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1

________ shatters relationship.

Sin

2

Choice + Relationship = __________

Change

3

What are the steps to the fear dance?

I:
Want
Hurt
Fear
React

You:
Hurt
Want
Fear
React

4

What is an adult?

One who is fully capable of being responsible for themselves and who fully accepts that responsibility.

5

Knowing who you are + Responsibility = _______

Freedom

6

What is the 3rd law of boundaries?

The Law of Power?

7

In the law of power, you have the power to:

1. Agree with the truth about your power
2. Submit your inability to God
3. Search, ask God and others to reveal more about what is within your boundaries.
4. Turn from evil you find within you.
5. Humble yourself and ask God to help your developmental injuries.
6. Seek out those who have injured you and make amends.

8

A river without boundaries is just a ______.

Flood

9

The external problem is _____ the problem.

rarely

10

compassion + understanding =

safety

11

How should we treat emotions?

Think of them like they are God's information system.

12

"The words said are..."

"...rarely the words meant."

13

"We cannot give to others..."

"...What we don't have."

14

What is the 1st service of leadership?

Working on your own completion.

15

Loneliness and isolation increase the likelihood of disease and premature death by ______.

200-500%

16

6 New ways of breaking the functionality functional system?

1. Take control
2. Take responsibility
3. Don't allow manipulation
4. Don't look to others
5. Be the CEO
6. Recruit assistants

17

Pardon + Caring =

Forgiveness

18

4 Ways to respect the wall?

1. Honor others
2. Suspend Judgement
3. Value the different
4. Trust and be trustworthy

19

Define Boundaries:

Personal property line which marks those things which we are responsible for

20

Myths concerning boundaries:

1. If I set boundaries I am being selfish
2. Boundaries are a sign of disobedience
3. If I begin to set boundaries I will be hurt by others
4. If I set boundaries, I'm hurting others
5. Boundaries mean that I am angry
6. Boundaries can cause feelings of guilt
7. Boundaries are permanent
8. If I set boundaries I'll burn bridges

21

Someone who is constantly rescuing is the _____.

codependent

22

What are the 3 types of conflict?

1. Intrapersonal
2. Interpersonal
3. Substunative conflict