Process Of Change Flashcards
The purpose of change is for us to be more
Christlike
The product of change is walking in _________, repentance, and faith.
Truth
The product of change is a healthy _______ with God and others.
Relationship
The first step in the process of change is a truth _________.
Encounter
___________ is the source of truth (John 14:6)
Jesus
We provide a _________ for people to see the lies and hear the truth through careful listening.
Context
People need to _________ what they presently believe before the truth can truly affect them. Listening helps people be honest about their faulty beliefs.
Admit.
How we listen:
Listen Emphathize Ask Reflect Needs
The goal of truth in the process of change is to help a person:
- Build Trust
- Identify Lies
- Identify God’s Truths
- Verbally agree with the truth at a heart level
Repentance is a _________ to follow God’s truth.
Decision
People ______ repentance by doing the “pendulum swing”
Avoid
There are two unhealthy responses to God’s truth: _______ and ______
Rebellion and Religion
Rebellion says
I can’t
Religion says
I must
The alternative to the pendulum swing is ________ and _________
Repentance and Faith
Repentance is a two-part __________ of turning from sin and turning to God.
Process
Turning from _________ requires confessing and forsaking it.
Sin
Turning to God requires committing a new _________ of faith and obedience toward God.
Direction
Confrontation is _________ if the person does not understand his sin or if he makes excuses for why he sins.
Necessary
Step one: _________ them and your relationship
- Did you first ask about the issue and listen
- Are you motivated by love
- Is this an appropriate time
Affirm
Step Two: _________ one issue.
- Did you provide biblical support
- Did you give specific examples
- Did you give an opportunity to repent
Correct
Step Three: _________ their faith and obedience.
- Do they know what to believe and what to do differently?
- When will you follow up?
Encourage
The two essential ______ that drive us are security and significance
Needs
_________ is our longing for unconditional love (relationships)
Security