Lecture 1 Flashcards
(56 cards)
What is the need to belong?
We have a foundational need to belong, want frequent interactions, suffer if they don’t have close contact & why relationships are formed
What is the psychological definition of relationship?
mutual influence on a person’s thoughts, feelings, & behavior on another person’s thoughts, feelings, & behaviors (interdependence of people over time)
What is interdependence?
two (or more) people influence one another
What is an intimate relationship?
High levels of knowledge, caring, trust, responsiveness, commitment, & mutuality
What is knowledge?
Intimate partners have extensive personal, usually confidential information about each other
What is mutuality?
Intimate partners tend to think of themselves as a couple instead pf 2 separate people, index of perceived closeness
What is caring?
Intimate partners have more affection for one another than for most other people
What is trust?
Intimate partners expect fair & honorable treatment
What is responsiveness?
Intimate partners are attentive to each other’s needs & support each other better than they do most others
What is commitment?
Intimate partners expect their relationship to continue, and they work to realize that goal
Are mutuality, knowledge, caring, trust, responsiveness, & commitment required for an intimate relationship?
No, think about couples in therapy, temporary separations, & intimate partner violence. However, the most satisfying & meaningful relationships are high in these aspects
What are the major influences on relationships?
History & culture, learning & personal experiences, gender tendencies & individual differences and evolution & biology
What are some of the changes that have occurred in North America?
Fewer marriages, waiting longer to marry, living together before marriage, kids before marriage, more divorce, and 2 income families are the normal
Why has there been a change in norms?
Increasing socioeconomic development, feminism (women favoring education & employment delays sexual behavior, relationship formation, and reproduction), increasing individualism, pursuit of personal fulfilment, Technological innovations (the pill, porn, the internet/phones), Increasing visibility & emancipation of LGBTQ2SA+ & nonmonogamies, & changes in the sex ratio
What are the implications of a culture having a high sex ratio?
Cultures with high sex ratio (more men) tend to be more sexually conservative & traditional in gender roles
What are the implications of cultures having a low sex ratio?
Cultures with a low sex ratio (more women) tend to be more sexually permissive & egalitarian (equality)
What is social comparison theory?
learn about our own & our partners abilities, attitudes, assets, & traits by comparing ourselves and partners with other people
What are upward social comparisons?
happens when comparing ourselves or our parents to a target that is superior, diminishes our or our partner’s perceived value but can motivate effort to improve
What are downward social comparisons?
happens when comparing us or our partner to a target that is inferior to us, increase our or our partner’s perceived value
What are some individual differences?
sex/gender differences, personality, self-esteem, and sexual orientation
What are sex differences?
biological distinctions between men, women, & intersex people
What are gender differences?
Social & psychological distinctions created by our cultures and upbringing
What is biological sex?
Defined by genetics, gonads, endocrinology, internal morphology, & external morphology
What is gender?
Defined by birth assigned sex/gender, identity, self-presentation/expression, & internalized social roles