Of Parents And Children Flashcards
(21 cards)
Why are the joys and griefs of parents often secret?
Because parents struggle to express joy and choose to hide their worries and fears.
How do children affect the life of their parents?
They make work more joyful but make misfortunes harder to bear.
What effect do children have on thoughts about death?
They make parents less afraid of death because they leave something behind.
What makes humans different from animals in terms of legacy?
Animals reproduce too, but humans can leave behind memories, achievements, and noble works.
Why do childless people often create great works?
They express their minds and try to leave a legacy since they have no children to carry it on.
Who often cares most about future generations?
Those who have no children of their own.
How do self-made people view their children?
As the continuation of both their family line and the work they’ve done in life.
Do parents always treat their children equally?
No, sometimes they show favoritism, which can be unfair—especially mothers.
What does the quote from Solomon mean?
A wise child brings joy to the father, but a disrespectful one brings shame to the mother.
How are children often treated differently in large families?
Eldest are respected, youngest are spoiled, and middle ones are often overlooked.
What is the consequence of ignoring middle children?
They may grow up to be the most capable or successful, despite being overlooked.
What happens when parents are too stingy with money?
Children may feel ashamed, find dishonest ways to get money, mix with bad company, and overindulge later.
What does Bacon say is the best way to raise children financially?
Maintain authority, but don’t be overly strict with money.
Why does Bacon criticize encouraging rivalry between siblings?
Because it often leads to fights and broken relationships later in life.
How do Italians treat their own children compared to nephews and close relatives?
They treat them almost the same, caring more about family ties than bloodline.
What point does Bacon make about genetics and family resemblance?
A nephew may sometimes resemble an uncle more than his father—because of how genetics work.
When should parents decide their children’s future paths, according to Bacon?
Early in life, because children are more flexible and easier to guide then.
Should children always follow their own interests?
Not always—unless they have a clear talent or passion. Otherwise, habit can help them succeed in what their parents choose.
What does the Latin phrase “optimum elige, suave et facile illud faciet consuetudo” mean?
“Choose the best path, and habit will make it pleasant and easy.”
hat does Bacon say about younger brothers?
A: They are often lucky, but problems arise if the older brother is unfairly left out of inheritance.
who is the author of parents and children
Francis Bacon
