Intimacy Flashcards

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intimacy:

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development of relationships characterized by self disclosure, trust and concern

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puberty development of intimacy: (2)

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  1. changes in sexual impulses provoke interest in sex which then leads to romantic relationships
  2. romantic/ sexual relationships give rise to host of issues that require serious communication
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social roles development of intimacy: (2)

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  1. new behavioral independence provides opportunities for us to be alone with friends
  2. recognition that you are almost an adult may lead to a deepening of relationships with parents and other adults
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cognitive development of intimacy: (2)

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  1. more sophisticated understanding of the social landscape which leads to changes in relationships
  2. relationships involve greater empathy, self disclosure, and sensitivity
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2 theoretical perspectives of personal development:

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Sullivans theory of interpersonal development and Bowlbys attachment theory

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6
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across stages of development, different:

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interpersonal needs rise

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7
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if interpersonal needs arise and the needs are met then: but if not met then:

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if met then feelings of security emerge. if not met, feelings of anxiety emerge

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the psychosocial development is:

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cumulative, each stage had an impact of who you become as a person

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a solid foundation of security in past relationships=

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easier to find security in future relationship

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poor foundation or anxiety in past relationships=

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difficulty finding security in future relationships

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according to Sullivan, security is the glue that: and why?

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holds your sense of self together because identity and self esteem are a product of your interpersonal relationships

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infancy stage in Sullivans stage:

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need for contact with people, tenderness from mother

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early childhood in Sullivans stage:

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need for adult participation in Childs play

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middle childhood in Sullivans stage:

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need for peer playmates and acceptance into peer society groups

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preadolescence in Sullivans stage:

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need for intimacy and validation in same sex relations

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early adolescence in Sullivans stage:

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need for sexual contact, need for intimacy with other-sex partner

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late adolescence in Sullivans stage:

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need for integration into adult society

18
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need for intimacy appears during:

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preadolescence and serves as foundation upon later romantic relationships

19
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intimacy develops in same sex or other-sex?

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same sex

20
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forming intimate friendship during preadolescent years is:

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necessary for development of close relationships

21
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the basic assessment of attachment:

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the “strange situation” paradigm used with infants

22
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secure attachment:

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healthy attachment between infant and caregiver characterized by trust

23
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anxious avoidant attachment:

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an insecure attachment between infant and caregiver, characterized by indifference on the part of infant toward caregiver

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anxious resistant attachment:

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insecure attachment between infant and caregiver, characterized by distress at separation and anger at reunion

25
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disorganized attachment:

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relationship between infant and caregiver characterized by the absence of normal attachment behavior

26
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attachment is more broadly seen as a determinant of how you:

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relate to others and how you see the world at large

27
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the age at which you begin dating is influenced by the:

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NORMS AND EXPECTATIONS IN YOUR PEER GROUP AND COMMUNITY

28
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dating begins earlier among adolescents who: (3)

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  1. have older siblings
  2. are less close to their parents
  3. live with single mothers, especially if the mother is sexually active herself
29
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how do interactions with romantic partners change?

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they become more complex with increasing willingness to acknowledge, analyze, and work through disagreements

30
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reasons for dating: (4)

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  1. establishing emotional and behavioral autonomy from parents
  2. furthering the development of gender identity
  3. establishing and maintaining stats and popularity in peer group
  4. influencing how they will be seen by others
31
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ages of first discovery of interest in socializing with potential romantic partners:

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11-13

32
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ages where a shift toward more meaningful relationships:

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14-16

33
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ages where there are concerns about commitment and long term survival

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17 or 18

34
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the phases of acting for lgbtq adolescents may:

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differ based on stigmas and stereotypes

35
Q

entering a serious romantic relationships before is is normative is associated with:

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wide range of negative correlates

36
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adolescents who do not date at all show signs of:

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retarded social development and feelings of insecurity

37
Q

the breakup of a romantic relationship is the single most common trigger of:

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the first episode of major depression

38
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breaking up ___ ___ have severe effects on __ adolescents:

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does not; all

39
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violence increases between: but then becomes:

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early adolescence and mid adolescence; somewhat less common

40
Q

violence is more common in which kinds of areas:

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rural areas

41
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intergenerational transmission of violence:

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how adolescents deal with conflict in their romantic relationships is linked to models they have had at home