Answer 41

Ludus (blue)

Question 42

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is dependent and possessive?

Answer 42

Mania (purple)

Question 43

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is a dramatic rollercoaster?

Answer 43

Mania (purple)

Question 44

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one fears separation?

Answer 44

Mania (purple)

Question 45

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one might be the type to “wait by the phone"?

Answer 45

Mania (purple)

Question 46

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one plans everything?

Answer 46

Pragma (green)

Question 47

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one has a shopping list of qualities?

Answer 47

Pragma (green)

Question 48

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one can assess qualities and make the best "deal"?

Answer 48

Pragma (green)

Question 49

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one is patient and never demanding?

Answer 49

Agape (orange)

Question 50

According to Lee's six colors of love, which one doesn't need reciprocity?

Answer 50

Agape (orange)

Question 51

According to Lee's six colors of love: Men are less likely to have _______ love, and more likely to have _______ love.

Answer 51

agape | ludus

Question 52

According to Lee's six colors of love: Women are less likely to have ______ love, and more likely to have _________ love.

Answer 52

ludus | pragmatic

Question 53

According to Lee's six colors of love: It is more socially acceptable for men to have _______ or _______ love style. It is more socially acceptable for women to have ______ love style.

Answer 53

Eros ludus agape