normal conversation Flashcards

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meta honesty

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be honest about what you are feeling when you are talking to someone like nervous with girls scared with teacher

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risk and nonrisk

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you have to balance the risk and nonrisk things risk like aksing questions cracking jokes where you left vulnerability where you can be easily attached specially if you can clarify this builds a real good impression

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3
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Respect likeability and trust

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disagreement in conversation builds respect while likeability is built by agreement
and when you stand out and manage both you build both this has to be managed in person
friends respect while girls likeability

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4
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make the next person speak mores

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the mores the next person speaks more the like you also make sure that you also give a statement in every answer and don’t ask too many questions

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5
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Learn to give emotions to people

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like fear fantasy humour and all

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6
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making people agree directly

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directly don’t give opinion listen to them go with them make them listened and then after some times give an opinion

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7
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Emotions

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learn to have emotions while talking altering voice modulation

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8
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peel the onion

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asking them why they did that what motivated them

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9
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mirroring

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mirror the last their word it makes them feel heard

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10
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after giving them your opinion

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let them explain what they understand

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11
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talk something absurd

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this helps you build rapport and makes the next person soo comfortable

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12
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Taking to introverted

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go slowly let them lead soften their edges see what people are scared of when you show your weakness they will show their weakness

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13
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get to things that excite them

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aakh me chamak or large eyes

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