Liking, love, and other close relationships Flashcards

(37 cards)

1
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What neurotransmitter is essential for bonding between individuals?

A

Oxytocin

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What are the 4 Attachment Styles?

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Secure, Fearful-Avoidant, Dismissive, Preoccupied

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3
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70% of human infants develop which type of attachment style?

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Secure Attachment Style

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Secure Attachment style

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High self esteem, High in interpersonal trust, Most successful style, long-lasting and satisfying relationships

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Fearful Avoidant Attachment style

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low self esteem, low in interpersonal trust, unable to form close relationships

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Preoccupied Avoidant Attachment style

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low self esteem, high in interpersonal trust, self-destructive, craves closeness

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Dismissive Attachment style

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High self esteem, low in interpersonal trust, expects the worst from others

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8
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Where does attraction start?

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Proximity and Mere Exposure

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Physical Attractiveness Stereotype

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Association between physical attraction and good personal characteristics “whats beautiful is good”

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What factors most likely lead to long-term relationships?

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Both parties are of equal attractiveness and share similar attributes

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Matching Phenomenon

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tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a “good match” in attractiveness and other traits

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Friendship and Attraction Reciprocity

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If we find out that someone likes us, we tend to like them back

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Proportion of similarity

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Divide topics of similarity by total number of topics discussed, the higher the outcome the higher the attraction

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Excitation transfer

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The stimulation from one stimulus can be transferred onto another stimulus

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Passionate Love

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intense longing for one another, thrilling, roller-coaster of emotions

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Companionate Love

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calm and stable, shared values and life experiences, deep sense of trust

17
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Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg)

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Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment

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What are the 8 types of love that are result of the Triangular Theory of Love?

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Non-love, Liking, Romantic Love, Companionate love, Consummate love, Infatuation, Fatuous love, and Empty love

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Non-love

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None of the three components present

20
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Liking

21
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Romantic love

A

Intimacy + Passion

22
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Companionate love

A

Intimacy + Commitment

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Consummate love

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Intimacy + Passion + Commitment

24
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Infatuation

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Empty Love
Commitment
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Fatuous Love
Passion + Commitment
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Intimacy
feelings of closeness and connectedness
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Passion
physical attraction and sexual consummation
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Commitment
decision to be in love and to stay in love
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Social Exchange Theory
People based behaviours on maximizing benefits and minimizing costs, *the pros out-weigh the cons*
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Equity Theory
Relationships are the best when we give as much as we get, and get as much as we give
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Investment model
The more resources (time, energy, self-disclosure) we put into a relationship, the higher our commitment
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What 4 conflict styles can be very unhealthy for a relationship?
Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling
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Stonewalling
delay or block (a request, process, or person) by refusing to answer questions or by giving evasive replies, especially in politics *Emotional Withdrawal*
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Negative attributional style
when we automatically explain a partner’s actions in negative ways
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What are the 4 factors of Investment model of relationships?
Satisfaction, investment size, quality of alternatives, commitment
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Dissolution
closing down or dismissal of an assembly, partnership, or official body